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i like him and he dont like me
hi i am 13 female i liek this 15 year old boi hes my brothers bff and i aksed him out and he said no and he wont tell my why? and i am in love with him what should i do
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Well maybe this isn't what you were wanting to hear, but I think you ought to leave him be. Whatever the reason, and I guess it doesn't really matter WHY... but whatever the reason, it's good enough for HIM. I'm shore it hurts, heartache and rejection always does, but think about it this way: why would you ever want to be involved with someone who isn't willing to devote all of his effort and dedication into your relationship?? Really, what's the point in giving your heart away to someone who isn't willing to give you theirs?? And if you really would like an answer to your specific question, my first assumption would be that he turned you down because he is your brother's best friend. I'm shore he doesn't even want to run the risk of losing and already great friendship on a relationship, which could also be wonderful, but it's simply a major gamble, ya know?? =/
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I know you don't want to hear this but you probably just need to leave him alone. He is older and he probably thinks you're to young for him. That's a pretty big age difference at your age. In a few years when you are a little more mature it may work out. So, for now just stay on friendly terms but don't bug him ( because that is embarrassing and immature). Maybe in a few years you will get together. :)
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your not in love!!! YOUR 13!!! hes older anyways..your weird.. anyways..hes your brothers friend and you asked him out?! are you crazy.. i mean what were you thinkin girl?! hope i helped
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You're only 13, so I doubt you're actually in love with him. Liking him a lot and loving him are two totally different things. He probably turned you down because he thinks he's too old for you, or he doesn't feel comfortable dating his friend's little sister, or something to that affect. Both are valid reasons, in my opinion. You should just try to get over this guy. If he doesn't want to date you now, he probably won't be too keen on the idea of it in the future. Try dating someone a little younger.
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well i think you should tell him how you feel. or try and talk to your brother and see who he likes. i know how you feel kind of well i liked this 1 boy but he has a gf and i told him how i feeled now he wont talk to me at all. i know its not like you situation but its kind of so if you tell him he might now talk to you or he might i dont know. or try and get your brother to ask him why he won go out with you. it might help so if you have anymore questions you can email me or write back in my advice colum. i hope i helped ~DONNA~!
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Well did you have a good past with each other, like did you get along and everything? He might just not like you in that way, or he could just be saying no b/c he's your BROTHER'S best friend. But if your brother knew you liked him and was okay with it, then that probably wasn't the reason he sed no. Ask your brother or another friend to find out why he sed no. Or you could always just keep asking him yourself! I don't think you are in love either, you are too young. (my opinion)
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