My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex, and we were both virgins before hand. I had given him handjobs before and he fingered me, and he only lasted a few minutes when i gave him a handjob. I heard that when a guy first has sex with a girl, he doesnt last very long. My boyfriend lasted about 2 minutes. Is that normal? If it is, then how long will it take for him to last longer? Is there any way I can help him last longer?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? marlovvve08 answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 6:05 pm: its normal for when a guy first starts. hes not use to the feeling so he isnt ging to last long. me and my boyfriend have been doing it for a year now and we usally last a half hour to 45 minutes. in the beginning its going to suck for you because your going to want it, but hes not going to be able to control himself so thats something you have to get use to and work on. the more you have sex, the more hes going to get use to the feeling and ts going to take more time for him to bust. dont worry though because 2 minutes is normal for when a guy first starts to have sexx. be careful and i hope i helped =]<3 [ marlovvve08's advice column | Ask marlovvve08 A Question ]
christina answered Monday April 16 2007, 11:00 pm: Guys usually don't last too long their first times, but the more you go at it, the longer he'll learn to control it & last in bed.
ammo answered Monday April 16 2007, 10:42 pm: That is perfectly normal, yes. Because it is a new experience aguy will generally cum very quickly. Just be patient and give him time to adjust and he should get better at lasting longer.
One thing that can help is condoms (the extra safe thicker ones). They make the penis less sensitive during sex because the condoms are thicker. These may assist in helping him to last that little bit longer. [ ammo's advice column | Ask ammo A Question ]
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