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13/m Ever since I tried to show my crush how much I loved her, she's had something to do whenever I try to talk to her. Like just now. We were both on AIM, but she had her Away Message on. After a while, she turns off her Away Message, and so I say hi, and all of a sudden her little brother wants to go ride bikes. This has happened about two or three times. Is she ignoring me? Is she trying to give me the slip? I really need advice here... (link)
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Next time she does that ask her straight out...would you rather I not contact you again? She will either say oh no its nothing like that! Or she will say she doesn't wish to speak to you. At least you will have your answer.:)
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13/m Ever since I tried to show my crush how much I loved her, she's had something to do whenever I try to talk to her. Like just now. We were both on AIM, but she had her Away Message on. After a while, she turns off her Away Message, and so I say hi, and all of a sudden her little brother wants to go ride bikes. This has happened about two or three times. Is she ignoring me? Is she trying to give me the slip? I really need advice here... (link)
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Next time she does that ask her straight out...would you rather I not contact you again? She will either say oh no its nothing like that! Or she will say she doesn't wish to speak to you. At least you will have your answer. :)
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ILL RATE 5'S NO MATTER WHAT!
I met this guy last week who was really interested in me but I wasn’t as interested in him(I was “talking” to one of his friends). Well we hooked up that weekend and told me he likes me. He called me everyday this week and I started to realize I liked him too and he asked me out on Thursday. Well we hung out this weekend and I started to REALLY like him but he didn’t treat me like a girlfriend at all. When we were with his friends he showed no affection whatsoever but when we were alone he would hug me and hold my hand and stuff. I talked to one of his best friends about it and he told me he would talk to him. On Saturday night my boyfriend called me and told me we should go back to just “talking” because he felt we were moving too fast and that going out with someone is a big step to him. I talked to his best friend and his best friend told me that he was the kind of guy who only showed affection when him and his gf are alone. He told me that my bf still really likes me but wants to slow things down. We were supposed to hang out on Sunday even though we aren’t goin out(he said we are still going to talk and hang out) but he called me and pretended like we never made plans of hanging out. I don’t know what I should do because I really like him (I’ve dated many guys this summer/school year but I’ve liked him the most and I think it’s because I feel like we actually connect).. should I go after him even though he could be leading me on? Or should I just forgot about him even though maybe we can make things work out?
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Some guys (and girls) are just shy about showing their affection in public. That may be the case here. It isn't something to worry about. Go talk to him and get it all worked out. It probably embarrassed him when his friend talked to him about it. :)
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I am in a tough thing right now I am going to have to pick where i wanna go to school next year and for kindergarden i went to a public school then i switched to a catholic school and was there for ALOT of years. Now next year for high school i have to decide where i want to go. Do I want to go back to public or go to another catholic school?? everyone from my catholic school wants me to stay at a catholic school and ppl and public skools want me to go back to public. What should I do??? (link)
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Its pretty easy really. Which one did YOU like best? Don't listen to what your friends are saying for the moment. Get 2 pieces of paper. On one put public school, on the other catholic school. Make two columns. In one column you write what you like about the school (do it on both papers), in the other write what you don't like. It will help you decide. The one with the most good things in the 'what you like column' is the winner! :)
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Ok. Heres my problem. I like this guy but he doesnt no i like him and right now he likes my best friend and stuff and me and him always talk on line and we go to the same school and stuff. Well I think now I have feelings for him and my best friend doesnt like him anymore she said but i dont think he likes me as a g/f. What should I do?? (link)
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Keep talking to him. Be friendly and he may just start thinking of you as more that "just a friend". You can always drop some hints that let him know you like him. Ask him to a movie or something. :)
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If a guy is trying to avoid me should I still try to talk to him? (link)
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It might make him mad if you do. Of that happens you'll get nowhere with him. Why not back off for a while and make him wonder what became of you? Might make him come looking for you. :)
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wat does it mean when your fingering a girl to "pop her cherry" (link)
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It means to break her hymen...
hy·men (hī'mən)
n.
A membranous fold of tissue that partly or completely occludes the external vaginal orifice.
[Late Latin hymēn, from Greek humēn, thin skin, membrane.]
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my mom keeps telling me to do chores like take out the trash, do the dishes, and other stuff.but when i ask her to help she says it's not her job. so i ask then what is your job. and she says to be the mom. and so after that she orders me to do the dishs. and i say you do them. and she says you have to earn your keep. and so i say you dont earn your keep you dont even have a job. so i get grounded. why sould i work when my mom dos'nt. i dont think i was put on this planet to do dishes. and im not her robot. but i dont wanna be grounded. should i alpolage and destroy my pride or should i hold my feet down and stay grounded.
sorry it was so long.
