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one night i got really drunk and i was talking to this kid justin (who wasnt drunk) then i feel asleep and i wake up and im naked and hes ontop of me on the bed and hes naked and as soon as he saw me wake up he ran into the other room...i dont no what happened really...i try to ask him and he tells me that he was just touching me he didnt like rape me or nething....but i would no if we had sex right? or if we didnt nething more...i no he put it in my mouth bc i had the taste in my mouth..but i would no rigth? please help meee
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You have been sexually assaulted. I don't care if you don't want to tell your mother, you have to. This Justin boy could do it again. Your mother would know what to do.
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I'm 16 years old and recently my boyfriend and I have been giving each other oral sex. The other day he fingered me, and when he pulled his fingers out, there was a little bit of blood. Could my hymen be broken, and if it is, do I need 2 get an exam? (link)
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I wouldn't worry. The remainders of your hymen could have been broken, or he could've done it too roughly, or maybe his nail scratched you. Wear a pad, and it should stop. If not, then you should go see a doctor.
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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date? (link)
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Tell him plain out and straight "I don't want sex." If he doesn't listen to you, then you need to move on. If this boy is always bringing up the subject of sex on the first date, then that means he is using you. He probably wants you for your body, and when he gets bored of you, he'll dump you. So just tell him if he can't deal with the fact that you're not ready for sex, then he better be ready to leave.
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How do I tell my boyfriend that I have AIDS. He wants to have sex with me but I don't know a good way to tell him..help? (link)
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Woah, this is serious. Tell your boyfriend as soon as possible about this. HE should thank you in his heart for telling him and saving his health. If he can't take the fact that he can't have sex with you, then just leave him, you wouldn't want a shallow relationship like that anyway. If he accepts that you have AIDS, and still sticks with you, then you have a great boyfriend.
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what are some good songs or artists that sing songs that are like ..live it up to the fullest and just be happy and such ..and good songs ? ill rate 5's and thanks! (link)
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move along - all amercian rejects
unwritten- natasha bedingfield
single- natasha bedingfield
these words- natasha bedingfield
on top- the killers
change your mind- the killer
(basically anything the killers :)
brighter than sunshine - aqualung
tons of older songs are happy and stuff like:
b*witched - cest la vie (i used to love it)
etc. etc.
and usually the disney artists are happy songs like: jump 5 and stuff (im completely brain blocked :])
tarzan boy- baltimora :]
mmbop - hanson ;]
bad day - daniel powter
the tide is high - atomic kitten
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so here it goes
we started going out about 6 months ago. Everything was perfect. he loved me and he wanted to be the best boyfriend he could be. about a month into the relationship we had sex for the first time. i know it seems forward, but we were friends with benefits four months prior to going out.. after we had sex. we started fighting alot. he was trying to get involved with dealing drugs..and i thought he was doing drugs.. and yeah that was our first fight. we resolved it and then my best friend told me she had heard his friends talking about smoking weed with him and stuff.. so i flipped out on him again.. and he was really upset .. because he doesnt do that.. and he didnt want to lose me. we kept fighting over things.. soon my friend told me she hated him and he treats me like shit and i need to leave him. and i do admit.. he could have treated me with ALOT more respect. he always complained about what i looked like.. he never told me i was beautiful.. if i didnt wear something "sexy" i wouldnt get any sort of attention at all. where as he used to stare into my eyes and tell me how beautiful i was.. we were almost going out for 5 months when we got into a huge fight.. because i had his myspace password and he kept sending girls messages telling them how sexy they were. this hurt me.. and he ended up flipping out on me.. and im one of those kind of people who cant go to sleep at night knowing someones mad at them.. so i had him stay on the phone with me for 4 hours trying to resolve the problem...in the morning he apologised but i was still hurt and sick of the fighting .. so i sent him an email telling him how