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Hello
My daughter needs to get surgery
She only has a 50% chance of surving the surgery
My husbands uncle is a surgeon and offered to perform the surgery
I am having second thoughts because if my daughter does not make it through the surgery i dont want my uncle - in - law to feel the blame for her death
I could have the surgery performed at a hospital 4 hours away
My question is . Do I let my uncle - in - law perform a life threating surgery on my daughter or have someone not related to me perform the surgery? (link)
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I'm really sorry to hear about your daughter. I hope everything works out well.
I personally would not let you uncle in-law operate on your daughter because God forbid if anything happens, he will feel guilty and have the guilt follow him throughout the rest of his life. Have the surgery at a hospital with someone who is not related to you perform it.
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Ok so i'm 15/m
Ok right, is it ok for a guy to straighten his hair ? Because i straighten my fringe..because it luks stupid without it straightened, but i don't think many people realise i do. Anyway, one person in my class made a comment about how only gay guys straighten their hair :| and i was..:(..because i'm not gay.
Do you think it is right/wrong ?
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It's your hair and you should be able to do wahtever you want with it. I know guys who straighten their hair, there is nothing wrong with that. If you want to straighten your hair, then go ahead. Don't let the comments get to you.
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id like opinions on this... just what does this say to you, like whats it about? --
head spinning and i go numb
you used to be the only place i could turn
everything that once was, brought down by a lie
inside, a burning feeling like my heart has bled and died
i could feel it every touch, every smile, every kiss
perfect memories now feel like false bliss
its still what i want and i want nothing more
see the light, dry my tears, and pick me off this floor
my breath is frozen in me as my heart turns cold
locked in this feeling forever while the world grows old
if i could see it in your eyes would it make it more clear?
was this for real or just the happening reality of my fears?
how could something so perfect just be ripped from my hands?
you beg me to believe but i question how i can
my perfected dream turned into a chilling nightmare
now watch as my heart breaks open and tears freefall in the air
ive lost sense of direction and i dont know where to go
was she right and is this just false hope?
well now its my turn to beg
i want to live again and i want to fly high
so save me please and dont let this die.
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This sounds as if someone is heartbroken. That the person wants to move on, but they can't. It sounds as if some memories are holding them back. Also to me it says that everything was going great and all of a sudden something bad happened that ended the relationship.
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If you use a roll on deoderant at night after a shower and then use spray on (of the same brand) during the day will that stop you sweating more? Because I hate using roll on during the day...as soon as I put on a tshirt it goes all sticky and you start sweating.
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Use Certain-Dri at night before you go to bed and regular deoderant in the morning. It will stop you from sweating.
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Me and my ex have been broken up for 6 months, keep in mind I broke up with HIM. But when we first broke up i was like oh my gosh what did i do?! but he kept playing hard to get and then we tried being friends, that didn't work because i wasn't over him so of course i should've known to wait until i was over him to be friends, then i could've handled it but i didn't. So when we would talk atleast everytime i'd bring up getting back together and sooner or later it got to the point where we are now, we don't talk. Seeing him irritates me, i dont know why but he puts me in a bad mood. Honestly i had no problem with him, but he's been talking about me to the people in his classes that know me and its really getting old. I told him 2 times last week that i dont want to be with him anymore and he's still acting like im 'obsessed" with him which is what he's telling people which is deff. not the case, what can i do to get him to look stupid instead of it being me all the time? He talks about me too, very childish, its like he's trying to get me back for breaking up with him since we only dated a month i know it hurt him and him playing hard to get and talking about me is the only way for him to get back at me for hurting him i guess, but its getting old and he really needs to stop. (link)
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Two wrongs don't make a right. Remember that.
If he wants to act childish and immature let him. Don't bring yourself down to his level. He's acting pathetic. I guess talking about you to other people is his way of trying to get over you and move on.
It shows that he is obviously not over you. Ignore him. I know it's hard but you have to show him that it doesn't bother you. Eventually he'll realize that he is making himself look like a fool but until then let it go and move on. You can flirt with guys in front of him to show him that you could care less what he thinks of you and says about you. He'll feel stupid. Before you do anything though just remember that he is just wasting his time talking about you and he obviously still likes you. If he didn't, he would be spending his time trying to get with other girls instead of trying to bring you down. Bringing you down is exactly what he is trying to do. He's trying to make you feel like crap just like he is feeling right now.
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well... im not sure if im ready to have a boyfriend.... and i think i am.. but the last time i thought i was and i went out with someone i ended up not happy at all and im not sure if it was the person or it was just because i wasnt ready... i am 15 years old and im a girl... how can i tell? someone please help? (link)
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You can't really "tell" if you're ready to have a boyfriend or not. If you're having doubts about being in a relationship, then most likely you are not ready. Just because the first relationship didn't work out, don't under estimate any other relationships you may have. So, you had a bad experience with the first relationship, don't let it get to you.
