Okay well my best friend and i have been best friends FOREVERRRR and she just recently got a boyfriend... and i like him. i told her that i liked him.. and shes fine with it. and she knows that i will NEVER do anything to break them up. But i dont know what i do.. do i wait??? should i tell him?? or what.. please HELP!
I personally thing that telling him may just be inviting problems. Your friend obviously trusts you a lot if she's fine with it. I think telling him how you feel may just put him in an awkward position and it might come across to your friend as a way for you to try and steal him away from her.
Best thing I think you can do is just leave them to it and to get over it or just wait and see what happens (like if they break up) but then if you do decide to wait you could be waiting a long time. Best bet is to just move on and find someone else. Plenty people out there and it shouldn't be hard to find someone else you may like equally as much, if not more. :]
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hey. sorry if this is really long but I could def. use some advice if you have any. I had this group of best friends in fifth grade lets call them Rachel Jessey Jennie and Hannah. Anyway we were inseperable. Then in sixth grade Hannah moved to live with her mom and we threw her this big party with good luck gifts, cake, the whole thing. At first we kept in touch but once Hannah started making new friends she slowly stopped talking to us. Like especially me and Rachel we call her all the time and invite her places but she always has an excuse but then she can always hang out with her new friends. She blew off my birthday at the beginning of 7th grade year (this year) and at first when we started asking her what was up she was nice but today I found out she blew me off this weekend for one of her new friends Jaymie and she got WICKED mad at me for bringing it up and she kept saying oh I`m sorry I have a life and I made new friends blah blah blah and Rachel totally agrees with me and Hannah says that I`m the one that changed and that makes me really mad because I think I`m the only one that stayed exactly the same. What do you guys think. Any help would be great. ♥
To be honest this kind of thing is to be expected. She had moved away and had to make new friends and move on as such which she has done. I don't think you have changed though, more the other way around and your friend has but thing is this kind of thing does happen.
I had a friend for years and years and when he moved out of town to work away we started talking and hanging out less and less to the point that we txt each other now to say happy xmas/bday and stuff but that's about it. We even see each other rarely nowadays because he is always busy with his new friends he made where he moved to.
This is just one of those things that happen. Stay in touch with your friend but try not to be too dissapointed when she can't make it to plans you and your friends make. She's moved on and is now trying to fit in with her new friends. I don't know what she could possibly be thinking because I have no idea what my friend was/is thinking either but I do know it does happen. Old friends sometimes leave and we make new friends to take their place.
The only thing I think you can do is say to tell her how upset you get that she seems to hold her new friends as more important than her old ones. Just tell her you do miss her and want to hang out with her again and stuff and not feel like she's just cutting you all loose now that she has made some new friends.
Either way though I really hope you manage to sort this out with her. To see that you obviously care so much about your friendship with her is a nice thing to see - she's lucky to have a friend like you.
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I really hate my life but my friends hold me back not my family because well my family sucks. My friends love me more then my family. I haven't cut because im not some worthless piece of crap.But i have had millions of thoughts about death or killing myself. Im wondering will they even care if im gone? My parents barely reconize me now so whats the point? I told my love one these suicidal thoughts and he yelled at me making me more depressed. I cried for 4 hours straight and I even told him. He likes me alot and he said he would jump infront of a bullet for me. I was recently in the hospital my best friend since 2nd grade (14/f now) died in my arms im now emotionally unstable. Anywho my love one yelled at me and said he needs a week off. Its been more then a week and i sent 2 apology letters he has yet to right me back. I haven't smiled ever since the accident which was April 2nd 2007. I have no emotions but sadness. My sister is majo worried about me and i can't handle it. What should i do to help myself smile? And how will i get my love one to talk to me!? Thank you.
I'm sorry to hear about your friend. To have something like that happen can leave a verynasty scar on friends that sometimes never heals.
Debateist pretty much summed up what I was thinking while reading what you had written but I would like to add that being depressed canbe a very serious thing and it's a good sign that you dorealise you are suffering from it. You should try and seek professional help with it, perhaps a specialist who you can talk to about everything. Although they may seem scary and such they really do help and more importantly, they listen to you.
