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im pissed at my boyfriend


Question Posted Sunday October 10 2004, 3:14 pm

ok my boyfriend is really pissing me off....we made plans on thursday to go to this arcade on saturday (yesterday) .... he called me friday to give me all the details bout wat time n stuff that we wer gonna go...well we were supossed to go @ 12 on saturday....and he didnt call or nothing....so i called him @ 12 30 n he was like "ohh ya i duno if im gonna go nemore wanna jsut go see a movie later on?" so i was like okay...and he was like well ill call u later n ask wat movie and where wer gonna c it..WELL HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK! i called @ 12 3o...we wer gonna c it around 5-6 and he didnt call all afternoon or nothing....HE STILL HASNT CALLED! im so mad bc i cancelled all my plans to go with him...and i stayed home n cleaned to get money so i could go! i dont wanna b lyke bitching at him if he calls but i dont wanna just b lyke AWW ITZ OKAY! he usually calls me every night...im expecting a fone call today....but wat do i say...im really mad...=(

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adviceguy answered Sunday October 10 2004, 3:49 pm:
Im a big beleiver in the fact that we should always think the best of people. When I first read your answer I immediatly thought that your boyfriend was trying to hide something from you, but my views have changed.

Even though he cancelled your arcade plans, the fact that he tried to arrange something else with you means that he probably isn't trying to deliberatly hurt or you ( or that he is involved with other people).

I simply belive that your boyfriend is experiencing some trouble or something really important came up. If this is so, he will probably end up apologizing to you.

The best advice I can give you is: don't be quick to judge. Find out the full story from your boyfriend before you act. He may indeed have a valid reason for cancelling on you.

Saying something you will regret before he has a chance to explain will make the situationn worse.

Good Luck

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