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the boy as a girlfriend
i like this boy but he has a gf. He flirts with me all the time, more than he even talks to her. The girlfriend is also my friend so i wouldn't want to hurt her but he is so cute and funny. I'm attracted to him. He calls me hobbit because i am exactly a foot shorter than him. he's 6 ft and i'm 5 ft. Whenever we are talking and flirting we have fun but then his gf comes along and he stops. Once we had this chatroom thing with me, him, and his gf (i'm friends with tho) and it was one of the most awkward thing for me. I don't know...it was fun and we were alltalking but at one point it was all me and him and it was so nice. Please help-i can't tell him that i like him tho cuz he does have a gf and she will get mad at me and not be my friend even tho she suspects and it and all her other friends do too
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Don't make a move, don't tell him you like him, don't do anything. Find someone else to crush on. He is irresponsible and doesn't respect his girlfriend. If you and he were to start going out, what would keep him from flirting with someone else behind your back?
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If they all know (or suspect) how you feel, he probably does too. Just continue the friendship. If you both want more later then deal with it then. But, I think he probably knows how you feel. Let him approach you.
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If this guy flirts with you when he has a girlfriend, whats to say he wouldn't flirt with other girls if he went out with you?
And if its your FRIEND that he's going out with - well how would you feel if your boyfriend and your friend were flirting, which you knew about, but then they went out?
I think you are at risk of damaging your friendship with this girl. She obviously suspects something which isnt good - but you shouldn't betray your friend.
If I were you I would stay well away.
This guy sounds like trouble - for you and for your friend.
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I think that you should tell him how you feel, even if it might be awkward, since his GF is ur friend. Maybe he likes you too, and that'll be good to know if they ever break up because then if he does, he will ask you out. Then if he tells your friend that you like him, just explain to her how you dont want to hurt her and would never do anything to go against your friendship. She should be able to understand, and she wont get too too mad, if shes a true friend.
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I say you go for it. Let him know how you feel if you trust him enough to not tell her. Then if he feels the same then you should take it from there but if not then you two can remain friends it will be as though nothing happened.
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Why dont you wait for people to answer your other question first?
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the only things you can do is either be honest with them both and tell them how youre feeling or just stop thinking about it. think about whether or not you'd be willing to lose a friend or whether you would rather loseyour feelings for him.
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