Never think that no one will care or notice if you are gone though, that is never true. Your friend may be gone physically but as long as you will always remember her she will live on in your heart. Give yourself time and your love some time too. He obviously thinks you are very special so don't worry, he will come back to you once he has had some time.
Never think you're alone even when it seems like you are. You'd be very surprised just how many people really do care. X
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This past Saturday Marjorie, her mom, her sister, her brother-in-law and her niece and nephew went out to a beach
town. Marjorie and her brother-in-law are thin, her sister and mom are overweight.When they arrived in town at 1PM
all six of them decided to have lunch. When they were having their meal, Marjorie's sister said to Marjorie "Aren't you
going to finish your eggs?" After they had their meal Marjorie's mom, sister and nephew decided to go to the beach
and sit for awhile. Marjorie's brother-in-law and niece decided to go the lake nearby for a swim. Marjorie decided to
walk around town. Marjorie's brother-in-law said that in an hour or so he would meet Marjorie at a central location
(because Marjorie wouldn't know where everyone else would be due to the fact that her brother-in-law was going to
drive Marjorie's sister, mom and nephew to the beach site and Marjorie wasn't going to be with them). The first time
Marjorie went to the central location her brother-in-law wasn't there, so she checked back 15 minutes later and all
five of them were at the central location. Marjorie had a package in her hand and her mom said to her "What did you
buy?" And Marjorie said she brought her herbs - end of conversation. When Marjorie's sister saw the package
Marjorie's sister asked Marjorie what she brought and when Marjorie told her sister what it was her sister said "Why
do you take it?" Marjorie said "For Menopause/PMS." But her mother said "Marjorie takes it for weight." Then her
sister said "Who else takes it?" And her mother said "Horses take it. " This infuriated Marjorie and she picked a
nasty fight with her mother.Marjorie and her sister had two conversations throughout the day and her sister told
Marjorie both tmes the following: "Just ignore mom when she says things like that, you know why you take the
herbs, you don't need anyone else to tell you why you take them. You don't need anyone's approval. It is like
if I asked you what you think of this blouse I am wearing and you said you don't like it, I know I do and that is
all what matters." MY QUESTION: LETS SAY YOU WERE MARJORIE WOULD YOU CARE WHAT YOUR MOM
SAID or WOULD YOU JUST TAKE THE HERBS AND NOT CARE IF SHE PUT THEM DOWN and go by what
Marjorie’s sister said And why?
Hmm, a little confusing but I think I'm on the right page now,. :) Well, from what I could tell from the conversation Marjorie's mom didn't actually say she shouldn't take them or she can't take them. Just that she takes them for her weight. I personally thing that if Marjorie feels they help (and their not illegal) then by all means she shouldn't let anyone dictate what she can and can't take. That would be no different than someome telling me I can't have a bar of chocolate that I paid for and brought.
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okay, I just read this article on anorexia, and now I'm worried I'm going anorexic!! I'm 5"9 and a half and 152 pounds, and I used to eat a lot but lately I've been cutting back so I can lose weight (I walk an hour every day).
I've cut my portions back by about half and instead of eating A LOT of high calorie stuff as snacks/etc i eat healthy low calorie stuff..but now I'm really anal about what i put into my body and etc..and sometimes I'll feel really dizzy inbetween 8 am and 11 am because i eat at 6am and dont have lunch till 11.
I don't even LOOK anorexic, so its not like I'm getting harrassed for it or anything..I'm just worried Im in danger of becoming one because i HATE way-too-skinny people, IMO they look sick and diseased, and I would hate to become anorexic, because in most cases that's losing control (i heard it can be genetic too) and i hate to lose control =P
i only want to lose weight till my BMI hits 19-20 (atm it's 22.4 according to some website), which would be when I'm 135-140 pounds.
so..am i in danger of becoming anorexic?
I wouldn't think so to be honest. Thing is when you change your diet so drasticly it will take your body time to adjust (as it did with me too) to your new diet and the low cal intake.
If you do feel dizzy in the mornings though I would suggest a really high fibre breakfast that will quench your hunger until lunch time. My diet has pretty much been the exact same as yours.
Fruit is a great help when it comes to diets. Fruit is very, very healthy with almost no fat and fruit (some of it anyway) tastes gooood. I usually keep a lot of fruit around me so when I feel hungry or feel I need a snack I eat an apple, a banana or anything else I might have lying around that's fruit. If you feel like wanting chocolate then try grapes, you get the sweetness you want without the evil fat.
