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Girl Said She Already Had A Bf When She Founded Out I Liked
Theres this girl i really like in my class when she found out i liked her she told her friends well im dating someone and she actually was and she told me this that she had a bf like 4 or 5 times and she wrote me a note saying i should repsect dat she already had a bf. Now could this mean she likes me but she has a bf at the moment and maybe i could be her bf in the future when she breaks up wid him and she is like kinda nervous and shy around me and quiet and i catch her looking at me my fair share of times help plzzz i really like this girl.
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There's a chance she likes you. If she has a bf however, she's not yours. Wait a while if you think she's worth waiting for. If nothing happens after a while, you should confront her or move on. If she breaks up with her bf, and gets a new one that's not you, it means she's not interested. It's okay though. It means she wasnt "the one." I'm <b>sure</b> you'll find someone else to like. Dont give up hope if this girl doesnt work out though.
Good luck.
♥ Me
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I think that she likes you but since she is in a relationship right now she will like you persue her b/f and after they brrak up u will have a chnace.. and if she just keeps gettin a new b/f and that is always her excuss.. simple she isnt that interested!
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hey! i kno someone who's going through this right now too. if i were you, i would continue to be her friend and always be there for her and continue talking with her and everything. then if she does break up with her boyfriend, that's when you have the right to make your move. she is obviously pretty interested in her boy too, so she doesn't want to feel like she's playing him if she gets kind of flirty with you while their still dating. just give everything some time, because things between people change, and then maybe someday you two could go out. i bet she probably likes you too, and that's why she a little shy and quiet around you. she might not be like this with all guys, but since she already has a boyfriend, and then has you to think about too, that makes her a little uneasy about what she's feeling. don't go too far with trying to be with her while she's still with her guy. but stay close and make her know you do want a place in her life. xoxo helpachick
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Well I think what you should do is treat her as nicely as possible and then maybe she will realize that your the perfect guy for her. If it freaks her out a little bit, Backk off because it's better to be friends than nothing at all. I hope this answered your question.
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Hiya,
So far, it sounds like you've played this situation to the best of your abilities. You've made your feelings known to this girl, which is further than many lads would go. All too often, people keep a lid on their affections for someone because they're uncertain of the response, but ultimately you have to speak up, just like you have.
Of course, putting this girl in the picture doesn't guarantee she'll feel the same way about you. You say this may be the case, but often it can take time for such feelings to emerge and grow.
Only you can decide if it's worth pursuing her, and whether you can handle things if she doesn't fall for you eventually. If things have got too intense then some distance will help to get your feelings in perspective.
Should you feel able to deal with it, the key is to keep an open mind. This means being a mate to her first, rather than a lover-in-waiting, and just see how things develop. Who knows? In time she might realise what she's been missing out on, but even if she doesn't then at the very least your efforts will have earned you a friend.
Goodluck
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I would go against whats been said before and say I actually do think she likes you, her behaviour certainly does suggest it and this is especially so if she started doing it before she found out you liked her. The fact that she also said you have to respect she has a bf instead of simply saying she wasnt interested is also a thumbs up. However the fact she did say this is also for the moment a hint at you to back off. It does sound as if she still likes her bf, even if she may like you. So play it cool for the moment and just be friends with her, not too flirty or you may just end up irritating her and annoying her. Respect her wishes and once she is single again, be ready to make your move but only if she is ready. Remember, if it was a long relationship or she was the one that was dumped, she may need some time to get over it.
Good luck, hope you don't have to wait too long
Sapphire Lily xxx
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when this girl is ready to make her move i'm sure she will but untill then you have to let destiny takes its place and whatever is to e will be..
good luck,
coop,
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Almost anyone can "like" a person. But it takes real strength to actually "love" someone. I'm not talking about love in the sense of bf/gf or husband/wife, I'm talking about simply caring for someone. Part of love is respect. And respect in this situation most likely means backing off when she tells you that she has a boyfriend. You can cause a lot of problems for yourself, others, and wreck any chance at a friendship with this girl if you do not respect what she's telling you. She's probably nervous and shy around you because she knows you have feelings for her, and it's made the situation awkward.
Don't worry about her liking you or not. Rather, think about showing her how much you respect her choice and that will say more than anything at this point in time.
On one more note... Put yourself in her boyfriend's shoes. Would you want some guy lurking around your gf waiting for a chance to snatch her even after she's told him "No"?
Take Care!
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