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Boyfriend and mom problems
Ok...ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks and i love him with all my heart. Im only 14 but i know what love is. My mom said i cant see him that much. He lives about 30 min. away from me so i want to see him as much as possible. I walked out on her a few minutes ago and i dont intend to go home tonight. I dont really know what to do because she thinks im to young to be in love and i cant get her to understand that i really do love him. What should i do??
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If this is the first time you've ever felt that way, I'm sorry to say it will not last and you'll soon learn that it's merely hormonal puppy love.
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First you should go home, even if you think you are in love with this guy you can'twalk away from your family because they have your best interest at heart. If you want to be able to see him then maybe have him and your mother meet and caht (all 3 of you) and then maybe she'll let you see him a little more even if it isn't as much time as you'd like. Maybe this is true love but then again it might not be, you should give it time before you assume that you'll be in ove forever. if it does last then good luck but don't run out on your mother for a guy, that's the first sign that something's wrong, if you can't defend him without running out, running out shows that you aren't really secure and that you are starting to believe that your mother id right a little bit. Think things through and work them out together, and let your boyfriend know about this stuff he can help you too.
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Well you probably should have left the word love out of it. The thing is you are 14. You can't let this come between you and your mom. If he's the same age and he lives 30 minutes away, you probably won't see much of him anyway. So I think it will work out fine.
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Your mom is just looking out for you. Right now, you see yourself with him, can you see yourself with him forever? Most of the time...parents know what's best...especially mom's, because they too, were in love! She just doesn't want her little girl growing up so fast!
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calm the hell down and pray to the almighty creator that she doesn't thrash the crap out of you when you do get home.
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