The only thing to remember is to keep eating. The real problem occurs when you stop eating because that causes more damage to your body than good. As long as you eat healthy (in conjunction with the walking you do every day) you should be at the weight you want to be in no time. Just don't try to keep cutting down on portions and such to try and speed the process up. It WILL take some time so you just have to be patient. :)
If you are worried further down the line about your eating habits or that you may have an eating disorder developing or if you keep getting these dizzy spells then a visit to your doctor would be in order. This will just be to let him/her know you have gone on this diet (explain it to them) and if that can be causing the dizzy spells. They will be in a better positin to advise you further and also ensure that you are getting the amount of vitamins and energy your body needs each day.
Good luck on hitting your target weight. :]
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I've been dating this guy for a month, and he's been really sweet - like he's just everything I'm looking for in a guy. Unfortunately, he's ALWAYS so busy with his fraternity, with college, & his job, that he never usually has time to see me. So, I only see him a like one/two days a week, and it's not that much because we live really close to each other. I've always been suspicious that he could have another girlfriend, and I've joked around, not thinking it could actually be the truth.
So, tonight we were on a date, and he was dropping me off at my house, and he was showing me a couple pictures of his cat on his phone and then all of a sudden he gets a call from someone called "Babe" with an area code of Austin, [we live in San Antonio.]
As soon as I saw it, I was like, OH BABE!? And he's like, "WHAT?" And I'm like, Ohh so you do have another girlfriend, and he's like, "ooh fuck this, you need to trust me."
Then finally when I got him to calm down he's like, "It's a guy, named Babe -- he's my friend."
& I'm like, oohhkay. I didn't believe it & I still don't. I called my best friend and she said he's probably playing me. Which makes me sorta sad.
Does it sound as if he's cheating, and if you think he is, how can I find out who this "BABE" person is?
Thank you. :]
Although you both have not been dating all that long have you met any of his friends at all? Because if you have that might be one way of finding out who his friend babe is. Simply asking one of them should be enough but I have to admit a guy called babe seems very strange and odd.
Other than that I can't really suggest any way to find out other than doing so behind his back by looking the number up on his phone, taking a note of it and then calling it from a different phone (hiding your number first) and then seeing who answers. If a girl picks up then just ask for Babe. If she act like you sound crazy then obviously there is no-one called babe over there and he was lying the whole time.
That's really the only way to be certain but other than that if you suspect he is not trustworthy and trust has become an issue it willbe very hard to maintain a relationship when you can't trust him. You will eventually need to do something to get to the bottom of it. Good luck and Ihope for his sake that he was telling the truth.
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My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex, and we were both virgins before hand. I had given him handjobs before and he fingered me, and he only lasted a few minutes when i gave him a handjob. I heard that when a guy first has sex with a girl, he doesnt last very long. My boyfriend lasted about 2 minutes. Is that normal? If it is, then how long will it take for him to last longer? Is there any way I can help him last longer?
That is perfectly normal, yes. Because it is a new experience aguy will generally cum very quickly. Just be patient and give him time to adjust and he should get better at lasting longer.
One thing that can help is condoms (the extra safe thicker ones). They make the penis less sensitive during sex because the condoms are thicker. These may assist in helping him to last that little bit longer.
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Why do people answer questions on here when they really don't know the answer? I just asked this -
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=487010
And got two completely wrong answers. There ARE purses of her, EVERYWHERE in Hollywood stores, in Pac Sun, Hot Topic, Wild About Music, Hobby Lobby, Target.. so why the hell would they say they don't make purses of her anymore because she's DEAD? I'm offended.
I recall your question and had avoided answering it because I've not seen or heard of any of her purses here in the UK. However, I'm guessing the people who answered your question quite simply may not have known they do exist and honestly thought they had answered your question correctly. That's really the only conclusion I can come to, to be honest. If there was a different reason they decided to answer your question then I'm afraid it's a question that would be better targetted directly at them.
