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Ok im sorry if it long but I just dont know what to do.
I met this girl (Sarah) she waas new in the beggning of the year. We turned out to be best friends. We did everytihng sleepovers, movies mall everything. All along there was this girl(Julie) who for some reason really badly wanted me to just leave so she could move in and take my spot as bff with Sarah. Ok so i ahd to miss school for 6 days right b4 april vacation. When i came back i saw SArah i nthe hall and expected a OMG YOUR BACK and stuff but she ignored me wehn i ran up to her to say hello. I was shocked!The hole week Sarah woyld leave Julies side. SArah would talk about hoe she hated the wa JUlies makep was and know she wearing it the same way. THat left me with no one, i eventually started to hang out with other people but still miss SArah as a friend ot talk to and hang around with. She not the same. I dont no what happend during those 6 days. Now about 2 or 3 months later whe ni tohught evrything would pass it didnt. I know it been a long time but i dont know.
Sorry its soo long
please any advice would be helpful!
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I think what turned out happening was that this Julie girl started talking to Sarah about you. Not to jump to conclusions but that's the most likely thing that happened unless Sarah was holding some bad feelings toward you on a little situation and Julie just added to it. I think you should try and talk to Sarah and ask her what happened, maybe call her or talk to her when she's not arund Julie. I can't promise that the feelings of wanting your bestfriend back will go away because mine haven't yet (same situation except they were both my best friends and then one got mad at me and turned the other against me too). But from experience all I can promise is that it will get easier and maybe you will realize that Sarah may not have been such a good friend if she turned away from you so easily
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does she have a screename? if she does ask her on the juss dont say hay ... say Sarah wut is wrong? please tell me or pass her a note sryy!
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Well, first, I think you should talk to her. Ignoring her like there was nothing wrong will not solve anything. It will just make you miss her more since there's more time for you to dwell on your friendship.
Maybe you should try to make it a threesome with Sarah and Julie. I mean, it might turn out that you and Julie have a lot in common, so you might really hit it off. Also, you can spend time with Sarah besides.
If that doesn't work, I really think you should talk to her. If she doesn't talk to you, then it might mean that your whole friendship didn't mean as much to you as it did to her.
If you won't try to change the situation you're in, you might regret it. It's not necessarily your fault, but you'd still blame yourself, thinking again and again, "What could I have done to change this?"
If nothing works, and you've tried your very best, then she's not worth it. YOu might have fun with her but trust me, you'll have more fun with other people who like you for who you are and not just because they can't find another friend. You'd enjoy someone who chose you for you, and not because she had no other friend for the time being.
Hope everything works out!
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Same happened when i was in grade 5 I used to go to america alot for vacation during school year and my best ever mate ellen would hang round with these "Twins" who we named the bumer twins. Id go back to school and the bumer twins had made ellen into a clone of them! it pissed me off so bad and i was so glad to move to my next school!
lush me x
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I'd just continue to leave it alone. Maybe she will realize someday that she made a mistake. I hope so.
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Wow, I have the same problem. My friend Kristi did the same thing with this girl Sarah Creel. I didn't know what to do either, but then I thought "Me and Kristi have been friends for 6 years, and she hasn't changed, I just have to bring her back" So I went through my photo album and mad a collage of how good of friends we were, she then realized how much she had ignored me, so we began talking more and more. We still aren't excactly best friends, but we are close. And if your friend doesn't stop hanging out with that other girl, I wouldn't make a big deal o it as long as she still talks to you, Kristi still hangs out with Sarah a ot, but we always talk, and I try to make sure I don't take her away from Sarah
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