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not sure what it meant?
im 15
this happened a while ago but i still am not sure...so my bf fingered me then a week later broke up with me...
what im asking is: is fingering a big deal?
thank you
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its certainly not a big deal at my school but seems to me he fingered you wanted more in return didnt get it ?? so descided to stop the relationship
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Its not that big of a deal but i hope you had been together for a while or it sounds like he was playing you. Hope that answered your ?
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no, its not really a big deal.
~lalagurl
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Okay, it's not oral sex, but it is still a form of sex. Typically it's not something that just anyone would do, but it seems to be pretty popular on this board! It could be a big deal if he takes it that way, so the best thing to do is ask him how he feels about it. Or since you are not seeing him anymore..forget it and move on.
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Fingering is oral sex..ahahahahahhahahahahahaha...
Sorry about that. helpmechrissy is a total idiot and shouldn't be giving adivce to the stuffed animals on her bed, let alone, someone who asked a understandable question.
Oral = use of mouth
Fingering = use of fingers or digits
But, I am sure you already knew that.
If you aren't hurt over this, meaning still thinking about it all the time and crying over it, then I would say it isn't a big deal.
It probably wasn't anything about you that was a reason for the break up, he was just being a young boy. People break up after first kissing and after first sexual experiences, it is just a relationship that wasn't going to work out.
That kind of question can only be defined situationally. It is your situation, so what you think is what it is. If you are not bothered or hurt by it anymore, then I wouldn't waste too much time wondering about it. What happens in your relationships are your business and no one else's. Don't feel bad and make no apologies.
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well what does fingering mean to you? where does it stand in your book? to me i guess it would kinda be a big deal because 1. im really not into that kinda stuff and 2. my bf and i would have to be going out for a while for me to get that physical. hope i helped a little =)
♥BLAiR
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It's a big deal if you think it is. Don't regret anything. You did it, it's in the past, oh well. Your boyfriend, like many young guys, was afraid of commitment. He probably didn't know what he wanted and thought that fingering you would make him eternally happy. When it didn't, he decided that the relationship wasn't working and backed out. Either way, it's only a big deal if you make it that way. Try to put it behind you. I'm not saying you made a mistake or anything, it's your choice to view however you want. If you think it was a mistake, maybe you'll make a different choice next time. But if you don't think it's anything to worry about, then there's really no problem. =)
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No, fingering isn't a big deal, especially since it was with your boyfriend. It all depends on what you want to do. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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Hi. No, fingering is not a big deal. How is a person taking their fingers, sticking "up there" moving it and pressing it and doing whatever important. It's only important for you when you get an orgasm. I doubt that your boyfriend broke up with you for that. Maybe you can ask him, or somehow find out.
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it's no a dig deal at all. he was your boyfriend and as long as your not going around getting it from a bunch of other guys in like a week then your fine. So if you get the rep of a slut then just realize tha people are stupid and i'm sure half the people that would call you a slut have done much more then what you have.
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It depends on who you're asking. To me, no it's not a big deal. I bet that alot of girls your age have had it done to them, some even way younger.
He was your boyfriend, so it's not going to make you a slut. Sure, if he wasn't and he did and then you got fingered by like 10 other guys that same week.. Then I could under stand you getting the rep of a slut. But, truely, it's no big deal. Don't dwell on it.
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i really don't think its a big deal.. if you were older maybe but now it doesnt have the big of an emotional tool
and that girl below is wrong its not oral sex
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