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0KAY iM 13-F G0iNG iNT0 8TH GRADE iM AB0UT 5'4 0R 5'5 AND i WiEGH 119 iS 119 A L0T ? (link)
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No it isn't. You sound about the right weight for your age and height. :)
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people say running is a way to lose wieght but can i just walk instead? if not, why cant i? (link)
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Walking will work just as well if you aren't into running or are just to out of shape. It is also easier on your knees. :)
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sorry this is going to be long... but i really need help!! me and this guy (we'll call him chris) have been "together" i guess you could say for about 3 months.... well last night i found out my best friend broke a truce we made a while ago... we both said we'd never smoke weed, and she did all bc she got a new bf...well i told chris about it and he ended up talkin to her online... she told him i took 6 sleeping pills earlier... (which i told her, bc i wanted her to know how i felt) (i really only took 1 tho bc i havnt slept in 4 days... im an insomniac) well chris got really upset and yelled at me about how stupid it was... (he asked about the pills and i told him 6 bc i didnt want him to tell her otherwise) so he screamed at me for bein so stupid.. and he hung up, then he told his mom about it. so now i dont think his momll let us see each otehr again... but also i dont think he wants to talk to me... i told him the truth about me only taking one pill...and he was upset hes like well why didnt you tell me before... and i was like bc i knew you would tell her and i want her to understand the way i feel... ive already apoligized to him about makin him freak out over nothing... and now he wont talk to me, so i need help, likeon what to do... what to tell him.. please help. (link)
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You shouldn't mess with sleeping pills because pretty soon you won't be able to sleep without them. Insomnia is annoying but sooner or later you will sleep.
I can't blame Chris for being upset. Nobody wants to be involved with someone who is a pill popper....regardless of the pill. Telling someone you took more to prove a point isn't the best behavior either. You will have to hope he gives you a second chance and then just don't mess with pills anymore. You know he doesn't like it and it will eventually be a relationship breaker. :)
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Aww! Message receieved, and while it was definitely unnecessary, it was nice. However, I wouldn't call myself a magician because of this, I was simply just trying to lend a helping hand where ever I can. I was telling good ol' SC the other night that it was nice to see your column back to 'normal', I guess you can say. It just didn't feel the same being as brief as it was prior to the recently added HTML code.
Mackenzie =] (link)
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we tried to add a little more! Thanks again for the help. Nice to know magicians! :)
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what is spooning? (link)
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to engage in amorous behavior such as kissing or caressing. :)
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ok i have sims 2 i think its like body shop and house builder or something. 1 game with the game and the other i downloaded. anyways i dont no how to work them i open it up and i have no idea what to do. i no how to work the one for sims 1 but how do i work the one for sims 2? i have all the stuff installed i need and everything (link)
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About.com has a Sims newsletter you may find useful. I have Sims 2 for PlayStation 2 but don't think I'd be much help to you on computer version. Check About.com though you may find lots of useful information. :)
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OK ive been friends with this boy for a while now, and i think i like him. I'm pretty sure he only wants to be friends. Hes never had a gf, ive never had a bf. This is weird but ... i dont think i would ever have a shot of going out w/ him, cus he wants to be a priest and is really catholic, and so am i, thats the major thing we have in common. How can i like, get over him? Should i get over him? idk what to doo !!!!!! (link)
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You might want to get over him as far as a boyfriend goes for the time being. His aspirations to become a priest could change over time. In the meantime there is no reason you shouldn't remain really good friends. :)
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so i was going out with this kid named chris last summer he was a grade older then me and we went out for a few months and then he cheated on me so i broke up with him but we still hung out like once or twice after we broke up and he really wanted to go back out but i didnt want to.. even tho i still really liked him alot and and a few months later he told me he liked me agin but i told him i didnt wanna go out even tho.. again i still really liked him i just couldent go out with a guy who cheated on me cause i thgouht he would do it again so now its a year later and we both have new people that we are dating but i still think about him all the time and sometimes we still talk... so my question is ..is it bad that i still think about him all the time even tho i have a boyfrined and yeah ..and any other comments please tell me ..i will rate (link)
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You may still have some unresolved feelings somewhere...or just plain old curiosity. I don't think its "bad", but you should probably be concentrating on your boyfriend more right now.