horrible he treats me. he ended up breaking up with me. it was dramatic.. he cried when he did it. so i know he didnt want to. the next day.. we didnt even look at eachother in school.. i came online when i got hoem and he begged for me back.. and i gave in. .we were just going to take a break and i gave in. the next day i asked him if we were still going to get back together eventually..and he said "idk i only said that to make you feel better" and i went to his house and screamed at him .. because he lead me on again. and then he said he'd go out with me until summer comes.. because he wants to do his own thing over the summer. stupidly i agreed. and we went out .. we've been going out.. but he's been different.. i say "i love you" and he either jokes around and makes sum dumb comment or he mumbles it back.. he tries to strangle me sometimes. .and i honestly cant tell if hes fooling around or not. we wrestled the other day.. just cutsy bf gf wrestling.. and then he started punching me.. and stuff.. and his friend saw and he was like "woah stop thats not cool" .. i have a huge buise on my arm from him punching me. and while we were wrestling i accidently kicked him in the balls.. he knew it was an accident but he still flipped out on me .. he wrapped his arm around my neck and put his hand over my mouth and nose. he held it there for a while too.. i started crying and he just kissed me better.. but still . we broke up today.. and we're supposed to be getting together next school year.. but i just want to know.. is this too serious? because i know when im in a bad situation i never notice how bad it REALLY is.. and i just want to be safe. (link)
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wow long story! um no no no no do not get back together with him. it seems he is just using you. also the whole fighting thing this sounds seriouds. play fighting you say but it sounds rough. so do not get back with him even if he says he loves you or cries. yes it will be tough but this is serious a bad situation. hope i helped! bye ♥ terri
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a couple nights ago me and my freind met the most gorgeous guy in the world...
snakebites
longish hair
eyeliner
yeah anyways..
we really hit it off that night
so the next night we hung out again..
and i slept with him (didnt have sex just slept) and everyone was asleep and iwas to lazy to pull up my skirt because im like really open to everyone so im like hm whatever
anyways heres are conversation..
it wasl ike 4 in the morning..
and its WHISPERING so it was hot
dylan:ashley...?
me:yeah....?
dylan:are you awake...?
me:yeah.. are you..?
dylan:yeah...
(my heart was beating really fast because everytime i breathed in i had butterflys it was really bad because his hand was under my shirt (not in a perverted way)
anyways 10 minutes later..
dylan:ashley?..
me:yeah...?
dylan:have you ever had any serious relationships?
(we were like REALLY CLOSE)
me:no not really have you?..
dylan:one or two.
me:ohh
30 minutes later
dylan:ashley?...
me:yeah.?
dylan:(in a really serious whispering hot voice) do you like me?.
5 minutes later.
me:yeah
we never spoke again that night but got even CLOSER
and i havent seen him since
but he talks to me still
so my qustion is..
does he like me?..
i know this is long and sorry
i will give you 5s for taking your time and reading this and trying to answer it
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aww that sounds so cute! um yeah it seems like he really likes you. so you guys should definetly get together! have fun! ♥ terri
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1- they really need more categories to put questions under..
2- im thinking of written a book on my life and people who changed me and stuff.. and im thinking how should i start it off... like start as my birthday for an example..
say June 20, 2006 at approx 11:19PM she was born or something...how should i start off the first chapter. and what kinda topics should i have. like birth, childhood, friends, and dedications and things. what else should i throw in?
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wow i think that is really awesome. i think you should tell about problems you faced in your life or the rough spots in life. about the first chapter i think thats a good idea to start off like that. or instead of saying she, maybe put your name. also dont put them in them direct words but mix it up a little bit. and you could also talk about role models in your life or who inspired you. hope i helped! ♥ terri
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I graduated high school back in May and all throughout high school, I never really liked cared for or paid attention in any classes like algebra, physics, pre cal, etc. I'm a pretty smart girl, I just didn't care. I convinced my parents to let me take a semester off before going to college because I really don't want to do. I don't think its right for me. I know I will most likely flunk out because I really don't care about any of those classes that are required.
