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weed and pills..
sorry this is going to be long... but i really need help!! me and this guy (we'll call him chris) have been "together" i guess you could say for about 3 months.... well last night i found out my best friend broke a truce we made a while ago... we both said we'd never smoke weed, and she did all bc she got a new bf...well i told chris about it and he ended up talkin to her online... she told him i took 6 sleeping pills earlier... (which i told her, bc i wanted her to know how i felt) (i really only took 1 tho bc i havnt slept in 4 days... im an insomniac) well chris got really upset and yelled at me about how stupid it was... (he asked about the pills and i told him 6 bc i didnt want him to tell her otherwise) so he screamed at me for bein so stupid.. and he hung up, then he told his mom about it. so now i dont think his momll let us see each otehr again... but also i dont think he wants to talk to me... i told him the truth about me only taking one pill...and he was upset hes like well why didnt you tell me before... and i was like bc i knew you would tell her and i want her to understand the way i feel... ive already apoligized to him about makin him freak out over nothing... and now he wont talk to me, so i need help, likeon what to do... what to tell him.. please help.
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you have definitly been betrayed by you friend bu if i were chris i would feel like i had also been betrayed and lied to and i would probably feel stupid that i was sooo worried for nothing...he obviously must have really cared about you if he freaked like that and he probably still does...you need to appoligize like 500 times to him and tell him EXACTLY why you lied to him, if he really ever loved you then he will forgive you over time...hope i helped
danni <3
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This is not your best friends fault. You lied to her, exagerated so she would feel bad for you. Then you didn't even tell Chris the truth, just to keep the lie going.
You can't blame your friend, maybe she was just worried about you, or maybe she was trying to get back at you, it doesn't really matter, you started the lie and you will ALWAYS get caught up in your own lies.
No wonder Chris is mad, he probably thought you were honest. So apologise, agian and agian, and don't lie anymore for attention or you'll get the bad kind like you are right now.
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That probably just turned Chris off! Maybe you should talk to his mom, and tell her what happened. Since she is his mom, you can ask her if she will give you another chance and then ask if she will talk to him. I know that it isn't always good to talk to the parent, because it is awkward. But right now, if he won't talk to you, it is the only way to get him, unless you talk to his friends. Tell them only what you want them to know. Don't tell them too much, in case he doesn't want them to know. Ask them if they will talk to him. It might be easyer to get the friend that is closest to you to talk to him.You also could always try going to his house and talking to him. take him some flowers and say that you're sorry. But don't get too desprate, you don't want to bug him to death, if it were me, I would only do one thing that I sugested. In a way the most affective would be the leaving him alone, and letting him get over it. He might come back. I have an idea. Try leaving him alone for like a week, then tell me if it works, fi ti doesn't then I will tell you what to do by you telling me what his reaction was. To tell me, just E-mail me, you can find my E-mail in my advice column. Don't leave me hanging, or I will worry about you too much. So tell me how well leaving him alone works after the first week. I will tell you where to go frome there. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate fi you don't want to, but itwould be nice if you did. Thanks!
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You shouldn't mess with sleeping pills because pretty soon you won't be able to sleep without them. Insomnia is annoying but sooner or later you will sleep.
I can't blame Chris for being upset. Nobody wants to be involved with someone who is a pill popper....regardless of the pill. Telling someone you took more to prove a point isn't the best behavior either. You will have to hope he gives you a second chance and then just don't mess with pills anymore. You know he doesn't like it and it will eventually be a relationship breaker. :)
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