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Im pretty new at this, but I wanted to get one because I usually know what I am talking about, I am only 13 but am pretty mature and usually know what I am talking about, Feel free to ask any questions.. bout anything. And about my picture... we will get a new one up ASAP. That is just the only one I had at the moment. I like many kinds of music. I usually wont say the bands I like because I HATE when good bands get out and all the POSERS start liking them. That us what is so wonderful about SKA

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I hate having to worry bout my period starting while I'm at a friends. I was wondering how can find out the date of when your period is supposed to start? also how do you know when your ovulating?

hmm. this is a good question. I have the same problem. When you find out can you send the answer to me ?
Thanks

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hey, um chelsea jody??iguess that your main name.....but anyways thanks for the advice, i am sure i was the one he gave you the advice about not taking a break because your going to kentucky and/or florida i forget, but just like you said keep loving them and all, and your pretty coool
thanks for the advice, (sn??or no??))

Aww thanks. Well Im only 13. But my screenname for AIM is... URxTOOxRAD
Thats what I thought bout you were the one who gave me the Kentucky advice
x0_Chelsea_0x
P.S. It was Chelsea Jody cuz I used to share this with her.

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i don't know what to do, she was my dream my life my mind my heart, but she wanted to take "a break" but a month later we still arn't back together, she once was my gf but not now, she likes me and i like her, i AM TRYING to get over her, but something just keeps making me come back for her....

ahh i need help people that have had this situation may have beetter answer BUT ALL answer

Aww I'm sorry. Well I am in the same situation. I want to take a "break" with my boyfriend too only I am not wanting to break up with him totally. But my reason is that I am going away for 5 weeks. Have you tried talking to her? If that doesnt work then just I know this will sound retarded, but, go places and try to meet other girls. You seem like a nice guy and i'm sure there are many other girls who would LOVE to have you. I hope my advice helped a little bit.

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My ex boyfriend and I dated for almost 2 years, off and on, when he cheated on me back in March. I haven't talked to him since.


He's tried to call me and talk to me but I was too mad and hurt.


Well, on my birthday, he came to my house and gave me a 10 min. long apology. As my gift, he gave me 2 tickets to a concert (Dashboard Confessional--my FAVVV band) and asked me if I would go with him. I told him I'd think about it and call him.


When I got inside, I opened the envelope that the tickets were in and he had written me a note. It said how great I am and that I didn't deserve what he did to me, etc. He said that he knew that the concert doesn't make up for anything but he'd hope it'd be a start to our friendship.


So, I called him up and told him that I'd take him with me to the concert.


Then, about four days after my birthday (today) he calls me and tells me that he can't make the concert because he *night* be out of town that day!! WTF is that? If you buy tickets to something and want to go, then you'd know if you were going to be in town that day or not! Am I right?


What do you think his problem is?

The problem is he is retarded or and idiot as the other person says. Well.. hopefully he didn't know he was going outta town until that niight? I dont know. But try calling him or something and talking to him about how you feel. But a question I am wanting to know is.. Do you still like him?
I hope i helped at all.

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So I have two really great friends. At one time we were all friends together. But last year, I was stuck in the middle, and my two friends stopped being friends. But I was still friends with each of them. Both of my friends have different 'groups' of friends, whom im in both groups. I'm having a party this Summer, and I want to invite all of my friends. (Which are my two friends, and BOTH of their groups.) I'm really stuck between who to invite, cause I love them both, but I know some fighting drama will most likely go down if they both come, and it'll all just be ruined. I really love both of them, and I feel if i don't invite one or the other, someone's feelings will get hurt. What should I do?

(PS - I can't have two different parties.)

Thank You!
xoxo

This happens to me a lot. I always try to get them back together, but it never works. So lately I just stay outta it (well try to) and if they try to fight over me, I just say im not going to choose and thing like that. Just have one party and Im sure the two groups will ignore eachother and everythign will be fine, and soon get over their fight. Sorry if this isnt much help.

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13/f
Ive noticed that in the past few days ive been crying all the time, and i dont know why, cos im happy, yesterday was great and its the half term so things are fun. But yesterday i was reading this book about two people in love and then they had this big emotional row and just because of that i started crying.
Then this morning i checked my email and there was this chain mail about how you dont realise how much you love your parents until theyre gone, which made a few tears come from my eyes. Then, i was just watching the streets new music video (where he sings about how he misses his father) and i almost cried.
I dont know why, as i hardly ever cry, why do i keep crying at all these little things?

Yeah most people this age does it. It's natural. Or it is just a time of the month thing. I hope you feel better =]

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my stomach is toned above my belly button. below..not so much. i have that little mini pouch thing under my belly button that everyone seems to have & never goes away but that doesnt really bother me. it's my sides. like when i wear jeans it bulges a littlee bit on the sides, and it looks retarted when i wear a bathing suit beccause the top part of my abs are good but the rest isn't.i do the flat ab workout thing every night from the latest seventeen, but its not really doing much. i eat pretty good, but i basically have no will power lol so its hard to beat cravings. so i was wondering what ways i could make the ugllly bulge goo awayyy ? hopefully by like, the end of june.

