How do I tell my boyfriend that I have AIDS. He wants to have sex with me but I don't know a good way to tell him..help?
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crack_is_wack answered Thursday June 8 2006, 7:34 pm: As everyone else said, this is extremely serious so you need to be straight-up and talk to him ASAP. This is never going to be an easy conversation to have, but the longer you wait, the harder it was be.
Talk to him about it when he's in a moderately good mood, when neither of you are feeling very stressed or tired, and when you have plenty of time to talk about. He'll probably be hurt or shocked at first, but if he's a good guy, he'll eventually grow to accept it.
KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Thursday June 8 2006, 7:28 pm: wow, this is really serious. you have to just be straight up with him. it's now or never, if you wait too long it might be late.
just say something like, "i have a serious problem that i have to tell you so please, just be considerate.. i have AIDS."
crazycool92 answered Thursday June 8 2006, 6:48 pm: thats a serious issue cuz i know you wouldnt want him to get it either
i think that you should just tell him
"I'm sorry i never told you before but i have AIDS." [ crazycool92's advice column | Ask crazycool92 A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Thursday June 8 2006, 5:18 pm: That`s something you can`t just wait & then tell him just be staight up with him and tell him because later it might be too late.♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
H0LLY_W00D_FAME answered Thursday June 8 2006, 4:31 pm: AID's is definately serious. The next time he wants to have sex, tell him. You really need to tell the poor guy so he doesn't think your leading him on. Make sure you are in a comfortable situation and make sure it's the right time to tell him. You need to be honest and straight forward. If he loves you, he will understand.
Good luck.
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