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I've made the biggest mistake of my life letting him go. Now he is with another girl, and it is too late. No matter how much I convince myself that I dont care for him anymore, everything always comes back to him. We actually had something together, and I pushed him away, just like that. I was afraid, I didnt want to get hurt. But I pushed him towards another girl, and I hate what I've done. He was my secure foundation, and now he doesnt even want me in his life. I cant stand knowing that its so easy for him to just erase me from his life, while its the most difficult thing I have ever been put through. We both liked eachother from the beginning, and I was too afraid to admit it, he was just too shy. But now that I've admitted it to him, he and his friends all make a joke about it. he comes around every single day with his new girlfriend and I cant even look up because I dont want to give him the satisfaction of my jealousy. and it doesnt help that his group of friends tell him and his new girl to walk by me a million times just to see my reaction. It hurts like nothing that Ill ever be able to explain
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actually it may not be easy for him to get over you. how in the world do you know he doesnt have feelings for you still? you dont.. you know just tell him how u feel. it may be hard and all but what do you exactly have to lose. you shouldnt keep anything build up inside cause it will increase in pressure andd you will just keep wondering about it.. ive been there done that. and i really did tell this guy how i felt... and i gae him time to think about it and he did and he talked to me again without and pressure on my part cause i was forgettin about him whichc was soo unbelievably hard. even thou he has a g/f now i know that we have nothin against eachother you know. we are freinds and that was way better then not talking to eachother at all
-Adrianna
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Hey There
I know exactly how you feel. i made the same mistake with my bf
why don't you try talking to him when his gf isn't around. tell him how you feel. how much he is hurting you
don't let his friends ruin your life
talk to his gf and tell her how you feel about him
maybe she'll realise that you two are meant to be together
try not to cry
think of the good times you to were together
don't think past think future
move on if things don't work out
hope this helps
love
summer
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It sounds like hes using his girlfriend just to make you jealous. He probably still isnt over you but just acts like it. hes being immature, its not worth it. just give yourself some time and youlll get over him.
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Hmm.. well I think if he is that immature and rude then you deserve better. Trust me I met lots of boys like that. Its not the best thing to go through in the world. I mean.. I KNOW that it is hard just o get over someone like that.. but maybe you could tryy meeting someone else like going places... and finally get over that immature guy. I hope this helped you a little.
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Hi There,
When you split up with someone that you still have feelings for it's tempting to let them make all the rules in order to keep them in your life. The problem is, if there's no hope of reconciliation, you're just prolonging the agony - and it will take even longer for your broken heart to mend.
This is so difficult, but until you accept that the relationship is over you'll probably keep reading 'secret' messages into everything connected with your ex. It's particularly hard to believe you really have been dumped if you're still seeing each other. The best way to get over a relationship is to sever all connection - even if just for a while. Of course this is very difficult if you're in the same job or at uni together - but the less contact you have the better.
If your ex has said something like: "Of course we must stay friends", be wary. Do you need this person as a friend? Well, perhaps it would be good long-term, but right now you want them as a lover - and being treated simply as a friend will prolong the agony of coming to terms with the split. The truth is that it will probably help your ex's guilt about dumping you, but you're the one who needs help right now, not your previous partner. The best thing to do is to keep your distance for a few months - and after that time, decide whether or not friendship is possible or even desirable.
God Bless
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Hun, first of all, the fact that you said "he was your secure foundation" thats not a good sign, your insecure and unstable, especially if you pushed him to another girl.
I know you cant erase him or forget him, because things like that take a lot of time.
Dont sit home and sulk though, I know it hurts,
and it hurts really deep inside you, like your heart, its so hard to explain, but its pain, because of him.
But hang out with friends, get support from them, be busy, go out with friends, you shouldnt be wasting time on this guy anymore, because obviously the way he is treating you right now, thats horrible, and you dont deserve it.
hopei helped.
<3
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Getting over someone you once cared about or still do is very hard. You're walking away from all you knew, and everything looks uncertain. But in walking away and letting it go, you're freeing yourself of what bound you to something that wasn't permanent. Moving on can seem near impossible, but in the end it's worth it. You'll be free to find someone even better, though you think that such a person might not exist. But they do, trust me.
The best I can do is offer some simple advice. Instead of trying to just conquer this yourself, get your friends who you trust to help. Go to a movie (not a romantic one), find activities to keep your mind busy.
Advice on the guy... This might be a bit hard to swallow for some, but: a guy who was really "worth it" wouldn't turn around and try to make you jealous by showing off some other girl. There are much better guys in the world, and if you keep your standards high you'll find one, or he'll find you.
Good luck!
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