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my best friend moved
hey. sorry if this is really long but I could def. use some advice if you have any. I had this group of best friends in fifth grade lets call them Rachel Jessey Jennie and Hannah. Anyway we were inseperable. Then in sixth grade Hannah moved to live with her mom and we threw her this big party with good luck gifts, cake, the whole thing. At first we kept in touch but once Hannah started making new friends she slowly stopped talking to us. Like especially me and Rachel we call her all the time and invite her places but she always has an excuse but then she can always hang out with her new friends. She blew off my birthday at the beginning of 7th grade year (this year) and at first when we started asking her what was up she was nice but today I found out she blew me off this weekend for one of her new friends Jaymie and she got WICKED mad at me for bringing it up and she kept saying oh I`m sorry I have a life and I made new friends blah blah blah and Rachel totally agrees with me and Hannah says that I`m the one that changed and that makes me really mad because I think I`m the only one that stayed exactly the same. What do you guys think. Any help would be great. ♥
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That is not true friendship. i'm friends with only three people and i knew them all my life. they are my second family and i might be moving also. but i made a promise no matter what i will keep in touch. i hate when people do that to others and i dont like how hannah treated you. she needs to realize that you can be friends with old friends. anyways she is not wroth your time, dont worry about someone that is not worring about you. it breaks your heart and dont make it wrose. Rachel seems like a good friend stay by her side and with your other pals.
Hannah might miss that and she comes clawing back dont take the BS cause she all ready lost her good friends.
hope i help.
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it sounds to me like rachel is the best person in the world and that hannah chick is crazy. Jennie and Jessey seem pretty cool too, but you dont say much about them. Forget this hannah girl, if she doesnt want to be your friend, then she doesnt deserve your friendship. Just stop talking to her. She isnt worth your time. hope i helped :D
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When someone moves such as a friend, things are gonna change. There's no reversing it. There's no stopping it. It's gonna happen no matter what. They're going to make new friends, try new things, & eventually move on with life. It's a cycle, and you can't break it.
I understand you're upset but it's just something you're going to have to get over. She's made new friends & started a new life. It's always gonna be this way. When you go to college, you might not see your friend as much. You might be in a completely different state & never see them as much. You're gonna make new friends, and life's changing.
Just call her & ask her what's up with her, and if she continues to be an ass about it, then just forget about her. You had good times, and the friendship was good while it lasted. Just think of it as a chapter of life, and the chapter is over. Move on, make some new friends & try to grow up a bit.
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To be honest this kind of thing is to be expected. She had moved away and had to make new friends and move on as such which she has done. I don't think you have changed though, more the other way around and your friend has but thing is this kind of thing does happen.
I had a friend for years and years and when he moved out of town to work away we started talking and hanging out less and less to the point that we txt each other now to say happy xmas/bday and stuff but that's about it. We even see each other rarely nowadays because he is always busy with his new friends he made where he moved to.
This is just one of those things that happen. Stay in touch with your friend but try not to be too dissapointed when she can't make it to plans you and your friends make. She's moved on and is now trying to fit in with her new friends. I don't know what she could possibly be thinking because I have no idea what my friend was/is thinking either but I do know it does happen. Old friends sometimes leave and we make new friends to take their place.
The only thing I think you can do is say to tell her how upset you get that she seems to hold her new friends as more important than her old ones. Just tell her you do miss her and want to hang out with her again and stuff and not feel like she's just cutting you all loose now that she has made some new friends.
Either way though I really hope you manage to sort this out with her. To see that you obviously care so much about your friendship with her is a nice thing to see - she's lucky to have a friend like you.
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