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Well, if you want to see the light of day I guess you need to apologise. Moms do a lot of things behind the scenes that you don't stop to think about. Most have to make sure the bills get paid and buy groceries ( this is not a fun shopping trip!) all sorts of things. It doesn't hurt if you have a few chores to do around the house. It teaches you responsibility. I know they aren't fun, but do the job the best that you can and take pride in your work. I'm sure mom appreciates it even if she doesn't say so. :)
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Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina (link)
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I think it was just a common mistake. Nothing to worry about. :)
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what does hxc mean? (link)
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From what I can find it seems to mean hardcore music. Mostly punk or about death. :)
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I'm 25 and have lived in my own apartment for three years, but I recently met a girl my age who has a house and a spare bedroom and wants a housemate to help with payments, so I'm going to move in with her. She's really cool and we hang out and have gotten to be friends. Here's my question: a few people (my parents, mostly) have told me that any time you're going to live with someone new you should have a set of ground rules that you both work on and agree to... like, what hours it's okay to play loud music, who's going to do dishes when, stuff like that. I told them the idea is silly because we're friends and she's going to think I'm weird and uptight if I propose something like this. If my music is too loud, she can tell me, you know?
So what do you think... should we just go with whatever for a while, or work out an agreement? What sort of stuff should we put on this list of rules if we do it? (link)
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You can probably try it without the list for a while if you want to. There are always things it might be best to ask ahead of time though. Big one is...Do you allow overnight guests of the opposite sex? You should also find out if roomie is a partier. It will be hard to get much done if there is a constant flow of "guests" in your house. :)
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hi i am 13 female i liek this 15 year old boi hes my brothers bff and i aksed him out and he said no and he wont tell my why? and i am in love with him what should i do (link)
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I know you don't want to hear this but you probably just need to leave him alone. He is older and he probably thinks you're to young for him. That's a pretty big age difference at your age. In a few years when you are a little more mature it may work out. So, for now just stay on friendly terms but don't bug him ( because that is embarrassing and immature). Maybe in a few years you will get together. :)
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I'm just kinda wondering what is an oragasim and how do you get one? (link)
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http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm
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how do u give head? my b.f wants me to give it to him i just don't really know how to start..please help..thanks.
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Answer is on this link. I'm sorry but we can't allow this question on the main site. You would get advice that we cannot have shown here for legal reasons (minors using site). Hope this helps. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/sex_faqs9.htm
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Ok it all started when i was in 5th grade. There was this kid a year older then me and he was really cute!!! he went to my school and he imed me and i said hey!! and we were talkin then i started to talk to him and one day he must have gotten annoyed by me or something and so we stopped talkin to eachother. then like a few months later everytime he seen me he'd like always look at me and stuff. and i was in a school play and i was putting on my shoes and in the corner of my eye he was looking like right at me but he tries not to make it obvious. Does he like me or what??? Thanks! (link)
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It sounds to me as if he might. Why not smile and say hi next time? You just need to get him talking to you again. :)
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there is this guy that i have known for a while and he is hott and everything but he is like a brother to me and he asked me out should i do it or should i just say no?
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If you enjoy his company then go ahead and give it a try. If you still feel only a brotherly affection for him after a couple of dates, go back to being just friends. I say this because it is very common for a girl to say no and then later regret not saying OK! After hes asked you out you start thinking of him a little differently and feelings may change. Very hard to then say I changed my mind! Not impossible but it could be awkward for you. So, give it a try. :)
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Hey younggrandma, sorry that this is long,
My husband and I have been married for a few months and I love him to death. But he keeps looking at porn on the internet. It makes me feel insecure, fat, ugly, and not very special to know that he looks at this stuff. I asked him to stop, and he said ok. Then I caught him doing it again. I asked him again to stop, and he said that this time he _promised_ not to do it anymore. And I caught him again. When I confronted him about it, he said that there must be something wrong with the computer, because he promised that he wouldn't do it. Then I gave him very specific details about the things he'd been looking at, and he confessed. Now he's promising not to do anymore, again. I told him I don't trust him and now he's mad.
