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How do I know for sure?
This guy I like asked me out...but my best friend used to be just ga-ga over him so I thought he was off limits. Then I talked to my friend and said it was ok and we've been going out for a little while...my friend tells me all these things about him and how much of a guy he is (if ya know what I mean) but I figure he can show me who he is better than anyone else can tell me right? Well, anyways, everybody keeps warning me about him but as far as I can see, there's absolutely nothing wrong with him...I really like him and he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that's...ya know...a guy...but how do I ever tell for sure wether he just wants some or really cares about me?
16/f
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At this point I would take what your friends are saying seriously but put it behind everything right now. Make sure you get to know him pretty well. Do you know how he treated your friend before they broke up? All girls talk about their ex boyfriends like they were the worst ever. But it just sometimes means that they are'nt completly over them yet or they are just trying to hurt your feelings.. even tho that seems bitchy! You're right.. no1 can know him better then himself and right now just be careful. Try not to get too attached to him and then end up getting your heart broken. Make sure he treats you right. Calls you and talks right towards you. You just will know.
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Well if he hasnt asked you for anything bad like sex or anything then ovibously he doesnt want to rush into things .. meaning he cares about you. I think your friend may just be jealous becuase i mean even thought she said shes fine with it she may get a little jealous / all girls do eventually. Give him some time. You could invite him over and then just start a conversation and bring up this sitution. If he really cares about you he'll tell you! Good Luck ♥//ALMA
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well you can do little tests to test him, even though i have no examples sorry! but like see how he acts around you alone verses when you two are with other people and stuff. you wont really know for sure unless he tries to get in your pants and stuff and if you like stop him and tell him that no, you dont wanna do it, see how he reacts to that. if he like gets mad or w/e then he's just playing you and trying to get sum, but if he seems sincere and understandibg well then MAYBE he really cares about you and respects your feelings ( i guess thats an example) but use your ownjudement and trust your heart.
hope i helped
xoxo
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You'll know if he really cares about you when he's himself around you. When you guys are alone all he wants to do is cuddle and do some kissing. You'll know if he's using you if he's always trying to go down your pants, or up your shirt. When he does this and you don't feel comfortable about it, just tell him to stop. If he cares about you he'll respect your thoughs and won't try anything till you're ready. If he doesn't stop and trys to force you into something you don't want to do, then you'll know he's only it in it for sex.
♥ Krissy
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You won't really know until he tries to get in your pants. Just tell him up-front that you want to take things slow. If he really cares about you, he shouldn't have a problem with that. If he gets mad or tries to change your mind, then you'll know that he was just interested in what's between your legs.
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Make you own mind up about him and anyone else who comes your way! Your friend really has no business telling you things about him....remember even though she said it was OK, there could be some jealousy in her remarks.
If he is only after one thing it will be clear soon enough. Use your own judgement. :)
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