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Ur a 78 pound 13 year old? Me too. 78 pounds and proud. I'm just one inch taller than u. I'm from Asia too! (link)
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lol ok...
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Hey Triple.G person. Yeah, I'm a 15/m, and I think I'm a pervert. I get turned on sooo quickly. For a fifteen year old, I've had sex a lot. And it isn't just normal sex. I have oral sex too. And I'm always looking at anything with nudity. I can never seem to get enough. I always feel guilty about my pervertedness. How can I stop? Thanks for whatever you'll say to me. (link)
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Being 15 means that you've reached a point in your life where it's normal to want to feel pleasure. There is nothing wrong with you. But if you want to stop, it'll be hard. Try a counsellor, they might help. And when you get turned on, try getting it off your mind. Get something to eat of watch T.V., or go where a lot of people are. Hope this is good! %)
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okay my friend she's 15 and she really likes her boyfriend and stuff and she talked to his friends and they said that he is only dating her for 2 reason: to make out with her and to make someone else jealous. I would try to help her more but i don't know what to do. She then asked him if it was true and he got mad. If you guys read this answer asap i need your help as soon as possible. If your a "guy" then i'd love to hear your advice to thanx :)
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Hi person who I've never met. i'm sick of starting off my answers with Well, and first of all, and technically, so this time i'll write person I've never met. Well, about yor question, I would open your friend to the possibilities. Does she know for a fact that what her boyfriend's best friends say are true? Maybe they could be trying to get her away from him because a)they want her or b) they're jealous that this boy spends more time with her than they do with them. What do you think about him? Does he look like the bad type of person? Ask your best friend the same thing? Only time will tell, because sooner or later, he might let his true colors show and then you'll know if he's using her.
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okay so my boyfriend is a little younger than me and hes not a virgin .. and hes cheated in the past .. but i just found out about all this today from his bestfriend .. so what should i do? .. i really dont like the fact that hes not a virgin .. and he just turned 14 .. so HELP !!
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Hiya!!! If you are uncomfortable with the fact that he's not a virgin at such a young age, then he's not the one for you. Your perfect boyfriend or mate should be someone you are comfortable with. Also, how do you know if your best friend is telling the truth? She could just be saying that because she is jealous that you have a boyfriend, who maybe she likes.
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I was at a party and I was drunk and an older guy I met there forced me into doing stuff i didn't want to do, the worst part was he wasn't drinking. Im not sure what to do because i don't know whether to confront him about it. I feel like I was raped and I really don't know what to do to get through this. (link)
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Well, rape or sexual abuse, you need to tell some adult about this. I know it would be difficult, especially since you will have to tell them you were drunk, but if this guy did this to you, he will do it to others. He doesn't care about you, so why should you care about him? Girl, tell someone and get his abusive ass in jail. Oh, and you might want to see a counselor.
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im 15
this happened a while ago but i still am not sure...so my bf fingered me then a week later broke up with me...
what im asking is: is fingering a big deal?
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Hi. No, fingering is not a big deal. How is a person taking their fingers, sticking "up there" moving it and pressing it and doing whatever important. It's only important for you when you get an orgasm. I doubt that your boyfriend broke up with you for that. Maybe you can ask him, or somehow find out.
