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Question Posted Friday October 22 2004, 7:44 pm

See my friend (who ewveryone is tryin to hook me up with) is blonde hair blue eyes, is into drawing, art, japanese animation, and dresses like me, i mean not gurl pants and clothes but like the arm band necklace and all, and he is the same age and on the other side i am a brunette, brown eyes, and i love all the things he does. Im just wondering if I should dye my hair all the way blonde, and get blue contacts, because Im stupid and like no offense but like ive always loved blondes and wanted to be one, fav color blue, but im not shur if he would like it. Should I change?

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live2rock answered Saturday October 23 2004, 5:19 pm:
No way! He's going to feel as if you're making yourself into a clone of him and that's just really freaky. That and you'd have to put up with blonde jokes all the time.

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LAlover8854 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 4:45 pm:
i would say you should do what pleases you, and if he likes it then thats great! but it really shouldnt matter what you look like on the outside as much as it does as your personality towards him..and if he really liked you for you then it wouldnt bother him what color your hair was or what color your eyes are. beauty comes from within.

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Saturday October 23 2004, 12:58 am:
you should do whatever makes u happy... & if he cares about you... hes going to be happy if your happy... & not too worried about what pleases himself... so if that's what u want go for it...

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hyperaimee92 answered Friday October 22 2004, 11:10 pm:
do wut u wanna do!! if he doesnt like it well screw him, but if u care about him that much u would ask him and find out wut he likes...hope i helped..*-x-*aimee*-x-*

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday October 22 2004, 10:45 pm:
The question shouldn't be Will he like it? It should be Will YOU like it?
Never, EVER change for a guy, even just to get his attention. If he can't like you for who you really are, then you don't want to be with him. It's too tiring to keep a mask on all the time. Be who you are. If you want to dye your hair blonde and get blue contacts, do it because you'll like it, not because he will.
It's up to you if you change or not, but make your decision for you, not for him.
Hope this helps!
-Siren =)

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niinax3 answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:50 pm:
if u wanna change cuz U WANT TO then sure go ahead bt dont do it cuz u think he'll like u more!

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lollypopgurl769 answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:32 pm:
if you really want to then go for it! i mean why not? just remember that you're doing it for yourself ... he might get weirded out and think you're copying him so before you do it be like talking to him and be like ... how do you think i would look as a blonde ... and stuff like that, have fun!

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The_MoUsY_spell_checker answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:32 pm:
Change for yourself, not for anyone else... If you want to change, change! If he's a real friend he wouldn't care...

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Laura answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:18 pm:
If you want to change for you, go ahead. If it's for him, don't change.

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Sherry answered Friday October 22 2004, 8:32 pm:
Change if you want to. If he doesnt like you then thats his problem. If he likes you now, and doesnt like you cuz you changed screw him. do what you want and im pretty sure other guys will like you.

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