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Handsex
My boyfriend and i were talking about him fingering me and me giving him a handjob...are we too young? i'm 13 and he's 14 and a lot of girls in my school have been fingered and have given handjobs..help!
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First of all you better not be doing this because all the other girls at school are doing it. That's the stupidiest thing to do and you mau think it's cool, but it ruins your reputation and the guys i guarantee you will take about in the lockers rooms to each other and it won't be that your a nice girl!! If you want to do this on your own just by curiousity (and only by that and not by just how the girls are doing it at skool too!) and the guy is truthworthy enough to do it with you like you two were best friends and he would never tell. Don't tell me your doing it for love becuase i trust you jun you don't know what love means and i know the boy doesn't either. He's just tryin to get a freebee. Don't make anyone pressure you into this becuase it's just not fun that way. But if you wanna do it together on your own i advice you to wait until your in high school and if the your boyfriend gets mad you for it or dumps you cause you might not be ready to do it then he really didn't like you for you in the first place. hope i helped!!!
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well i know your gona want to her no but we kinda are but ya see i have done that the fingering thing not the hand job but other stuff so ya i guess if you ok with it and you are ready to do taht you can but think it threw first make shour you are ready
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In my opinion think about this are you ready are you commited to each other?, How long have you been together?, If you did it could it possibly go into real sex then would you be ready for the commitment if you were to get pregnant? Yeah maybe alot of girls have done it at your school but is this to make you feel more "cool" or is it because you really like each other? Well I cant answer these questions for you but they are somethings to think about befor you do anything together. I hope i helped. And good luck disison making
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whatever you feel. i know people that had sex by the time they were 12 at my school. if you feel comfortable, go ahead
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I think 13 and 14 is young, but it is really up to you to decide. If you feel unconfortable with it, then do not do it. There is little risk with STDs and pregnancy in it, so there is no age where you are definatel TOO YOUNG to do it, but in today's society, it would be seen as too young. But if you don't think so, go for it.
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Yes I think you are too young,
the fact that you're asking this question, proves you arent ready..
Its not a good idea, especially since you dont sound to comfortable with it.
Just because other girls in your grade have, doesnt mean you need to, ya know?
be safe girly..
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