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alright so me and this girl have been the best of friends since 1st grade. we were seriously inseperable up until about a month and a half ago. i think she has changed so much. for the first time we started partying and we met some new friends over spring break. well now she has been skipping school..shes failing the 10th grade. she doesnt do any work..she did have a problem with drinking but then she quit drinking as much. she yells at her parents and cusses them out if they ask her to help around the house. well lately its like i cant stand her. at first i like this guy alot and i started talking to him first but then he started liking her cause she was flirting with him constantly and they started hanging out and she made out with him and she knew that i really really liked him. she flirts with every guy that comes along. my other friend liked a guy and my best friend did stuff with him. on top of all that its like if i say something stupid she blows up on me and says "fuck you" and cusses me out even more. it seems like everyday we get into a small argument. like today.. we were in the lunch line and my friend asked how this guy we know found out about her and another guy and i said " well she might have told him" and my best friend blew up on me saying "i didnt fucken tell him so dont go blaming shit on me..you fucking always say and ask stupid shit" its like i cant stand her anymore. i dont want to lose her as a friend but i seriously think i am starting to hate her. and im not the only one that feels like this. 3 of her other friends feel the same way. what should i do?!?!?!? ILL RATE HIGH (link)
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Well, first of all, your friend is at a point in her life where it's normal for her to change. It may have been a bad influence, or maybe trouble at home. She probably could have had something bad happen to her that made her like that. Secondly, did you ever do anything bad to her before she started acting like this? Think carefully. Well, lay off her for a while. She's going through 'that stage.' Maybe in her adult years she'll calm down. If you still want to be friends by then, then try to rebuild your friendship. But for now, let her be.
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so I fantizise about my gf a lot. not like sex but like making out and stuff. we've never made out but I know she'd like it but I don't know how to tell her that I want some of these things without seeming like a perv. like making out and laying on a bed and stuff... laying between her legs and kissing her that kind if thing. how could I tell her that I want that or would it be better to just do it and see how she reacts?
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There's nothing perverted out of you wanting to get more physical with your girlfriend. An idea? Get into the romantic mood;a romantic movie, or some comfy place alone, like your house. If you know she'd like it if you and her made out, then she will make out with you when the moment is right.
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Okay. Well, I just turned 13, and I'm 5'7. The average weight for a person that is 5'7 is 135 lbs. I'm 130 but I feel over weight. I ask people that I know would tell me the truth if I was fat and they say no. I have large breasts as well, would that be a reason?
Am I fat?
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Okay. First of all, big breasts mean nothing. It just means that you went through puberty faster than some other girls. No, you are not fat. If you're under the average weight, you're underweight. By only 5 pounds. Your weight is fine, nothing to worry about. I'm someone who should be worried. I'm 13, I'm 5 ft exact, and I'm only 78 pounds. Can you say malnourishment? I know! Well anyway, it's natural to be concious of yourself. Your at a stage in your life where you be concerned about everything about yourself, and what people comment about you makes it worst. STop worrying!
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My ex boyfriend and I dated for almost 2 years, off and on, when he cheated on me back in March. I haven't talked to him since.
He's tried to call me and talk to me but I was too mad and hurt.
Well, on my birthday, he came to my house and gave me a 10 min. long apology. As my gift, he gave me 2 tickets to a concert (Dashboard Confessional--my FAVVV band) and asked me if I would go with him. I told him I'd think about it and call him.
When I got inside, I opened the envelope that the tickets were in and he had written me a note. It said how great I am and that I didn't deserve what he did to me, etc. He said that he knew that the concert doesn't make up for anything but he'd hope it'd be a start to our friendship.
So, I called him up and told him that I'd take him with me to the concert.
Then, about four days after my birthday (today) he calls me and tells me that he can't make the concert because he *night* be out of town that day!! WTF is that? If you buy tickets to something and want to go, then you'd know if you were going to be in town that day or not! Am I right?
What do you think his problem is?
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Hi there. Well, seeing it from your point of view, I can understand that you are upset. After all, this was supposed the start of your renewed relation. I say relation, it doesn't necessarily mean the boyfriend girlfriend type thing. After probably thinking that you and him would be able to start new, he blew it! Definitely disappointing.
However, lets look at it from your boyfriend's point of view. He probably wouldn't have done this on purpose, if he sincerely cared about you. Maybe this event just popped up. I don't think he would truly want to hurt you.
But looking at the beginning of your questions, it's truly obvious that you two argue a lot. An on and off relationship!!! If he's the oone starting the arguments, I suggest dumping him, or you could give him a third chance if you want. Your choice. If you start the arguments, then girl, pull your life together. Find the problem, fix it.
Then again, it does seem a little suspicious that he had to go for the night on the same day of your concert. If he was cheating on you before, he could do it again.
