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Hey everybody! My best friend Brooke's mom died last year of ALL (actute lymphoblastic lukemia) she died on October 17th which would be this Saturday. On is the year anniversary of her mom's death and i wanted to do something special for Brooke to show her i care... any suggestions on something i could get her or ne thing i could say? i would really appreciate it!! and i rate every1!

what i think the best thing to do is... get her a pizza or sumthin else that she really enjoys & do everything for her... like the dishes, or anything else that needs to be done... so she can just relax... & not have to worry about anything

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Okay I asked the question about being 13/f and my breasts hurting size 38c. Well today i was noticing that my right breast kinda feels like it has lumps in it. I think I might have breast cancer. But I am confused. If I do I don't know how to ask my mom to take me to the doctor to find out or even tell her that I think I do.

Yeah you should tell ur mom ASAP... Go see a doctor... if u detect cancer in its early stages... its more likely to be cured...

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wut is the best way to get a rid of pimples or acne quickly? i rate!

Go to the dermatologist... they'll give u retina micro...

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My sister and I used to go to the same middle school. She's only a year older then me. She's a 9th grader and she was planning on going to the same HS (high school) as everyone else that went to my middle school. All of a sudden she changed her mind and went somewhere else. I really wanna go where she's going cuz its a better school but i have THE BEST friends ever right now and im not prepared to leave them and i dont want them to be mad, but i think this school would really help me do what i always wanted HELP ME!! WHT SHULD I DO?

What do u want more... to spend time wit ur friends or a school thats going to help u do what you've always wanted... u can still chill wit ur friends on the weekends if u go to this other school... & it's always fun to meet new people... i think u should go to the new school... & if u dont like it u could always switch baQ

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how long does it take to get your braces off? thanx

1-2 years... depending how much work needs to be done... removing ur braces takes about 15-30 minutes...

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ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.

but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.

thnx

Soundz like she is interested in you... tell her how u feel... show her that u really care about her by giving her flowers, writing her poems & notes, buyin her chocolate, cuddling wit her, playin wit her hair, giving her massages, make her feel like ur world revolves around her...

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im 13/f and my breasts have been hurting lately i dont know why. i have a 38c bra size...what do u thinks the matter

Either ur breast are going... or ur about to start ur period... if they start to hurt severly... go see a doctor...

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Hello,

I am 16 years old and a female. I am 5'2 1/2 and 93 lbs. I am very thin but not sick looking. I don't really eat like I'd call normal. I eat like once or twice a day normally but sometimes three. I am just never hungry most of the time and I am typically a light eater. The odd thing is last year I was like 115-120 lbs and then a few months ago I was 98 and now I'm 93 lbs. Is there something wrong?

You should go to the doctor... they can tell u if sumthing is wrong wit ur body... or if ur normal... u should take vitamins...

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I am 14 and I got a 16 year old which happens to be my best friend pregnant what do I do?

the best thing to do is talk to ur parents about it... they are the ones that can help you the most... THINK before u make a decision... i hope things work out for you

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Lately I cant stay awake though a whole day at school and when I get home Im so sleepy but I cant sleep... Then at night when Its my "bed" time or when I feel like I can sleep I lay their for hours and cant sleep... I dont want to take a sleeping pill or night time because i used to be dependant on it, Also I think its starting to affect my grades at first my grades were just as high now their starting to go downhill and I have an F in history... Any Sleep Time Tips would Be Appericated... Also any US History class tips would be appericated (My grade in history wasnt that good to begin with) Thanks in Advance
Chris

the best thing to do is take benedryl... thats what most doctors recommend... take benedryl everyday at the same time... & than go to sleep at the same time... ur body will get used to that routine then u can stop takin it... if u really dont wanna take medicine... wake an hr earlier than u usually do... than u will be sleepier at nite... dont drink caffine in the evenings... it'll keep you up... i had this problem in the summer... i went to sleep at 5 am... & woke up at 5 pm... feel free to IM me if you wanna talk

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My mom says I need to be more responsable so that she can trust me when I start driving in a month. How can I show her that she can trust me?