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I am a 17 year old female, im 5'1" and i weigh 105 pounds.. and i know what your probably thinking, average or below average, well im not. Im not calling myself fat, but i do believe im holding more fat than my body should handle. I am happy with my arms, legs and everything because i have a lot of muscle.. my stomach is what bothers me. I feel bloated constantly and im completely embarassed of myself. I feel like i have to constantly suck in and now that summers comming i cant hide behind a hoodie anymore. Ive had frequent thoughts of aneroxia but as i read more into it I completely broke down. Im not asking for suicide or for mental health problems but i have no motivation to run on the tredmil or do situps because flat out im lazy. and when i try to lie to my friends when i say im not hungary they say your the perfect wieght your so skinny. but they dont understand how much i try to make myself look thin and it just does not happen. im completely depressed and i feel like i have no intentions on eatting again. and when i tell my parents its like they're not even listening to me. and when i tell my sister she says "yeah your stomach is big" ...im crying and i cant stop please help me...i just need someone to talk to...
Hi.
Siblings can be mean sometimes and not actually mean it. I see it all the time so chances are your sister was just being flat out mean to her older sister and not actually being serious about what she had said.
From how you have described yourself you sound perfectly fine just how you are but if you feel you need to lose some inches on your stomach the only real way you will do this is by working on it I'm afraid. The problem I used to have was that I was just too lazy to do anything about it as well but every day I would look at myself and think I don't like what I see until one day I finally decided it's time I changed that. Now I am doing what I can to change it (and I really do need to change it).
Please try not to resort to eating nothing because that will not help. If you just feel bloated that could be a sign that you are not eating properly. If you stick to eating healthy you will be perfectly fine weight wise yet you will still be providing your body what it needs to keep on going. I could give you some help on that if you wish.
Things are obviously getting to you and bringing you down into a depressed state which in itself is a bad thing. If you need someone to talk to then you have a friend here who is willing to listen (so you can write me in my inbox or email me or something - whichever you prefer or are comfortable with) but just try and keep your chin up because you will get through this. Don't let it all beat you and bring you down. I won't lie to you though and say it will all happen over night because it does take time but eating healthy is a positive step in the right direction. Even without doing sit ups and such just the healthy eating will make a big difference (because of my accident I could only change my diet - I was not allowed to go to the gym or do anything that would put strain on my back).
Just don't give up on yourself.
=Ammo=
-EDIT- That's quite okay. :) You just stay safe and keep your chin up on things and remember there's a good few people here who care (as you can see from the replies you got). If you need to chat or just to get things off your chest then remember am only a message/email away. :)
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how much diffrent does sex feel for the guy with a condom on then if he didnt have one on?...what would he feel if he didnt have one on,that he would not feel with one on?
Generally (from my perspective and experience anyway) there is little to no difference at all.
There are a lot of various condoms available that will feel different. For example a lot of males would complain how a condom made sex less sensitive so they wouldn't feel much when having sex (useful for any guys who feel they don't last long during sex) and would be their excuse to not use one. There are also the ultra thin ones which made sex more sensitive and felt almost no different than to having sex without one.
The only major difference I think is knowing that you won't risk getting the girl pregnant and for both parties, knowing you are protected (from std's). In conclusion, I'd say there is little to no difference at all. Just some guys are too lazy or impatient to use one.
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15/f
Okay, well I have a wonderfull boyfriend who ive been with for a long time. I am a religious girl, and he is also a very religious guy. We have both agreed not to have sex until marrige, but we have talked about it and both agree on the subject of fooling around before marrige (pretty much everything up to sex) In the past couple of weeks I have been getting these urges, like that making out isn't enough for me anymore, but Im scared to go any farther then that. Idk Im like afraid that God will shun me or something. Yes I know we agree on fooling around before marrige, and yes to me it seems okay for everyone but me to do it! I've been reading some of these posts and some people suggest masturbation for these urges, but again, Im afraid of God hating me or something. So basicly I have two questions:
1)Is it wrong to fool around with someone when you aren't married?
2)What kinda stuff can you do, that isn't too extreme?
I'm afraid these are questions that only you can answer for yourself.
It would be wrong for me to say what you can and can't do safely because then I would be forcing my own beliefs onto you (which is wrong for anyone to do).
