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i need to be responsable!
My mom says I need to be more responsable so that she can trust me when I start driving in a month. How can I show her that she can trust me?
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do your chores without being asked
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do things with her that will have to include trust.the way i got my mom and dad to trust me was to do extra things for them.always help them out and if she gives you a time to be in the house by be like 20 minutes early to prove that you were responsable for leaving at where you were early so you could be home in time.also, i would clean the whole house and keep track of things that they would normaly ask for so you could give them an answer and that would show responsability.
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Start doing stuff that she normally asks you to do... before she asks you... if u see dishes in the sink wash em... if the floor looks dirty vacuum it... mop the floor... keep ur room cleaner... if shes ever vacuuming or doing the dishes... say why dont u rest & let me do it... try to get better grades... be honest wit her... when sumthing happenz talk to her about it... let her know u could of hidden it from her... but u told her cuz u knew it was rite...
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Do some chores and help her sround the house do everything thing she tells you to do all the time but dont act like it is to likly that you are tring to get more responsibility!!
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Do some extra chores and keep your room nice without her asking, that shows that you dont need her to worry. With your schoolwork, Do your best and get your grades up as high as possible, that will show that your determined. And just be nice. Dont be mouthing off to her bad or doing stuff you know that you shouldnt(although, i think, its fun)be doing. She will notice the changes in your attitude that she cant help but trust you.
Hope this helps~Stephanie
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Do chores and stuff that you know you will be asked to do, BEFORE you are asked. Cook dinner once a week or so (unless your supposed to do that anyways) Drive around with her in the car, and show her that you know what you're doing. Have a reasonable curfew for the next month, and be in 8-15 minutes before it's up each night. DO NOT LIE! Always call he when your plans change. Talk to her, and tell her whatever she wants to know! Try to make better grades (unless you're already an A student, or A/B student)
Good Luck!!
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Do things around the house that your mom would normally do. Clean the house and your room, moe the lawn, take out the trash, help her make supper, do your homework when you get home from school, do the laundry, vacuum and dust the house, wash the dishes, wash her car. Those are just some examples of how you can show your mom that you are responsible and how she can start to trust you. Hope I helped and good luck with everything sweetie!! :)
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Clean your room and the bathrooms without her having to ask, take out the trash, clean up the kitchen if you have a dog walk it and feed it and bathe it. Do this for about a month and she'll think you're responsible. Also try to make dinner once in a while. Hope this helped.
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You can show her by acting more responsible. Do everything you are told to do around the house BEFORE your mom tells you too. That way, she will see that you are responsible enough to remember your tasks without having to be reminded. Also, follow all your moms rule. And most impotantly, give your mom the respect she deserves. When you get in an argument about something suck it up and just agree to disagree. Don't drag it out. You might want to do something nice for her too. If you get home from school before she gets home from work clean the whole house, do some laundry, have al your homework done, everything ready for the next day, and cook her dinner. Just be a responsible person and she will learn to trust you. :)
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