Well I think me and you have the same problem. For you is it like.. I think like your hips i think it is.. they go out? well that isnt great wording but I tried. See not to bragg but im really not that fat.. And no matter how much weight i lose it is still there, it's just something we have to deal with and get used to it. A lot of people say they dont notice it on me so it is prolly just some thing where it looks bad to you but good to everyone else you know? I hope this answered ur question, and if I'm wrongg and you did get rid of it.. I would live if you would tell me how

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Is there a proper way to deal with online harrassment? Can something be done? This needs to stop.

Well since you say you are more into getting him to back off.. did you try telling him this? Or maybe if you havent tryed already.. just Block him.Sorry if i'm not much help

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my fever is 100.9 , is that bad?
I have been having horrible aches and pains, stuffed up sinuses (ears, nose, throat)
and i feel woozy half of the time.

The person below said 198 but im pretty sure she meant 98. But she is riight. You need to go to the doctor before it gets worst.

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so I fantizise about my gf a lot. not like sex but like making out and stuff. we've never made out but I know she'd like it but I don't know how to tell her that I want some of these things without seeming like a perv. like making out and laying on a bed and stuff... laying between her legs and kissing her that kind if thing. how could I tell her that I want that or would it be better to just do it and see how she reacts?
thx!

aww Are you sure she isnt thinking the same thing. Honestly.. I think you should just go for it =]

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Okay. Well, I just turned 13, and I'm 5'7. The average weight for a person that is 5'7 is 135 lbs. I'm 130 but I feel over weight. I ask people that I know would tell me the truth if I was fat and they say no. I have large breasts as well, would that be a reason?
Am I fat?

I have one of the taller friends too. She weighs 132 and last time we checked she is 5'6. She has this same problem but the thing is.. at my pool parties.. she is pretty much the ONLY one who looks good in a swimsuit, and ALL the boys are on love with her. TRUST ME. you are NOT overweight.

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ok...im 13/f, and i really like this guy named Jose, and i don't know if he likes me. he acts different around me than the other girls that he hangs out with, but then again, the girls that he hangs out with are all my friends...please help me! i really, really like him! and I really want to go out with him, but i don't know if he likes me!

Ok well this is going to sound VERY childish.. but it works. Just have one of your friends go up to him and be like "Do you like (you name)" and see what he says. If he says yes... which he should because of the way he acts around you. Then just ask him out. Or if your the shy type have your friend say WELL she likes you too. Then Im sure he will ask you out. Thats pretty much the thing I do all the time and it always works for me. I hope this answred your question

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well there is this kid.. that i used to like.. and i think he used to like me.. well a little bit because he flirts with me all the time.. still does but he had a girlfriend all this time.. so im not sure if we are friends.. bc he talks to me..sits with me on the bus and stuff..but some days he doesnt even talk to me.. so im not sure how to view the sitation..its really complicated i dont get it guys are so retarded! and.. also i was wondering..how you can get a guy to notice you..like i think i like this guy..but i dont know his name.. i just see him in the hallways and stuff and hes older than me but i was wondering how i could get his attention... thx for the help

About the kid: Well this boy seems like he is just a flirt. My Best Friend likes this boy and he flirts with everyone. And she always thinks when he does her he likes her. But then he always denies. We try to tell her but she gets all mad. And about the boys noticing: Just smile at him and say HI when he passes you in the hall. Then he will notice or maybe drop sumthing and he will help you pick it up and start a little convo. I hope I helped you.

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I've made the biggest mistake of my life letting him go. Now he is with another girl, and it is too late. No matter how much I convince myself that I dont care for him anymore, everything always comes back to him. We actually had something together, and I pushed him away, just like that. I was afraid, I didnt want to get hurt. But I pushed him towards another girl, and I hate what I've done. He was my secure foundation, and now he doesnt even want me in his life. I cant stand knowing that its so easy for him to just erase me from his life, while its the most difficult thing I have ever been put through. We both liked eachother from the beginning, and I was too afraid to admit it, he was just too shy. But now that I've admitted it to him, he and his friends all make a joke about it. he comes around every single day with his new girlfriend and I cant even look up because I dont want to give him the satisfaction of my jealousy. and it doesnt help that his group of friends tell him and his new girl to walk by me a million times just to see my reaction. It hurts like nothing that Ill ever be able to explain

Hmm.. well I think if he is that immature and rude then you deserve better. Trust me I met lots of boys like that. Its not the best thing to go through in the world. I mean.. I KNOW that it is hard just o get over someone like that.. but maybe you could tryy meeting someone else like going places... and finally get over that immature guy. I hope this helped you a little.

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Theres this girl i really like in my class when she found out i liked her she told her friends well im dating someone and she actually was and she told me this that she had a bf like 4 or 5 times and she wrote me a note saying i should repsect dat she already had a bf. Now could this mean she likes me but she has a bf at the moment and maybe i could be her bf in the future when she breaks up wid him and she is like kinda nervous and shy around me and quiet and i catch her looking at me my fair share of times help plzzz i really like this girl.

Well I think what you should do is treat her as nicely as possible and then maybe she will realize that your the perfect guy for her. If it freaks her out a little bit, Backk off because it's better to be friends than nothing at all. I hope this answered your question.

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