ok...im 13/f, and i really like this guy named Jose, and i don't know if he likes me. he acts different around me than the other girls that he hangs out with, but then again, the girls that he hangs out with are all my friends...please help me! i really, really like him! and I really want to go out with him, but i don't know if he likes me!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HectorJr answered Thursday June 1 2006, 7:56 pm: A good majority of the guys I know that feel the same way would almost never directly ask a girl if they liked them or tell them that he likes her. I even asked a lot of them: do you think its weird if a girl tells you she likes you or if she asks you if you like her? They all said no. Most guys are at ease when they know if a girl likes them or does not - as in he probably won't act differently then he does around others.
Best way to do it? Straight out ask him if he likes you. Thats all there is to it. Really. Sounds simple, but yeah I know - easier said than done. Honestly, once you ask him you'll see it really wasn't a big deal at all. It's all about confidence - and all guys love to see that. Hope that helped and good luck. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
advicecutie22 answered Thursday June 1 2006, 4:55 pm: In this situation I've learned that the best thing to do is just ask him straight out if he likes you. Don't try to go around it by having your friends find out because then it will show him that you're "afraid" to talk to him. If you really like him just tell him, most boys wait for someone to say they like them and then they can't help but like her especially if they kind of already do. HOPE I HELPED
xoxo Morgan [ advicecutie22's advice column | Ask advicecutie22 A Question ]
_Chelsea_Jody_ answered Thursday June 1 2006, 12:55 pm: Ok well this is going to sound VERY childish.. but it works. Just have one of your friends go up to him and be like "Do you like (you name)" and see what he says. If he says yes... which he should because of the way he acts around you. Then just ask him out. Or if your the shy type have your friend say WELL she likes you too. Then Im sure he will ask you out. Thats pretty much the thing I do all the time and it always works for me. I hope this answred your question <3 [ _Chelsea_Jody_'s advice column | Ask _Chelsea_Jody_ A Question ]
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