A friend of mine started to like me a while ago. We have been friends since about 2nd,3rd grade. He has gone with my ex-bestfriend 4 times but they aren't together anymore and she has a new man anyway. But the other problem is that he is best friends with my ex-boyfriend (who goes with my ex-best friend). I like him back and we flirt non-stop but what if it doens't work? I think me and him are good friends but we are always playing and making sexual passes at each other. I feel bad and down when I don't see him and I accept him as he is (cute, tall and kinda smart), but his friends an I all have some sort of history. What to do, his friends are all giving us the look and I don't wanna risk their friendship. Should we stay flirty friends or go for it? We are both 15 and close will this affect us if we go for it and it doesn't work out?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? googlyeyes answered Friday April 8 2005, 10:10 pm: i say go for it. just MAKE SURE, before you even start going out, you guys make a promise that NO MATTER WHAT, you will be friends if your bf/gf relationship ends. as for his friends, have him talk to them, they should be alright with you guys going out. and if he doesnt care that you guys have history, sounds like it shouldnt be a big deal right?update me!
karenR answered Friday April 8 2005, 1:18 am: It shouldn't affect anything so long as you make an agreement right up front that you'll try it and if it doesn't work for either of you...no hard feelings. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
flyaway answered Thursday April 7 2005, 6:02 pm: Your ex best friend is with your ex boyfriend, who is best friends with your guy right? And your guy went out with your ex best friend?
Well I don't think she'd see it as a problem if you went out with the guy - she is going out with your ex after all.
And about the guy - do you like him in that way? Do you think you could make it work? If you think you could stay friends if the two of you broke up, I think you should go for it.
Rejection hurts but you'll never know if you never try!
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