When you find the right guy that you want to have a relationship with, you'll know.
Give it a chance, don't let your fears take over.
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Well, lately i have been feeling very very tired, i have slept about 22 hours in one day just with breaks in between,my ears are hurting and they itch very badly and im losing hearing in them,my throat is sore and itchy and im not coughing THAT MUCH but i still am. So, as you can see i feel like crap and i have NO idea what is going on. If anyone could explain this to me it would be great. One of my friends had mentioned that i may have mono, and my mom said i could have low iron...But, i wanted to hear youre honest opinions about it.
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I highly doubt that you have mono.
Symptoms of Mono:
-constant fatigue
-fever
-sore throat
-loss of appetite
-swollen lymph nodes (also commonly known as glands, located in your neck, underarms, and groin)
-headaches
-sore muscles
-larger-than-normal liver and spleen
-skin rash
-abdominal pain
Even if you have several of these symptoms, don't try to diagnose yourself. Because these symptoms are so general and can be signs of other illnesses, it's possible to mistake mono for the flu or even strep throat.
I think you should go see a doctor to be on the safe side because it's not a smart idea to ignore whatever it is you may have because it's really affecting you.
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So theres this girl who used to REALLY like my boyfriend. Once she told me she hated herself for letting him go and she will always have a place in her heart for him. Well My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and I know he has no feelings for her but it bugs me when she tries to talk all cute to him. The weird thing tho is that I want to be her friend. I talk to her alot and we plan on hanging out. I hate her when she talks to my boyfriend and I'm jelous of her for some odd reason but then I want to be her friend. Is that weird? (link)
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That's not exactly weird. Maybe you just want to get to know her. Maybe you're thinking that if the two of you become friends then she will realize for a fact that there is no chance with her and your boyfriend. Maybe you just want to show yourself that there is nothing to be jealous of by getting to know the girl better.
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I know no one can really tell me what to do. Its a "my choice" kinda of thing, but I need input.
I have a boyfriend and we'll call him Tom. Tom when we first started to go out, was nice to me and treated like a princess. Now that we have been together for a longer time, hes not. Tom behind my back to my friends calls me a bxtch, whore, slut, dumbaxs & anything else you can think of. Tom will tell my friends that they can't talk to me anymore, so now I'm down to like 5 friends when I use to had alot. He hung up on me last night on the phone and then today when I said something to him about it, he was all nice to me again.
What's the deal ? Should I break up with him ? I kind of want to, but I dont want to hurt him. I know me being happy is important but I shouldn't go around hurting his feelings should I ? ANY advice would help me alot. So thanks. (link)
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I know you don't want to hurt his feelings, but think about this: how is he making you feel? I'm pretty sure he's hurting your feelings. My feelings would be pretty hurt if my boyfriend ever treated me that way. No one deserves to be treated like that in a relationship.
He's being way too controlling over your life. He can't tell you what to do or who to hang out with. I honestly think you should break up with him. You don't need a guy like that in your life. You don't need to get hurt. Put his feelings aside and focus on your own.
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Can somone explain the following for me
What calcium build up is
Does it Go Away
Does it need to be treated
What cause it (link)
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http://www.mhs.net/Articles/Editions/39/CoronaryCalciumBuildup.aspx
^Hope that helps you out
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ok so i got my first period in the end of august and ges wat now its november 20th and i still havent gotton another period! im very confused should i be worried? is there something wrong with me?!? should i tell my mom i havent gotton another period since then? please help i totaly dont kno wat to do? (link)
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If you haven't had sexual intercourse then you shouldn't be worried. Most likely your period is still irregular so it's normal for it to skip months. If you still don't get it by December, then you should tell your mom so she can take you to the gynochologist to be on the safe side.
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alright, there's this junior at my school. we'll call him mark. mark liked me and another one of my friends and wanted to hook up with one of us. neither of us really cared so we both tried to get with him. we both started to like him a little. now mark likes me more, my friend is like madly in love with someone else and i realized i don't like him at all anymore. at all. he's a pervert, and he's cool, but he doesn't make me feel like other guys have made me feel. like i want to feel. actually, i don't feel anything for him, except guilt.
ANYWAY, TO SUM THIS UP:
mark likes me, I don't like him, i'm completely leading him on from when i DID like him, and now i feel like i should go out with him because seriously, i'm COMPLETELY leading him on, because i'm retarded, but i really don't want to, and i can't just be like "um no" after making him think it was all good.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DOO.
btw: "mark"'s a junior, & i'm a freshman. but he's only one year older than me because i transfered from iowa, where the cut-off's different. i'm 15 and he's 16.
ahhh, help me!! he wants to hang out this weekend, and he's cool and i'm down with that, but omg.....i don't want him to think it's a group date or something! (link)
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First of all calm down. You shouldn't stress yourself over a little thing like this that can easily be fixed.