Hope I helped.
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now be honest when you see a person with acne or just some pimples maybe just a break out ... what do you think of them? do they seem ugly to you? would you talk to them even? become their friend? or are you grossed out and do you judge them right away, even if they are really pretty but have acne? (link)
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I don't really think the people are gross. They'd have to be picking thier nose and eating thier boogers before I thought anything. lol. Acne is too common to be grossed out by it.
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Okay, I am a 14 year old girl who recently started using tampons[[okay like two days ago]] My question is- is it suposed to hurt a little when you pull it out? Is it natural? or is it simply becuase im not used to it? please let me know. if it helps i will have my period for two years july 2nd. (link)
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it feels like that either you are a tight cherry or that you could not be used to it or that the tampon is to small for you there are diffrent reasons see if any of the examples go towards you well GOODLUCK !!
i hope this helps
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ok, im going to have sex for the first time, my bf and i've already planned it. 14/f, and DONT say im too young, im ready. anyways, i watched a few porn movies so i could get it down a bit, but i was wondering, do guys like it when girls like moan and have orgasms? thanks a lot. (link)
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yea i had sex for the first time when i was 13, so all those people saying your not ready, screw them. anyways, if i were you, i'd practice orgasming, but dont moan just to moan, do it when it feels good
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okay yes so me & my boyfriend kind of had sex yesterday... he put it in like half way yesterday & pulled it out because i was scared yaeh well i still bled. does that mean he popped it? but it was only in half way..yeah im hoping im stilll a virgin pleasee help me!!!! comment bac qickk! (link)
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no, sorry your not a virgin any more. if you want to, you can consider yourself, but if he put it in, and you bled, pretty much he poppedd your cherry
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if a guy you are making out with puts his hands on your boobs like ONTOP of your shirt, not under it, is that sexual harrasment or assault? what if while youi were making out he put his hands in the back pocket of your jeans and squeezed your butt? is that harrassment? thanks so much! (link)
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NO! he was just being intimate. if it makes you uncomfortable tell him!
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I don't think there's enough questions on advicenators that mention abortions. I assume there's more females on this site then males, so why does it seem like there are mainly pro-life supporters? We're women. Women with so many choices and laws that allow us those choices. I agree in having your own opinion, but never force it onto someone else. If someone is considering an abortion, why talk them out of it, bringing it up as a sin and disgusting? I'm proud to be pro-choice & you'd think nowadays more women would be. Why aren't you? (link)
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i am totally for abortions :) your body your choice
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I'm in really bad pain. My head is stuffed up, so is my nose. I've been achey all over, my head hurts. I've been so cold, yet so hot at the same time. I also have no appetite and my throat is killing me, feels like I have a ball in the back of my throat. I'm light headed and dizzy, I don't now what's wrong. Do you? Please help. (link)
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you either have a flu, or something WORSE. i'd go to a doctor right away if i were you
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okay.. anyway, i can't wear tank tops, cause i have these like pimples on my shoulders and my back, and its really disgusting, and whenever i do wear tank tops, i always try and cover them up, it just doesnt work.. so how do i get rid of these pimples? i've tried loads of things..
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if i were you, you should try somethingcalled benzaclin. its like AMAZING but its prescription. it will most likely get rid of your bacne in under a week
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well i the last 2 month a had my period for only 2 days! and this month i only had it really short. there was just a little blood in my underwear and the next day i go this really bad cold and now i never lost any blood since then? so whats going on??? is it something i have to worry about? please help
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yea, you can have your prd from between 2-8 days. it depends on the girls. soo, sometimes, youll start your period, and then a whole day, you wont get it, and you may get it again. if youve had your prd for under 3 years, the schedule isnt regulated yet, so theres nothing to worry baout
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14/f. I have ants in my room, and I already vacuumed as many as I can, but they keep coming back.& We don't have raid because it gives my mom a miagrane. Anything non-chemial that I can use to keep them away? (link)
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do not eat in your room for starters and keep vacumming goodluck!!
i hope this helps
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