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New School Yes or No


Question Posted Sunday October 10 2004, 10:29 pm

My sister and I used to go to the same middle school. She's only a year older then me. She's a 9th grader and she was planning on going to the same HS (high school) as everyone else that went to my middle school. All of a sudden she changed her mind and went somewhere else. I really wanna go where she's going cuz its a better school but i have THE BEST friends ever right now and im not prepared to leave them and i dont want them to be mad, but i think this school would really help me do what i always wanted HELP ME!! WHT SHULD I DO?

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Additional info, added Monday October 11 2004, 9:39 pm:
i need to add something this other school is catholic, all girls, uniforms, and its just a good music program, i kinda sweetned it up when i asked the ? but yeah.

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charmed-cherry21 answered Monday October 11 2004, 5:56 pm:
Go to the other school. You can still hang out with your friends.

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sevenstarcrash answered Monday October 11 2004, 12:18 pm:
I think you should go to the better school. Friends come and go, and if they're as amazing as you say - your bonds will be enough to keep in touch. And you know what? it'd happen sooner or later anyway - after High School, you'd just be splitting up and going into different directions anyway. I know how you feel, In middle school I switched schools and left behind some really great friends. And even though we're not as close as we once were, we're still able to stop and chat if we see each other out, and sometimes give each other a call. It's not like you're losing them completely, you're just making the best decision that will help you achieve your goals. And in today's world, a good education is one of the most important things to have. So9 if this school is going to help you get into the occupation of your dreams, then go for it, because there's a lot ahead of you.

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S_C answered Monday October 11 2004, 9:12 am:
the better school. I miss my friends from middle school, because our middle school got split up and we didn't have a choice. I'm in the newer better school with my sister. She's in the older not as good school with the rest of our friends.

If I had the choice to move schools, I wouldn't. I got great teachers, cool classes, and lots of new friends, also, very HOT guy friends!!

It's a hard transition to make, but after a while it's a good desicion. You can still hang with them at football games, and any sports event. You can hang with them after school and on weekends. The hardes part for me was my BFF's parents are split up, so every other weekend she goes to her dad's which is in SC, and we live in NC, so it's harded to see her. But trust me, the better school is a great desicion. Unless of course you don't want any of the teachers to know who you are through your sis, like mine do. But that could be a good thing too.

Well Good luck with the desicion

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday October 11 2004, 3:05 am:
What do u want more... to spend time wit ur friends or a school thats going to help u do what you've always wanted... u can still chill wit ur friends on the weekends if u go to this other school... & it's always fun to meet new people... i think u should go to the new school... & if u dont like it u could always switch baQ

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been_through_it_81 answered Monday October 11 2004, 1:27 am:
Go to the better school. That's what I would do. I went to a million new schools and there were new people there, new friends. I still kept in touch with my old friends, it's just you see them less and that could make your friendship even stronger.

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dancergal1024 answered Monday October 11 2004, 1:04 am:
im sorry but what i think i would do is switch...because it will help you in the long run but you can get new friends there and yea youll miss them but you can still see them and hang out with them sometimes

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xokaylanicoleox answered Sunday October 10 2004, 11:02 pm:
your best friends will always be there but that school wont ... if you really want this school and its gonna help you out a whole bunch. then hang out with your friends whenever you get a chance like on teh weekends and stuff bc like i said they will always be there and that opportunity of a life time wont always be ... i hope i helped! -kayla

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XxRockon answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:58 pm:
go to the school u want to and on the weekends you can see ur friends and spend time with them. But u shold go to the school u wabnt and u can make great friends there but aslo see ur bst friends.

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Sherry answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:57 pm:
Change schools. You want to go, so go! Your friends shouldent be mad at you, they should understand. And you can always hang out with them on weekends. High school is a place where you meet new people. and going to the same high school as everyone else from middle school isint fun..So just talk to your friends about it and if they get mad..then their not really that great of friends. So yeah, change schools..hope i helped!

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