Question Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 11:29 am
Me and my ex have been broken up for 6 months, keep in mind I broke up with HIM. But when we first broke up i was like oh my gosh what did i do?! but he kept playing hard to get and then we tried being friends, that didn't work because i wasn't over him so of course i should've known to wait until i was over him to be friends, then i could've handled it but i didn't. So when we would talk atleast everytime i'd bring up getting back together and sooner or later it got to the point where we are now, we don't talk. Seeing him irritates me, i dont know why but he puts me in a bad mood. Honestly i had no problem with him, but he's been talking about me to the people in his classes that know me and its really getting old. I told him 2 times last week that i dont want to be with him anymore and he's still acting like im 'obsessed" with him which is what he's telling people which is deff. not the case, what can i do to get him to look stupid instead of it being me all the time? He talks about me too, very childish, its like he's trying to get me back for breaking up with him since we only dated a month i know it hurt him and him playing hard to get and talking about me is the only way for him to get back at me for hurting him i guess, but its getting old and he really needs to stop.
It shows that he is obviously not over you. Ignore him. I know it's hard but you have to show him that it doesn't bother you. Eventually he'll realize that he is making himself look like a fool but until then let it go and move on. You can flirt with guys in front of him to show him that you could care less what he thinks of you and says about you. He'll feel stupid. Before you do anything though just remember that he is just wasting his time talking about you and he obviously still likes you. If he didn't, he would be spending his time trying to get with other girls instead of trying to bring you down. Bringing you down is exactly what he is trying to do. He's trying to make you feel like crap just like he is feeling right now.
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