I was at a party and I was drunk and an older guy I met there forced me into doing stuff i didn't want to do, the worst part was he wasn't drinking. Im not sure what to do because i don't know whether to confront him about it. I feel like I was raped and I really don't know what to do to get through this.
Additional info, added Tuesday May 30 2006, 10:23 pm: I didn't think it would be considered rape because we didnt actually have sex, but basically everything leading up to it. I managed to get him to leave me alone by saying i was going to puke.. Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? orphans answered Thursday June 1 2006, 5:47 pm: Well, rape or sexual abuse, you need to tell some adult about this. I know it would be difficult, especially since you will have to tell them you were drunk, but if this guy did this to you, he will do it to others. He doesn't care about you, so why should you care about him? Girl, tell someone and get his abusive ass in jail. Oh, and you might want to see a counselor. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
Nallie answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 9:16 am: Okay so you weren't raped--but you apparently were sexually abused. Is this guy an adult? Are you a minor? Forcing someone against their will is still a crime. I think the only way to get through it is to face it head on. Talk to friends or other people at the party and see what they know and would be willing to tell, then take the information to the police. Imagine if you wouldn't have got the guy to leave you alone, imagine how the next vulnerable female might feel when he does this to them? No, don't confront him, he could become dangerous..just handle it legally through the police. [ Nallie's advice column | Ask Nallie A Question ]
Tulipg17 answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 8:06 am: It was still sexual assalt, don't confront him. Report it to the authorities out of respect and protection for yourself and future women he might victimized. Don't let anyone sugar coat it, it was very wrong of him and he needs to stop this behavior. [ Tulipg17's advice column | Ask Tulipg17 A Question ]
barbieblissx answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 7:42 am: well just ask him. you have to know. and he is the only one that would know everything so. if you feel violated which you should then confront him but remember you were at a partying doing something that you werent suppose to do either.
passionx0x answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 8:42 pm: This is called rape. You need to report it to someone immediatley so you can persecute while their still is evidence against him. The sooner, the better. You were taken advantage of and he needs to know it wasn't right.
PunkieFreak4690 answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 8:23 pm: There is a possibility it could be considered rape. If you were intoxicated, you had little or no control of stopping from it. So he might of taken advantage of you. Especially since he drank no alcohol.
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