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fantasizing.......
so I fantizise about my gf a lot. not like sex but like making out and stuff. we've never made out but I know she'd like it but I don't know how to tell her that I want some of these things without seeming like a perv. like making out and laying on a bed and stuff... laying between her legs and kissing her that kind if thing. how could I tell her that I want that or would it be better to just do it and see how she reacts?
thx!
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well look im a girl too and my bf prolly does that alot too because he likes me alot just never has the guts to do anything so heres what you do just when you feel like its perfect go in for it but gently look into her eyes man! Thats like a little signal that she knows what you wanna do man and then just move while your kissing her to whatever position you fantasize about lol :for example if your siting on the grassoutside with her atlike the park or something go in ans then .....you know what to do! dont tell her or anything SUPRRISE HER ! hope I helped
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There's nothing perverted out of you wanting to get more physical with your girlfriend. An idea? Get into the romantic mood;a romantic movie, or some comfy place alone, like your house. If you know she'd like it if you and her made out, then she will make out with you when the moment is right.
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You really dont have to tell her.Maybe make plans with her and watch a movie.Let her lay in your arms and let her be relaxed.When shes in your arms.Give her a little gentel kiss. Pull away and look into her eyes.Slowly kiss her again so that shes fine with it.Dont go all crazy on her.But the trick is to start of slow...touch her face softly and then kiss her alittle harder.Maybe that will help into the make-out thing you wanted.I hope it does help you alittle on what to do. : )
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aww Are you sure she isnt thinking the same thing. Honestly.. I think you should just go for it =]
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That is really cute, if you know that she's the kind of girl that likes that sort of thing than go for it!
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Well, my boyfriend of over a year, just came out and said it. But he's crazy so..I think maybe you should come out and tell her, she might feel the same way. Or, you could just do it, surprise her with little kisses at first, then move onto making out. She'll love it. Just when you decide to do it, don't like jump into and do it really hard, that will def. freak her out. Just make sure both of yall are having fun! :D
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Hun, that is perfectly normal. But, you could approach this situation in two ways.
1. You could tell her. You know her better than I do, so say it in a way you know she'd like it.
2. Just do it! Go ahead hold her hand, then kiss her, then make out... & so on until you are ready for anything else. I like it when my boyfriend goes slow with things, so I don't feel rushed.
Good luck! <3
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You aren't a "perv" darling, this is completely normal. I would say to start slow...maybe laying next to her on the couch, holding her hand one day. Start kissing while laying there the next day....build up from there. If you start slow, she can stop you if she starts to feel uncomfortable (as long as you aren't pushy)and you guys can build up to more.
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just straight up tell her! when your hanging out with her whisper in her ear that you wanna make out with her to make it more "sexy." if you're a teenager which i'm guessing you are, most girls want to make out with their boyfriend. i'm sure she fantasizes making out with you too. it's perfectly normal and i'm sure she wouldn't blow off her chance if you asked her to do it!! she'll probably be thrilled you had the courage to bring it up.
hope i helped ♥
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