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Devorse
okay i have a friend in argentina and her mom and dad got devorsed the other day and her and her mom and to move in to someone else's house becuase the dad is like going to jail becuase he is a really really really bad person!!! My friend is always sending me e-mail and seems really sad!!! How can i mak eher feel better i fell bad for her!!!!! I mean she does not have very many friends either and a lot of peole make fun of her!!!! How can i help her feel better at least a little better? THank you in advance!!! I rate high!!!!! :)
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go out and visit her, and spend some time with her and let her know how much you care about her. remind her that it will be ok. tell her to stand up for herself to the poeple that make fun of her. try to make her laugh and get out and do stuff!!
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Well first off, what happens was meant to happen. You've heard that everything happens for a reason, right? Well it does, even if you can't see the reason. Its kind of like the saying 'Don't long for people from your past, there is a reason they never made it to your future'. Plus, chances are she will be able to see her dad, even if he is in jail. When she is around her mother or her father seperately, they will probably be happier now that they dont have bad thoughts hanging over them. All you can do is be there for her, give her reassurance, and be an ear. As for the friends thing, having alot of friends is not important, If you have one good friend, your doing better than alot of people. You sound like a good friend so dont worry about that. Hope I helped, if you need anything else just ask me.
Best Wishes,
~Nokomis~
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The only thing that you can do is stick by herside. Let her know that you love her, and that you will always be there for her. Try to pick up the phone every once-in-awhile to call and check on her and see how her day went. Write her letters on pretty stationary and send her cards just because. Take some time out of your week to write her a meaningful email. What she needs is a friend right now, and it seems as if you are already that.
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You just continue to be a very good friend. Let her talk to you. She needs to talk more than anything. It probably doesn't really matter what you say in return.She knows you care and that you are there. Thats the important thing.
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The best thing to do is, don't get involved!!! Leave it be, and never talk about the subject, and don't let her talk about it either. There's not much you can do from your computer screen, and on emails, you can't really see how someone is feeling! so send her smiley faces :) and always talking about happy things. Don't pity her, there are probably some good things going for her!
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All you can really do is be there for your friend. Be there for her and show her that you love her and care for her. Tell her that everything will be okay and if she ever needs anything that she can alawys count on you no matter how far away you guys live. x0
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