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My friend T (shes 14) lost her baby in feb.. and obviously she is really upset.. but i dont no how to comfort her and make her feel better.. cuz its not like i can be like everythings gonna be ok.. because its not gonna be.. and this entire week she was sick and today she got really sick in school and Couldn't move so they took her to the hospital.. and i feel bad for that.. How would I comfort her in These 2 situations
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There is no sorrow... abosultely none.. which can be matched as that of losing a child.
Chances are you cannot, no matter how much you wish to, relate to her fully as of now. Be there to give hugs, and try to give her time. And if you believe in "all that" pray if it would comfort you.
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she lost her baby? at 14?damn! any way i think you should visit her at the hospital. buy her flowers and a card. get her a baby doll! lol. hope i helped
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Just be there for her to lean on. Tell her its not her fault.
I'm sure there is a lot of things going through her head right now. She's only 14. I'm sure there were times when she wished she wasn't pregnant. She may now feel like it's her fault that she lost the baby. Of course it isn't her fault but she may think so. Just be there for her
because she has a lot to get through.
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serves her right for having sex at such an early age
hahahhaha im sorry im not stupid like that to do sumn like get pregnant and i cant get ne one pregnant bitch IM A GIRL!! and your probly not
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You're not going to be able to make it better for your friend. She's probably having a very hard time right now if she wanted the baby.
What you're going to need to do is offer her a shoulder to cry on. Be extra-nice. Make her cookies or walk her to class. Tell her you're here for her if she ever wants to talk--and she might not want to. She might just need someone not to force her to talk. Just be as supportive as you can and let her know that you're there if she ever needs someone.
Just be there for her. Don't pull away. Hug her. Be close to her.
She probably needs someone to support her. Just stay by her side and be a friend.
Good luck.
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