What I do know is designer, fashion, and clothes. And I know it good. Gucci, Burberry, Fendi, Dior, Chanel, Marc Jacobs, Prada, you name it. Well, I got a job offer at Chanel in the Galleria, here and this is my DREAM job. This is something I want to do and something I'd care about. I'd just be the "welcome girl" (welcome people into the store, show them around, make suggestions, etc.) but it's a place I can work my way up from. The lady that wants to give me the job started the same way and now she makes 95,000 working for Chanel!! And she didn't go to college either. All she did was take training courses and such, offered by the company.
So here comes the problem, my parents. They told me I could take the job if I wanted but I'd still have to quit and go to college come January. I've talked to them about it so many times that I'm just sick of it. I don't know why they think that just because I turned 18 and graduated high school, that I'm going to start caring about school, because I'm NOT! It just isn't for me, but Chanel is. They’d be wasting their money. What do I do here?
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i think you just gotta do what your heart tells ya to do. besides you can always go back to school later in life if you want to. and you're 18 now right? so legally you dont 'have' to do what they say. what i myself would do, (assuming you still live at home) is get an apartment. it sounds like a job where you'd make decent money enough to pay for one. anyway it's late and i'm goin to bed.
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does getting your hair dyed professionally last longer than the stuff you buy at the grocery store?
because everytime i dye my hair myself it lasts 2 weeks tops then its totally faded (and you can only dye your hair like every 8 weeks or so)
and i dont want to waste that kind of money getting it professionally done if its just going to fade right away
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it will definately last longer. but the color locking shampoo and conditioner will help big time. the only thing is the only ones that really work are the expensive ones, but spendin money on it is better than losin money on having it dyed and then fade. good luck!
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anyone no were i can get lyircs to call on me by janet jackson ft nelly i cant find it (link)
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the easiest way is to go to google and type call on me lyrics or you can go to azlyrics.com (theyre are usually the best but googles a bit better )
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okay well im def not fat but i feel that i am. i am 15/f i weigh 108 and im 5'2'' . i was recently a vegeterian and my body got really weak from not having protein. i got sick and didnt eat for like 4 days and then i ate very little for the next week i lost wicked lot of weight and i was in love with my body i had a perfect stomach and no rolls or flub or anything people think im so skinny but i have issues with my stomach. now since i started eating alot again my metabolism sucks like i eat one effing thing and i feel like i gain 6753 pounds what can i do to make my metabolism faster pills anything like i excercise alot 24/7 all the time i live on fit tv and at the gym please pleaseeee help. (link)
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crunches actually do help me alot. i do about 50 a day to stay in great shape. do more if you can. but i personally thing being 108 at 5'2" is awesome! i'm 5'2" and weigh at least 120 but i dont look at all overweight. ok i could be a little more toned to be honest, but i still dont consider myself overweight. honestly i'm fuckin jealous of you!
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My friend gave my number to the guy that I like and he said that he would definitely call me. If he calls me, I know that I'll get nervous and freeze up. In case he does call, how do I stop myself from being nervous and how can I calm down? (link)
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ok 1) the clicking to the other line idea is fine, but make SURE you click to the other line b/c once i thought i had clicked to the other line and i was talking to my friend about this other guy (i wasnt cheating but he was gonna come pick me up! thats all!) and my bf heard the whole thing and we had an arguement....
anyway sory for rambling on about that, but my genius idea is to just get kind of tipsy, enough so you dont get nervous, but not so much that you start acting stupid.... i kno underage drinking is bad and if you think you'll get in trouble for it, dont do it.
ugh sorry i rambled so much, but i hope i helped in some way
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I'm 15 and female and my b/f is 20, but I'm fixing to turn 16. My mom likes my b/f but my dad doesn't. They are currently filing for custody of me even though i don't want to live with my dad. The thing is that I may have made a huge mistake. I engaged in sexual activities with my boyfriend with my consent because I love him. We have been dating for nearly two years. The thing is that my mom has just informed me that the only way the can take me away from her is if we have had sex. I don't know what to do. Please, I need advice badly. (link)
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honestly i just wouldn't tell anyone. it could get him in serious trouble and you may have to go live with your dad. if i were you i'd just say i was a virgin. i mean it's just my opinion, but in the end you have to do what you feel led to do.
i hope i helped at least a little.
