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Split decision
Im 14, female, and i have this really great bf that goes to my school i eat lunch with and is in one of my classes. on the other hand we've been going out for 5 months and i feel like we do the same thing all the time and like hes getting bored or sumthing. Then i have a really good other guy friend that i havent known for that long, which i met through my bf, and i think i like him, and i know he likes me, please help im so lost and confused~
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talk to your boyfriend. tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. Then if you don't think yall going out is the right thing, tell him that. And then definitely wait awhile before going out with your other friend, but I'd say after awhile you should go for it. Hope I helped. <3 Manda
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well its a really bad idea to cheat on him because that will get you in deeper confusion and its though not wrong its not right to like another boy whill your going steady with one.I think telling your boyfriend that hes not very um... exiting
Solemnstar
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Well, do what your heart tells you to...if yu like your boyfriend more, then stay with him but if not then go with the other guy....but dont wait to long to do that or else it might get harder to do...I hope I have answered what you were looking for...if you need more, you can email me at hallwayfiesta44@ev1.net or IM me on donutbandit 00
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Okay Hun, I think i know what you're going through. Try doing something new with you're boyfriend. Like, go to a different restruant or something like that. And if you love your boyfriend you should probably get over his friend soon. Because you will relize how great your boyfriend is. Well if you need anymore help you can find me here OR you can IM me on CoKeIzZle X 13 !! HoPe I HeLpEd xOxO ~NiCoLe
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well i dont think yu should give up hope on yur bf! just talk to him about it tell him some things are just gettinq boriinq.. ii think yur startiinq to like his friend because things have been very boriinq! hehe just talk to him tell him how yu feel! but dont give up on him i mean just cause somethings YU n HIM do things the same doesnt mean yu should break up!!` [[its both of yur fault not just one persons]] h0pe ii help3d x0-
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make a pro and con list. list both of these guys names and write good things and bad things about each. who ever has more bad things written and the most good things you should go with. and to make your bf 'less bored' you should invite im places, like dances, out to dinner on vacation with your family. hope i helped!
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If you think about it, 5 months is a long time because relationships where I live don't even last a month. If you like your guy friend and if he likes you, then break up with your boyfriend and go out with. You can always just talk to your boyfriend and tell him that your relationship is breaking apart, since you always do the same things. Why don't you do something different? I would just stay with your boyfriend and try to fix this relationship with him because if you dump him and go out with your guy friend, it may be a mistake.
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Well....if you dont like who your going out with then break up...but if you think he is getting board then ask him...thats the only way you will know for sure...then you have to choose who you would rather go out with...sometimes its hard but one of them is prob. right for you...im not much help on this but if u need anything else jsut ask!
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if you feel like you need to make your dates more exciting go to a different place or do something different. also if you really are not correcting with this guy you have been going out with for five months see if things change if not let him down EASY. i know that when i guy gets dumped he is really sad on the inside even though he won't show it. as for this new guy wait till you know him better also your boyfriend would pretty mad if you dated his friend. if your not sure about my advice ask solemnstar. he is good with advice and i good kid i know because i go to school with him. also can you give me a rating. i want to become a level 1 moderator on this site
thank you
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