Sit him down and explain to him that you thought you liked him but the feelings aren't there and you can't help it. You can't force yourself to like someone when you really don't. You can still hang out with him as friends just make sure he knows it. Don't lead him on anymore because it will just hurt him even more at the end.
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Hey everyone. Well, I started my period about 5 days ago and have a few questions. #1: How long does a period last?? #2: How long should you wait to start wearing tampons? and then i have a concern. i wear pads of course, but blood has gotten into EVERY pair of underwear i wear. what can i do about this? i can't go out buy a whole supply of underwear every week. HELP!!!!! thanks! (link)
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Periods usually last 5-7 days. As for the tampons, you should start using them whenever you are comfortable. I wouldn't suggest using them right away considering you just started your period and you should get used to it first. Make sure the pads you wear are the ones with the wings. If you use the ones with the wings and you still leak then I suggest getting the night time pads.
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Does Trackzor really track myspace visitors? (link)
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No it doesn't. None of the trackers really work.
There is a site though that tells you how many visitors you had a day but they don't show you the user's profiles just the number of visits.
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I am 17, and my boyfriend is 18.My boyfriend and I have been together now for almost a year and we are promised to each other to get married, I love him so much and i have never felt like this about any guy before until now. The thing is that he and I have a guy best friend Jake and when my boyfriend moved away to TN our other friend Jake and i started hanging out and i had a slight infatuation with him but i still was in love with my boyfriedni had to be honest so i told my boyfriend about how i felt and i ended up secretely dating both of them for a week, i broke it off with Jake because i felt so guilty about cheating, and my boyfriend knows. He knows how i feel and that we will be together froever but he has a massive trust issue with me. What can i do to make this trust issue go by faster so we can be happy together again? (link)
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This might not be the answer you want to hear, but honestly it's not going to take him that fast to get over it. He has trust issues with you because you cheated on him once so he's not sure if you'll do it again. I'm sure he understands how much you love him which seems like you really do, but you just have to give him time. Talk to him about this. Everyone makes mistakes but if you two truely love each other, you will put those mistakes in the past and move on with your lives together. just remember to give him time.
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I am in the musical Annie, for my school. I have recieved the large part of Grace Farell. As you know, she has one important song to sing; I Think Im Gonna Like It Here.
I love singing, and acting, but i have a problem with nerves before shows.
What are ways to bring those down [ and i mean my nerves go insane! ]?
Thanks in advance.
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You have to always remember to take deep calm breathes. You should practice in front of all your friends and family. The only way to get over your fear and stop having these nerves is to just do it. When you're on stage, forget everything else. Focus on your lines. Pretend no one is there watching. Believe me it works. Before you go on stage you can also try meditation to calm yourself. The most important thing is to have CONFIDENCE in yourself and believe that you can do this.
Good luck =]
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my parents have just got a divorce and life at home is very hard as dad is moving out, i love him so much and don't want him to go please help (link)
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Hey,
honestly going through a divorce is never easy. My parents got divorced when I was about 5 or 6 years old. To tell you the truth, I'm still not over it and im 15 now. I always felt like a part of me was missing because I never really got to know my father as well as I wanted to. I also think part of the reason I have trusting issues is because if I couldn't even rely on my own father who could I rely on. Things will change and no one said it will be easy, but you have to stay strong. Never ever blame yourself for your parent's divorce because it is not your fault at all. I know it's really tough right now. But you will get through it. It won't be tomorrow or next week but as you go on with each day, things will get a little better. You have to be there for your mother right now, imagine how she's feeling. Just be grateful for the memories you have with your father and maybe you two can still keep in touch.
If you ever need someone to talk to, don't be shy =)
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i had sex for my first time on friday night.
it went good, although we didnt use a condom, he asked me where he should jizz and i gave him a towel then he stuck it back in..
could i be pregnant? (link)
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There could be a slight possibility that you are pregnant. Wait about 3 weeks to take a pregnancy test.
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My best friend is moving away tomorrow! Tonight I was going to bake cookies or cake for them, which do you think is better? THANKS! (link)
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I think a cake would be better.
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okay well ima virgin and i missed my period and im kinda freaked out bout it am i pregnant? i had the flu during the time i was supposed to get it. do you think that thats y i missed? (link)
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Since you're still a virgin, there is now way you can be pregnant. You having the flu might have been one of the reason you missed your period since your immune system was weak. Keep in mind that most likely you're period is still irregular so it's normal to be late.
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