So, my questions are...I really feel like I'm overreacting when I get mad about this, am I? Is it normal for married men to look at porn? Do you think that his lies are restricted to this area only, or might this indicate that he's lying about other things? Do you have any other advice? Also, if somehow I violated the TOS (I don't think I did), please let me know how so that I can rewrite it better, because I really need help right now.
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You didn't violate anything.
I think if he looks at it a lot...I mean constantly its not good. If he occasionally looks there, I wouldn't get to worried about it.
Married men (like single men) think about sex a lot more than we do it seems!
The fact that he keeps going back on promises bothers me a little. That makes me wonder if he has a problem. It could be he does it because its forbidden. :) So long as everything else is going good and he isn't looking at it and totally ignoring you I would leave it alone for awhile. If you can stand it go look at it with him. That might take some of the enjoyment out of it for him! I know this isn't the best answer, but tell him you don't mind so long as he doesn't do it all the time and see how he reacts. If then he seems overly obsessed with it, come on back and In the mean time I will do some checking on the subject. Okay? Good luck :)
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The Terms of Service state:
"Users may not post any material which is knowingly false and or defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, obscene, profane, threatening, invasive of a person's privacy, or otherwise violative of any law."
Now, how are we to determine, for instance whether a certain response is "profane"? And what constitutes a "vulgar" response? Where is the line drawn? It seems quite lame to say that the the maintainers of the web site can remove user accounts for these violations without even giving an example of what would constitute vulgarity or obscenity. Some people, for instance, consider the mention of private parts very, very profane, in which case EVERY question and answer in the "Sex Advice" section would have to be banned. Obviously that's not profane, so I have assumed I can mention things like my penis, which I will now do: Penis. But can I mention my penis in cruder terms? This may be seen as "vulgar", but who knows what people consider vulgar? In the 1920's, the word "liar" was considered vulgar! And, what with curse words like "asshole" being allowed on Prime Time television, I don't see any adequate reason to determine vulgarity! If we can be removed from the site based on these "rules", they should at least be specific enough to let us know what would constitute a violation. They are too vague to be taken seriously!
Not only that, but why are inaccurate responses reason for banning? What if I don't know if the response was accurate or not? In the case of "spiritual advice", you will occassionally get an atheist saying "God doesn't exist" and a theist saying "God exists". Obviously, ONE of these statements is inaccurate. So which one should be banned? Or is the adjective "knowingly" supposed to carry on to all the items listed? So something has to be knowingly false, knowingly vulgar, or knowingly inaccurate? In that case, then you can't really ban people for obscenity or vulgarity, because that's entirely relative, and obviously no one will "know" they are vulgar under YOUR standards, because under their own standards their prose may be perfectly prim and proper!
And what is this web site's view on humor? Humor is often vulgar, and sarcasm is often inaccurate...that's the nature of sarcastic responses! One of the most famed sex columnists, Dan Savage, (He writes the column Savage Love) is routinely sarcastic and humorous in his responses, and he's a paid professional! If we aren't allowed to do what the professionals do, I hardly see how this can bee seen as a good "advice" community! Who says advice has to be all pomp and seriousness? Why can we not have some joyfulness?
In short, it would be nice to have these issues cleared up. I am a very blunt, sarcastic, and vulgar person at times. I am worried that someone may whimsically decide to delete my account after I have put forth a lot of effort to answer many questions. So I'd like to protect myself and know exactly what all this entails!
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If you tell someone to kill themselves or others...you will be banned.
If you answer a question with details graphic enough to be considered porn...you will be banned
If you ask a question wanting blow by blow details on any Sex act...repeatedly, you will be banned.
If your advice suggests an illegal act you may get a ban.
Basically, try and remember a lot of our users are young. 13 and up. You don't tell a depressed teen to off themselves. You don't suggest they use bleach on their acne. Use common sense. If you have none...you may be banned.
We are here to give advice but we aren't here for horny teens to ask or give advice to just get their jollies. I think anyone with enough wit can answer questions (as you do) without getting themselves into trouble.
Dangernerd has been with us for a month. I am sure he will come up with some guidelines of what is "legal" for us to do soon. We are currently kind of under reconstruction. :)
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Try this site out for some flirting tips. :)
http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/flirtideas.shtml
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i got my belly button peirced 6 weeks ago, but it is still kinda red at the top hole. what should i do to make it not red anymore. plus, how do i know if i can change the ring yet. like how do i know if it's healed? (link)
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Try this site to find the answers you need. :)
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/body-piercing.html
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