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My cousin has recently told her boyfriend that she thinks i like him as more than a friend. It is so not true. I haven't even met the guy. we talk over MSN, and besides, he's trying to set me up with his best friend. How can i get her to think i actually don't like him in that way without having to actually confront her that he told me this? (link)
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Maybe he should tell her that he's trying to set you up with another guy. Maybe the boyfriend should have a talk with your cousin. Make him say stuff to your cousin like "Even if your cousin did like me...which she doesn't, I wouldn't just dump you for her. I love you." Sure it's cheesy, but it could work. And you need to tell your cousin to have more trust in you. Tell her your after another guy. Tell her that you would never try to get between her and her boyfriend.
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ok so i'm going on a few college visits in a while, and i invited two friends. the problem is that my mom said we don't really have enough room in the car for both but i've already invited them. so should i tell them that or subtly imply it or what?? (link)
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Tell them the straight up truth. Tell them that your mom said they can't fit in the car. This is like a test to see if they are your true friends. If they get upset, they are not diamonds. If they don't get upset, then I wish I had your friends.
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Chatspeak detected. Type in english please.
Any term you see in red below is not allowed:
what the heck is that!! and how come it only came up that one time andd did the question even get answered ugh!! (link)
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Read the FAQ's, as I have said to many others
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=93
Copy and paste that link, and read what you see. I also advise you to read all the FAQ's, so as to not run into any more problems or get banned.
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13/f, my grandmother used to be okay, never used to get into my way, always feeding us, and helping us. I went to this award banquet, and she didn't like what I was wearing. When she described what I should wear, it was a wedding dress. I explained that for this occasion, you just wear simple things, but she didn't listen. I went the way I looked anyhow. Everyone who passed us, she would say, you see how that person has that... and other what nonsense. She said how my breasts were sticking out. Bra or no bra, of course it would show, I have breasts, wouldn't the shape and size of it show? Now for graduation, she's forcing to dress up in some wedding gown thing. My mom had to tell her no. My grandmother thinks that I'm dressing the wrong way. What's her problem? (link)
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Just ignore the woman. That lady shouldn't even be interfering in your life. She should see you are growing up, and should make your own decisions, and learn from what you do. Tell her that if she keeps making decisions for you, you'll end up living in her basement,and living off her.
She just has her head up in the 50's. She remembers what she used to wear. Obviously, she hasn't left her house and gone out into the fashion world since then. She thinks that you kids probably still wear the clothing she used to wear. Ignore her.
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HELP. im 10 pounds overweight. i want to lose those 10 pounds since it is summertime. ive been eating right and doing at least one form of exercise everyday. (elliptical or walking or swimming) ive been doing this for the past 3 months and no results. what could i be doing wrong? how can i lose this weight? (link)
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Hi...well diets do take along time before they show results.I think you should go to physician and ask what you should do. They are the experts. Another thing you can do is check out one of my answers to a question. It talks about a diet my math teachers been doing, and it works. She was told to do it by a health teacher from my school. Keep in mind that health teachers talk about nutrition and eating right. Here is the link:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=432219
look for Triple.G's answer. It should help.
Hope I helped.
P.S.- Are you sure you're overweight? go to am-i-fat.com, go to the part where it says "Am I fat", type in your height and weight, and it'll tell you.
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i just got a inovage USB Digital MP3 Player and i was wondering how do you put music onto it? do i have to go to a certain site? (link)
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Many USB MP3 players work the same way. I'm hoping your does. Anyhow, you go to My computer, and there should be an extra drive there. It's usually called E: and labled as a removable disk. Open that up and you should be able to drag and drop music files into it. If you have limewire, you can select it as the folder you want the files to download to.
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