Start doing stuff that she normally asks you to do... before she asks you... if u see dishes in the sink wash em... if the floor looks dirty vacuum it... mop the floor... keep ur room cleaner... if shes ever vacuuming or doing the dishes... say why dont u rest & let me do it... try to get better grades... be honest wit her... when sumthing happenz talk to her about it... let her know u could of hidden it from her... but u told her cuz u knew it was rite...

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Hey..my room is kind of big, but it's so boring! The walls aren't white, thankfully, but there's no where for my friends to sit when we hang out and it's not a really fun enviorment. Does anyone have any ideas on making my room more upbeat, inviting, or cool? Thanks!

get beanbags... try Ikea they might have sum cute chairs... or like a sofa or sumthing that u can put in ur room

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My friend died her hair BLACK see i think it looks good but she doesn't..so does neone know how to get hair dye outta hair like..everyday home uses and stuff..like someone told us dishsoap..that didnt work to well but if neone knows then ples give me advice to help my friend thanx

I dont think there is anyway to get rid of all the dye... especially black... what she needs to do is get hair color remover... thats probably the only thing thats going to work... ive used it before... she also needs to buy sum hair color... ( whatever her natural color was... or whatever color she wants to dye her hair ) cuz when u use hair color remover it turns out really weird... so its best to dye it again... unless u like it like that ;)

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two days ago i got this bug bite that started to swell up like MAD and now it's the size of my elbow, it's red, and swollen. what can it be and what can i do about it?

You should go to ur doctor... cuz it might not be a bug bite... in the mean time put neosporin on it... that'll help the itching & reduce scarring...

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okay i know this is stupid but i have this eyeshadow/liner thing and i really wanna wear it tomorrow for some reason but the problem is it gets all messed up like 5 min. after i put it on is there anything i can do to make it not get messed up? or do i just have to just keep reapplying it? thankz..

Put foundation or concealer on before u put eye shadow on... dont use liquid eye shadows those mess up really easily... use powder

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I am talking with this dude. And I asked earlier what to get him for his 16th Bday, but I didnt get any good answers so I'm asking again! He likes bands like NFG and Blink 182, hes beachy/country, and he plays soccer and football! I really really want to get him something special! Please gimme some sweet ideas! Thanks!

you could get him a CD by his favorite band... or you could have a custom made jersey for him... have his football & soccer number on the back & his name...

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I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...

if you feel like u need to get over him than do so... but never judge sum1 based on their race... the same God that made you made him... & what does a color say... if you really want to be wit him... you can make it work it... trust me you can... u need to do what makes u happy... not what makes ur mom & friends happy... follow ur heart...

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

as far as i know... you can get in trouble for it... but theres is NOTHING wrong with that... i know married couples who have a 10 year age difference... age is a number... & if wanna be wit sum1 thats happens to be 10 years older than you... thats who you wanna be with... who u are happy with is ur business.. is there anything wrong wit being happy...

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my 2 friends (boy and a girl) r being all stupid about how we r to young to be wearin thongs and we all ask them to stop talkin about it and then dont they just keep on talkin it is so annoyin were 13 and we dont need it can u tell us wut to do
- the girls

ur underwear is ur business... if you want to wear sumthing u want to wear it... tell them to get over it... dont worry about what other people say... worry about doing whats rite for you...

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okay i have a big problem! i was all excited because i just got my cartlidge done! but i came home and told my best friend! and she asked what ear i got done and i told her my right one! and she said that if a girl gets just her right cartlidge done...that means shes a lesbian?! omg i'm all upset now! is that realli what rumors say?! because i'm definitly NOT one!
i'll rate you a 5!

ive never heard that before... i have both of my cartlidges pierced... but i usually just wear an earing in one... its usually the left one... but overall thats lame... a piece of jewelry worn in a certain area cannot determine ur sexual status

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