These urges you have are always there - the urge to do something 'bad' as such. But if you know deep down that they are something you shouldn't do then it's all a matter of will power over desire. If what you and your boyfriend have is special then just take things slowly and give yourself time, what's the rush? :)
I'm not sure how God will judge you or if He will shun you because my beliefs will probably differ greatly from yours (if they didn't I think I'd be in big trouble with God when my time is up) but the only real advice I can offer is to look in yourself and decide for yourself what the right thing to do is.
I'm sorry that I can't be of much more help.
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Im 15,female.Well my boufriend and i play with each other. he sticks only the head of his dick in. He has never cummed in me but im still scared. im still a virgin and want to know if there is any possibility of getting pregnant? please help me.....And wat are the possibilities? Please answer!!!
Hello.
If your boyfriend had put his penis inside you (regardless as to how far he had put it in you) then you may not really be seen as a virgin unless you go by the old saying that you are stilla virgin unless your 'cherry' has been popped. The only thing with this statement is that the hymen (known as the cherry) does not prove that a girl is or is not a virgin at all. In most girls the hymen will break from everyday physical activity (such as sports or riding a bike) as well as other things.
As for the pregnancy part it is very important that your boyfriend use a condom. He will not have to cum as such to get you pregnant. The penis will eject what is known as pre-cum (which is capable of causing pregnancy) and this is ejected by the guys without them having any control over it or even knowing about it. So it is very advisable, where there will be any contact with a penis and a vigina, that a condom is used.
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i just saw a question on here about marlyn monroe, who is that?! i always here that name!
Marilyn Monroe was a classic hollywood star who started out as a model back in the 40's.
I think the best thing to do would be to have a look at her detailed bio and her pictures on a site dedicated to her as it will tell you all you need to know about her. After seeing her picture you mayeven recognise her as someone you may have seen a picture of in magazines or on TV.
http://www.marilynmonroe.com/about/bio.html
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Well I was born from Canada but my parents were originated from somewhere else. I didn't know how to speak english when I was born but as soon as I learned it in kindergarden I could talk english fluently but my brain just somehow forgot how to speak the language I was born with.
There was a school for people of my lanuage to learn how to write it but I couldn't learn it even though I really tried. Like everything the teacher said, I'll raise my hand up and say what does that mean? Like as if I wasn't even originated as that race. I'm 15 years old now and for 11 years I kept trying but I couldn't. It's like when I learned english I can't soeak anything else or get it in my head now.
It was pretty sad and akward at school sometimes throughout the whole year from grade 1 to grade 8 because people would be like OH COOL YOU'RE _____ HOW DO YOU SAY THIS IN ____? And I'd go "I dunno.." And some people would think something's wrong because I'm that race yet I can't speak the language.
My family and relatives go really hard on me. I can speak better english then they'll ever can and my marks are so academically high but they treat me really bad because I can't speak my language.
Up til now, my dad treats me very hard. My mom and I don't get along well but it has nothing to do with my disability but she doesnt' really care about it. My dad always went high about me and have so many high expectations and it hurts me so bad because I just work so hard with almost straight A's and everything just to please him but it just isn't enough. And a lot of times he won't talk to me because he's like I'M SORRY, I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU!
I knwo people who answer this will probaby be like, don't think about it or dont' take it seriously into heart but I do because it's such a big deal in my family for some reason and I guess it makes my family look bad. I have two younger siblings and because of me probably that's why they have the same problem as me.
Like right now my siblings are so young yet they're gonna go through the same trouble as me. Like if noone can help me, then atleast let a miracle come for my two siblings because I don't want them to go through the same thing as me because I'm almost pathetic to die right now: I'm ugly, othe rthen ym brain I have nothing really cuz I sacrificed the will to have friends for school to please my dad, bad hair, at my age half my hair is already filled with white hair, and more. But those tow have a good life ahead and they're happy and have friends.
I just don't know what to do anymore..and where we live there's no places really so no counciling and I can't drive and I dont' go outside so counciling isn't an option
Hi.
I kinda know what you are going through. I was born in England but my parents are from India and so they can all speak their native language and write it and read it and so on but I have been raised in England and I consider myself as British so have never learned my parents native language.
At one point they did try to teach me and I was useless at it and they would get very frustrated but eventually they saw I was just not going to learn it and gave up on even trying. I can speak it now to a degree but I can't write or read it at all (I get the same problem with people askin me how do they say this and that and half the time I have no clue at all).