If it continues and you both become available again it might not hurt to give it another shot. He may have actually learned something from his previous mistake and time does have a way of maturing a guy. :)
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me and my girlfriend we are at a water park today an d we were kind of in the mood to be like naughty i guess you could say so like we didnt have sex, but i kinda slipped it in. we were in the pool. and like it barely went in, but should we really worry about her getting pregnant i mean like ive never had sex before so im kinda like ahhhh, i mean i know precum can get you pregnant please tell me if you think i should be worried or what we sould do (link)
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Chances are small enough that she isn't that I don't think you should worry to much this time. Please be careful in the future though because it only takes one time to change your whole life.:)
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I just met this cute guy at work (lifeguarding) 3 weeks ago. He has started to wrap his arms around my waist, pull my ponytail, save me from the frogs, and just plain old flirt with me. The problem?! He has a girlfriend. Better yet, girlfriend of 6 months. Im a good person and I dont feel its right for me to continue flirting with him if I know he has someone else. But he's not the type of guy to fool around with other girls, I dont know If I should continue to have feelings for him or just forget it because he's just using me, maybe he has feelings for me tho?! ahh help! thanx! xO (link)
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Evidently he is the type to fool around with other girls! His poor girlfriend...Look for someone else because I do think he is probably using you. :)
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I've had an eating disorder for lets say longer than a year. (anorexia) I finally got over it this summer. I'm worried about school though and how my friends will react because i wasn't eating lunch all last year. Will they make a big deal out of it and will i end up starting it ALL OVER AGAIN????? I RATE HIGH (link)
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They probably won't make a big deal of it. You have probably seen a doctor concerning your eating disorder. If you have then rely on that help again if you need to. Don't let what others think rule your life. :)
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This guy I like asked me out...but my best friend used to be just ga-ga over him so I thought he was off limits. Then I talked to my friend and said it was ok and we've been going out for a little while...my friend tells me all these things about him and how much of a guy he is (if ya know what I mean) but I figure he can show me who he is better than anyone else can tell me right? Well, anyways, everybody keeps warning me about him but as far as I can see, there's absolutely nothing wrong with him...I really like him and he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that's...ya know...a guy...but how do I ever tell for sure wether he just wants some or really cares about me?
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Make you own mind up about him and anyone else who comes your way! Your friend really has no business telling you things about him....remember even though she said it was OK, there could be some jealousy in her remarks.
If he is only after one thing it will be clear soon enough. Use your own judgement. :)
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okay well there's this guy i've liked for a pretty long period of time. we've been best friends since like 6th grade. (going into 10th now.) he always just liked me as "a friend." anyway, i got over him in about april or may...and we havent hung out since. but we hung out this past thursday and he was being really really flirty. like we were all messin around with homecoming and i was like wanna go with me? and he said sure. but idk if he was jk or noT! and plus he's been like begging me to hang out.. is this him being friends or is he starting to like me? I RATE HIGH.! (link)
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Sounds to me as if he likes you! If you have doubts though call and ask. :)
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How do I make my ex-boyfriend jaulose so he would come back to me? or should I just want untill he comes to me what should I do help. (link)
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Trying to make someone jealous has a way of backfiring. I don't advise it. Just wait and if its meant to be he will return to you. :)
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Hello,well, i have a boyfriend right now.And u see i can't have one right now.and i don't know why i'm almost 16.my mom doens't care,but my dad...oh..he's like SO jealous.he doesn't even want me to have friends (boys),and do u think this is right,what i'm doing? I hardly see him,well i talk to him everyday on the phone while my dad isn't looking.BUt i don't know what to do. thankz for your help.
Brenda (link)
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I think you need to ask dad when he's going to let you grow up! I think you're old enough to have a boyfriend but I'm not your parent. Have mom help you talk with him about it all and set some definite times when it will be OK. I really don't like it that you have to sneak around. If he should find out things could get ugly. Try and have the talk soon and see if you can't resolve it before that happens. :)
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Okay, first off, I'm one to listen to advice and take it, but usually what I end up choosing lies within me. Basically what I'm trying to say is, I know I should follow my heart, I just want to know what YOU would do if you were me. The question is going to be kind of long, sorry.:]
I was born in Singapore, and basically for half my life I've been shuffling between Toronto and Singapore living and studying with either my mom or my dad. I came back to Toronto again in November of 2003, and I guess you can say I was not happy about leaving Singapore. The reason me and my brothers are here is so that we have an easier access to university in the future, but I feel so sick here, as if there is no meaning to my life, nowhere I'm heading, at least in Singapore, they force feed you to do well in school and as sad as that sounds, I felt as if I was going somewhere. I had plenty of friends and I was happy.
