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i like him but he annoys me
ok well i like my best friend. and we are cool and all i mean we have all these inside jokes and he is really sweet and all. just a little background. i used to like him. he didnt like me back/ didnt want a gf. so i kinda got over him and let him know i didnt like him anymore. after that i guess i just started liking him again. then after that i guess we got even closer as friends.
well i do like him and all but find it very difficult to believe that he likes me back. the reason is that i find it hard to trust his clues. he can be very misleading like he led me on once already and i dont want that again. also lately he has been starting to annoy me. like whenver i hang out with him he will say stupid things and i just roll my eyes and laugh. and he sometimes just clings onto me too much. i am suppposed to like that. but for some reason he sometimes comes off as annoying and clingy. how can i change that? i asked my brother. he said its obvious this guy likes you back thats why hes behaving so weird lately. but how can i trust that he really does like me??
i really do like him a lot. its so cute the way his face lights up when he sees me. he yells my name and puts his arms out to hug me. then he puts his arm around me. he always wants to be near me. but this all may be my inagination. trust me i dont want to get hurt. not again. i cant deal with it anymore. i dont want an awkward relatiopnship/friendship with him. i want wats best for both of us.
thank you so much. i really need help on this one!
SAM
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If your friend is starting to annoy you, don't tell him. Talk to him & ask if you guys can take a break from hanging out all the time. Still talk, but hang out with other people, stuff like that. If he's your friend, he'll understand & go along with it. Besides, you need some time for your girls just like he needs time for his guys.
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hey, well i agree with "ammo" below to a point. i think that you should directly ask him how he feels and explain to him what your explaining to us. tell him that he rudely lead you on once and since you really like him you dont want that to happen again. it will make you feel better to get all of your feelings off your chest. also its much better for him to know how you feel. he might be shocked that you like him again and didnt see it coming. so if he reacts weird, give it time. let it sink it before you get all offended. hopefully things work out for you. good luck.
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Hello Sam.
This is an awkward situation but I think the only real way you will know for certain as to whether he likes you or not would be to just ask him. If you prefer not to take the direct route you could always just ask him what's been going on with him lately and explain to him how you've noticed these little changes in him and the way he acts and stuff and see what he has to say.
I know you don't want to get hurt but in relationships that risk is always there so your only choice really will be is to take a risk and find out or to play it safe and just make it clear you're not interested at all. The thing that makes it more complicated is the whole friendship thing as well. If you want what's best for you both then the only way that might happen is if you both are honest about your feelings for each other and then talk about it and see how it will effect your friendship with each other and what will happen if one day things didn't work out - because it's always that risk that they won't when it comes to relationships.
Good luck Sam and I hope I was some help.
=Ammo=
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