First though you need to relax and take a deep breath. Being a grade A student is something to be very proud of yourself in. I could only hope to ever being that good. The reason they are probably being so hard on you is because you are the eldest of the kids (it was that way with me). I mean my little brother could get away with murder but with me its a whole different story.
Don't do this all for them, do it for yourself! Be the very best you can for yourself and eventually when they decide to actually see what you have accomplished. They will take note how well you have done and what possibilities you have opened up for yourself and for your future. Also, don't say you have a disability. Not being able to learn a language is not a disability at all. Some people just can't do it and others can do it very easily, it's just one of those things.
Last but not least you do need friends. Don't sacrifice your childhood just for school and studying. I know to study and do good is important but making friends and having fun is just as important. Also, you're not ugly at all. You are obviously a very smart person and you have an awesome brain there. Someone who is so beautiful on the inside can never be ugly on the outside (although I don't consider anyone to be ugly at all).
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Is this being a good friend?
- When your friend is sick at home, and you're at school, you call between every class to check on them, & when you get home.
- Make them an easter basket & drop it at their door.
- Wish them good luck on tests.
- Bring them donut holes when they're stranded at home, because they're ankles swollen.
These are just the bare minimum of things I do for my best guy friend, I'm a (16/f) and it just doesn't seem like he notices. Am I being a good friend, or should I try harder?
I hate it when people (friends) say that. It's not only annoying but it makes you feel you have to prove that you do care and I don't think friends should have to prove themselves.
Personally, if I had someone doing all that for me I would be verymuch flattered because I don't know many people who would do that for me. I'm not actually sure why you are playing this game of his either. If you have done all that and he has not noticed then chances are you cared to start with and he was just oblivious to it. I would even think that he was just looking to get attention orwas on a downer and decided to lash out at you by saying you don't care etc etc.
I think you should stop lavishing him with all this attention to start with because that is very unfair to you. It's like a guy telling his gf to prove she loves him by sleeping with him. Different circumstances but the same principles I think. Have a chat with him and tell him he seems to have not noticed all the extra attention you have been giving him as of lately and point out that you do care about him very much as a friend and you are there for him but you won't be chasing after him like that to prove you do care when you always did anyway.
If you really didn't care then my guess would be you'd have just told him to hell with you right from the start instead of trying to prove you do care.
=Ammo=
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ok well i like my best friend. and we are cool and all i mean we have all these inside jokes and he is really sweet and all. just a little background. i used to like him. he didnt like me back/ didnt want a gf. so i kinda got over him and let him know i didnt like him anymore. after that i guess i just started liking him again. then after that i guess we got even closer as friends.
well i do like him and all but find it very difficult to believe that he likes me back. the reason is that i find it hard to trust his clues. he can be very misleading like he led me on once already and i dont want that again. also lately he has been starting to annoy me. like whenver i hang out with him he will say stupid things and i just roll my eyes and laugh. and he sometimes just clings onto me too much. i am suppposed to like that. but for some reason he sometimes comes off as annoying and clingy. how can i change that? i asked my brother. he said its obvious this guy likes you back thats why hes behaving so weird lately. but how can i trust that he really does like me??
i really do like him a lot. its so cute the way his face lights up when he sees me. he yells my name and puts his arms out to hug me. then he puts his arm around me. he always wants to be near me. but this all may be my inagination. trust me i dont want to get hurt. not again. i cant deal with it anymore. i dont want an awkward relatiopnship/friendship with him. i want wats best for both of us.
thank you so much. i really need help on this one!
SAM
Hello Sam.
This is an awkward situation but I think the only real way you will know for certain as to whether he likes you or not would be to just ask him. If you prefer not to take the direct route you could always just ask him what's been going on with him lately and explain to him how you've noticed these little changes in him and the way he acts and stuff and see what he has to say.
I know you don't want to get hurt but in relationships that risk is always there so your only choice really will be is to take a risk and find out or to play it safe and just make it clear you're not interested at all. The thing that makes it more complicated is the whole friendship thing as well. If you want what's best for you both then the only way that might happen is if you both are honest about your feelings for each other and then talk about it and see how it will effect your friendship with each other and what will happen if one day things didn't work out - because it's always that risk that they won't when it comes to relationships.
