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Tangled mess
A few days ago this guy (guy A I think...) called me and asked me out. I said yes and I knew he'd liked me for ages. But I haven't told that many people about me and this guy. But I have this male friend (Guy B!!) and his sister says he really likes me. I was at his house the other day and she was making jokes, so I very quietly told her about me and guy A and asked her to stop with the jokes. She was really shocked and kept saying "But 'B' really likes you!" and everything. Now she is accusing me of leading him on because I haven't told him about guy A. I don't want to lose any of their friendship, and I don't want to lose my boyfriend!
What should I do?
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Well, I don't think you were leading GUy B on, since you don't like him as more than a friend *if my opinion counts at all ..^__^* You had your personal reasons for not telling a lot of people about you and Guy A and Guy B's sister should respect that..
You just have to try to set Guy B straight as to whom you really like... Try to tell him that you really do value your friendship...
Oh, and good luck to your relationship with GUy A.. ^___^
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first of all, friends are more important then boyfriends. i know thats hard to hear, but its the truth. now if you dont like that advice, then i say have a serious convo. with 'guy b'. tell him youve liked 'guy a' and now youre going out with him, but you still want to be friends. if he doesnt like the fact of you having a boyfriend, chances are he will never like it until hes over you, so u can either stay friends with him, or then let him down easy and say its time for you to get wat u want and to be with 'guy a'. let me know how it goes!
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well it all dependes on who you like better... guy A or guy B........ you are sure that guy A&B are not the same person right? also u can tell Guy A&B how you feel about them but be nice about it
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You go out with guy A. He asked first (especially since you already said yes). There's no law that says you have to go out with him again if you don't hit it off.
If guy B likes you as much as they say, he will go out with you after that. Guy B should have moved faster is all! You can't read his mind.His sister saying he likes you just isn't good enough because you might have waited forever for him to ask you out.
Hopefully your friends can understand that.
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you should stay with your boyfriend! you wont lose a friendship with the other guy if you stay in touch with him, hang out, and stay cool with his sister. no guy deserves to be dumped for another guy! i wouldn't consider you leading him on, unless you told him you liked him or something. he might be upset for now, but everything with him will pass, and just focus on your new relationship for now.
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You dont have to loose your boyfriend just tell your friend that you have a boyfriend. Tell his sister that you arnt leading him on. x0
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