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See my friend (who ewveryone is tryin to hook me up with) is blonde hair blue eyes, is into drawing, art, japanese animation, and dresses like me, i mean not gurl pants and clothes but like the arm band necklace and all, and he is the same age and on the other side i am a brunette, brown eyes, and i love all the things he does. Im just wondering if I should dye my hair all the way blonde, and get blue contacts, because Im stupid and like no offense but like ive always loved blondes and wanted to be one, fav color blue, but im not shur if he would like it. Should I change?

you should do whatever makes u happy... & if he cares about you... hes going to be happy if your happy... & not too worried about what pleases himself... so if that's what u want go for it...

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See, i'm gay, and thats why i have a gurly user name, i am really a man! my boyfriend just broke up with me, and i am really depressed, i look so straight in gay bars no one aproaches me, what should I do!? please help!

go approach guys urself... almost everyone likes a bold and friendly person... dont be depressed... you'll find sum1... & you'll be happier with ur relationship with him... than the one u just got out of

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ok my boyfriend will leave me messages and at the end of them hell tell me he loves me...and then when i call him back or watever or in person he wont say it....like i wrote i love u on his hand one day cuz we wer messin around and he just smiled....im so confused why wont he say it to me in person or on the fone but hell say it in messages?

It soundz like hes shy... he may be scared that when he says it you wont say it baQ... why dont u try sayin it to him first...

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Why do people answer questions, just to say they don't know, or to ask somebody else?

Why do people answer questions they obviously, from their answers, don't have a clue about?

Yeah it's really annoying when people do that... if u don't know u shouldn't try to answer the question... columnist that do that are too dumb to realize that they are makin themselves look stupid along with wasting other peoples time...

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what is adhd?? please help me bc my ex bf has it and every1s like YOU WENT OUT WITH A ADHD BOY?!!!

ADHD stands for Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder, people that have ADHD act differently from people that dont... they usually are more hyper... & they have a short attention span... it's not a big deal tho... so if any1 makes fun of you... tell them to F off...

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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hi or sumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-\thankss

yeah that soundz like a good idea... just start talkin to him... ask him if he wants to chill... him lookin at u is a good sign... so u should definitly go for it... i hope things work out...!!!

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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do?

yeah that is normal... a lot of people be that way... but u shouldnt just rush into a relationship cuz u feel like u need to be in one... if u do so... once u and that person break up... ur self esteem will be lower... wait for the right person to come along... & untill than... be happy with who u are... everyone has their special talents and qualities... concentrate on them... & you'll feel better about urself...

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well my mom was tellin me we would have to go to the gyno really soon.whats an normal age to go to the gyno.sry i dont know much about this

MosT girlz start seeing a gyno when they turn 18 or decide to become sexually active... whichever comes first... it's a good idea to go to a gyno before u get ur first period... they'll help u understand whats going to happen to ur body & why it happenz... routine check-upz will help ensure that you dont get infections, stdz, or cancer on ur private areas...

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ok i got this bacterial infection in my throat adn i was prescribed pills but i dont care much for them. i took them how i was suposed to for a week and i have like a bunch left but i feel fine, should i continue taking them even tho i feel fine?

if they are anti-biotics... than yes... you should take them till u finish em... thats the best thing to do... or u could get the infection again... it could be worse the second time around...

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what gets nail polish off besides nail polish remover. lol

rubbin alcohol... but u have it's really hard... the fastest way to get nail polish off is by using 100% acetone artificial nail remover... it removed glitter nail polish fast... but it's not good to use this often cuz it damages ur nails...

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im tired of waiting for this boy i love to make a move.. like he admits he has feelings and we talk and hang out alot.. but were not going anywere.. its been like 3 months.. do i move on.. or stick with him.. any thing should help! thank you

Ask him if how he feels about y'allz relationship... & if he doesnt seem interested move one... you'll be happier with sum1 who can express the way they feel about you...

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Okay, theres this chickk that goes to my school. I was haveing such a good day cuz I got my hair cut and I got stuff to scrunch my hair, and I thought I looked soo nice. EVERYBODY was complimenting me, and I've never got any compliments from any of these, like my best friend amanda told me i looked pretty, and I've never been told that i was pretty before so it was really cool. But this one chick, shes supposed to be one of my best friends, says I look really bad, and I'm trying to looklike one of my other best friends named Justine, But i wasn't, because Justine doesn't even scrunch her hair! And my belt had broken that day and It wasn't cuz of me, it was because I wore it like everyday and it was fallen apart, it was my favorite belt, and I like put pins in it so it wouldn't break anymore, and then of course I said. "look at my belt" in front of her, and she said "That's what happens when your fat" and I'm like "Dude your mean" and shes like "Truth Hurts", I dunno, she was never mean before, Do you think she was just mad that everybody was complimenting me and not her??

I rate high..!

she soundz like shes jealous cuz ur gettin a lot of attention... tell her that shes supposed to be ur friend & she doesnt need to put u down... everyone else is tellin u that ur pretty... shes just being dramatic about it... shes tryin to convince herself shes better than you by puttin u down... that doesnt sound like much of a friend...

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on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily?

8-10 glasses.... not cups...

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My room is always messy and when I clean it up it just gets messy again! Im try to keep organized but it just never seems to work! What are some tips or things I can put in my room that will help me?

You could get plastic boxes... & if ur in a hurry u could just stuff things in em... & place the boxes under ur bed.... (u can buy the boxes from Wal*mart) u could buy a chair... like an throw ur clothes on it when ur in a hurry... yeah i know that doesnt sound so neat... but its a lot neater than throwing them on the floor... u could get this little plastic drawers from Wal*mart and put em in ur closet... so if u have sumthing whether its clothes or sumthing else u can just stuff it in there

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if u no the truth...what types of girls do guys like, like personality, clothes etc. And is it true that guys like girls that r "easy"?

thnx i rate

It's not that guys like girls that are easy... guys like gettin ass from girls that are easy... cuz it's easy... guys that like to show off go for popular girls... but a guy that wants a serious relationship is going to look for a girl that has a good personality...

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do guys ( in general ) prefer small thin and petite girls or tall model type girls ?

Different guys prefer different types of girls... sum guys think tall girls are hott, and sum think that thick girls are hott... sum guys like with big butts... & sum guys like girls with smaller butts... it all depends on the guy... girls should stick to guys that like em for who they are... :)

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hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:(

There's nothing wrong with being Gay... ur sexual status is ur business... don't try to kill yourself because people around u are too ignorant to understand that... point out their faults... that should shut them up... u should never put up with anyone puttin u down...

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im 40 years old and had 2 abortions .. i know i made a mistake , i wish i cud get pregnant now..
can anyone help ... will i ever get pregnant again..
anamika

You need to go to a doctor... yes there is probably a chance that u could get pregnant now... but u cant get a definite answer unless u go to a doctor...

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OK, Before me and my boyfriend were going out we were bestfriends. We've been going out for a week and I have realized that I like being just friends with him. I can talk to him better if we were friends. How do I break up with him without hurting our friendship?

You need to break up with him right away... the sooner the better... if you dont like him as a BF & u continue to go out with him... its not fair to u... or him... just let him know how u feel... tell him u liked him better as a friend... & chances are he probably likes u better as a friend too... feelings like this are often mutual...

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I go out wit this guy but i like another guy too i dont know what to do ???

You should be single for now... usually when girls like more than one guy... they need to be single & have time to themselves... & at this point girls usually dont like to be tied down to one guy... they usually like to flirt... try be single for a while... & once u know u really like a guy & only him... then start dating him...

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