Now I haven't been back to Singapore for 1 1/2 years, and everyday my mom is saying how I've turned into this..mentally depressed person. She said that she wont force me to stay here. The question is, should I stay here until I finish my university studies, or go back to Singapore and study until Grade 11, and come back for Grade 12 and university? The problem is, my little brother wants to stay, and we have a lot of family problems, I kind of want to protect him. I don't want him to have to grow up the way I did. If I go back to Singapore, I will learn a lot more education-wise and feel challenged, I will finally be around my family again, and it's not as if I can never come back to Toronto. If I stay in Toronto, I'll be able to protect my brother, I'll have an easier life, but it just feels meaningless. After all, it's not liek I can never come back to Toronto again, but I'm afraid, once I make my choice, I cannot turn back. I can't go back to Singapore and try it for 1 month or so, it is too expensive. I have to stay there until University. If I stay here, I can't help but think "what if?" I just feel so dreadful, it's as if all my happiness was sucked out of me the minute I left Singapore. What would you do? (link)
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This is a tough question. I don't envy you having to make a decision. I will simply put some thoughts out there for your consideration.
You don't say what the "family problem" you're worried about is. If your brother is somehow in danger then your staying in Toronto certainly couldn't be considered as meaningless.
You have it within you to do well in school regardless of where you go. In Singapore they may "force feed" you to do well in school but you can do that yourself in Toronto. There is self discipline and if you put your mind to it where you are won't matter.
If your brother is happy where he is then he may perceive whatever danger you see as something different. If he likes being in Toronto and is happy there then he will do fine. If you leave you won't see him as often and that would be something you'd be sacrificing by the move. In actuality your protecting him is not your responsibility, noble as it is to want to.
All said, If you want to return to family and friends in Singapore then go ahead...I think that is what you are actually missing most.
Life is what you make of it and can have meaning no matter where on earth you choose to live. Ultimately there will be what ifs no matter what road you take. We just have to choose one and don't look back.
Once you make your decision...smile and don't look back, you'll find that happiness. :)
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0k so i just got back from the beach with 3 of my friends and our other 3 guy friends were there too. we hung out with them alot. one of the guys (lets call him Jimmy) has a girlfriend and they've been going out for like 10 months. i know his girlfriend pretty well and stuff. then one night me and Jimmy were in the lobby while all our other friends were in the bathrooms. we were both on the couch and he leaned it and we just started to make out. hes soooo hott and i wasn't thinking so i just gave in and didn't pull away until like i dunno like 10 seconds? lol yeah so now i feel reallly guilty cause his girlfriend has no idea he did this and they are like in love. i don't want to tell anyone cause it would like RUIN me cause his girlfriend has a lot of friends and so yeah. i dunno if i should tell anyone?? please help! (link)
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Keep it to yourself. He is a real jerk and hott or not is one to stay away from in the future. :)
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is it wrong if you are 15 yrs old and have a 25 year old boyfriend??everyone tells me that its wrong.. (link)
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yes it is as you've heard from the others. Do you not wonder why a 25 year old would be so interested in someone so much younger? You have to consider why he is unable to find friends his own age.
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Hey Everyone!! Well I've liked this guy 4 a really long time and decided it was o.k to have oral sex w. him. When we were done he cummed on me but not in me and than instantly wiped it off w. a napkin. I'm wondering if there's ne way possible tht some1 can get pregnant from oral sex?? I'm 5 days late on my period and its starting to freak me out a little bit. Suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Tnnx(please help im desperate!!) (link)
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You cannot get pregnant by having oral sex. :)
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so i was at the park last night with a couple boys and my best friend. well, this one guy named josh came and sat really close to me and then put his hat on my head. he pretty much only talked to me, and was the only person who'd let have some of his drink. when he left he gave me a hug for a couple minutes. we flirted a whole lot before he left. my best guy friend who was there and my best friend both think he likes me. i dont know what to think. could you help me? (link)
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If he gave you all his attention and was nice to you then I think its safe to say he likes you. :)
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