Good luck Sam and I hope I was some help.
=Ammo=
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Okay today during my martial arts class my boyfriend (18/m) got kicked below the belt where it hurts... and since then he's been in quite abit of pain, less then an hour after he urinated some blood... 4 hours after the incident he has aching in his testicles and is still leaking some blood. Should he go to the doctors in the morning? I'm really worried about him but I don't know how serious it is as I haven't seen him since it happened... I won't be able to talk to him until the morning now but what should I do?
It surprises me that any place that teaches martial arts do not have someone there to check on your bf after the incident to make sure everything was okay with him.
Kicks to the groin although seem really funny to some people they can cause some serious damage. I suggest he sees his doctor immediately if possible or at the very least he seeks medical assistance from a walk in hospital. The fact that he has been urinating blood over a period of time could be a sign of internal damage which can get worse the longer it is left.
In the morning even if he feels better or the bleeding has stopped I suggest he still, at the very least, visits his doctor as soon as possibly to explain what happen and what his symptoms were just so that the doctor can check him out and make sure there was no lasting damage done.
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ok so like every couple of months my heart starts 2 hurt like a artery or capillary r whatever they are called, it feels like the blood gets clogged up and it hurts to move/ breath. it used 2 happen alot but know its only like every 2 months..... what is it and should i tell my mom aboout it?
Hello.
Yes, I would suggest you definitely tell your mom about it and possibly make an appointment to see your family doctor just to make sure everything is okay.
It may not even be anything at all (I've had heart pains before which have been nothing) but when it comes to your heart and your health there's no reason to take any chances. Also, the fact that they have been pretty constant with you may mean there is something going on which may need attention so I do suggest you tell your mom asap and have it checked out.
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what do guys like to look at/feel better on a girl - a nice butt or nice boobs? i know that all guys are different, but generally speaking, what do you think they like better and why?
To be honest I don't look at either. :-/ Mostly because boobs are just boobs and I can't sit there and have a conversation with boobs. :D And when it comes to butts it's just not something I really look at to be honest. With me it's eyes, I love eyes. :D Besides that though I think it would be legs.
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15/f, sorry its so long. well i have two best friends. basically we hang out all the time together, we're just a trio like that. so my school lets us go out to eat for lunch. one of those friends lives like a block away from the school, so basically everyday we go to her house. well a few weeks ago it was pouring and we decided to go to her house which was a stupid idea, cuz we got soaked, and i said i'd never do that again. so in my area, as some of you may know, there's been A LOT of rain..flooding and everything. well on friday in school it was raining again during lunch but myself and my other friend (not the one whose house is close to the school) refused to go out to the other ones house. but house(ill just call her that) had her lunch there so she had to go. so she went there and came back. when we talked over the weekend she told me she was upset w/ myself and my other friend. so today, it was raining again, and my other friend refused to go again. so i was like well im not going out if its pouring, and it wasnt pouring. so my other friend was getting all pissed at my house friend, and she stayed in. i followed house though, to her house lol. we both felt bad so we ate quickly and went back. my other friend was sitting with other people and when we went over she totally ignored us. and didnt say a word to either of us the rest of the day.
so now this is getting ME upset. like was it my fault? i know she definitely overreacted (we've gotten in fights like this before, and she always gets over it a few days later) but she's totally ignoring me. i mean, if i could, i would've split myself in half and went with both. but i didnt wanna make "house" upset again. when me and my other friend did this to house she was fine. now my other friend is just being stubborn. right?? what should i do? what should i say to her? thanks so much, sorry it was so long
You don't need to be sorry for it being long. :P It's a bad situation to be in when you are split between two friends who want to do different things and you have to pick one at the risk of upsetting the other. It's usually a lose-lose situation.
All I can say is that it's not your fault at all, you were put in a difficult position and at the end of the day you should be allowed to make your own choice. I think your friend is being stubborn but hopefully in a couple of days she will get over it and things should be back to normal but this will not stop the same thing from happening again. After she has gotten over it all it might be an idea for you all to talk about this and try to come to some kind of arrangement because you are obviously all good friends and the last thing you all would need is to have a little thing like this mess things up.
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