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Single for life?
Okay, I consider myself kind of pretty. I have had guys admit to like me but I have never had a guy ask me out! Why will the openly tell me what they would like doing to me (sexually) but never have enough courage to ask me out?
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no hunnie i dont think you will be single for life i dont think anything would be wrong with you maybe its just the guys they are waiting maybe or waitign for you to make the first move? eventually someone will have the courage to ask you out and eventually you will fall in love too and love is the greastest feeling some one can have but than again at times love can be hell so no need to rush really go0d luck!
*ariana*
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Probably. If you are so pretty why haven't they asked you out. How is your personality, not trying to be funny or anything but even ugly girls with nice personalties gert asked out. But if he admits that he likes you ehy don't you ask him out.
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You should try asking them out.. show them that theres nothing to be afaid of
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Dearest Single for life,
First of all you must love yourself first before you can start to question another persons' affection for yourself. You willing admited that you are pretty so that a good step in the right direction. Seeing all the excellect things about yourself gives you more courage to not really care of what others think of you sexually or non sexually. These young men that your talking about probably don't like themselves enough to be judged by you or others. Think about it, what type of guy would openly tell you what he wants to do to you sexually and not even try to take the time out of their horny schedule to ask how was your day. Better yet what type of guys would even approached a beautiful young lady such as yourself like that. I would have to say not to pay them any attention because better things are coming your way. I'm sure that these respectable young men like you as a friend so in return, like them back as a friend that you don't wish to have a relationship with. Trust me, not giving it up to them will allow them to know that your a lady and demand to be treated like one. Watch, they will soon start to treat you with the ut-most respect and thats how the courage of them asking you out will come about.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
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I had the exact same problem...they are just scared of being rejected. They will feel like a complete idiot if they get turned down and they prolly all think that you are too good for them and that you will turn them down, so they never ask you out. But sooner or later a guy with enough balls to ask you out will come along...I promise. I hope I helped
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If they don't want to ask you out, it might be because they are afraid to or they're just not for you. You can try asking guys out, but I'm not sure if that would be weird or not. ;-)
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Because fantazing about having sex with a girl is not the same thing as wanting to date a girl. Don't aim to be the gal they want to sleep with, aim to be the girl they want to hang out with and talk to.
Also, ASK THEM OUT! You can't blame a guy for not having the courage to do something that you don't have the courage to do either.
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Most guys are just horndogs, I should know, I'm one of them. They may be doing that just to see if you will take the bait. They probably are just telling that to you to see if it grabs your attention and, in turn, do something with them. Then again they might just be afraid to ask you out because to them you seem untouchable, or in other words you're too pretty to be with them and they would have no chance in getting with you. They are probably just scared, not because of your looks, but because thing don't think they would have a chance at all. Hope I helped.
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well my guess is that it is either one of two things. 1- since you said that you were pretty, they might think that you are "out of their league" and dont want to be shot down. or 2- since you said they only tell you what they want to do to you sexually, they dont want to ask you out becuase they think you will want a long term relationship and they just want a one night stand. hope i helped a bit, ive have had too much experience with boys and their stupid games.
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First of all, gurl you wont be single for the rest of your life!!! So dont worry. Sometimes guys can be intimidated (sounds weird yeah..). Really try to talk to them and get close to one guy who you might get interested in. Take things slow so the guy doesn't feel rushed. I'm sure somebody will ask you out soon so don't worry!!!
4Him, Disciple (plz rate me if i deserve it)
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