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ok i hope that this is in the correct category. well i masturbate wayyy 2 much. i kno i need 2 stop. 1 because my girlfriend doesn't like me doing it. 2. becuz its a little weird that i do it a lot. like whenever i get a boner ( and no1 is around or im in my room , if im at my house ) i masturbate. i only do it at my house and shit but still. Plus the major thing is that i need 2 do this for my girlfriend * i dont wanna loose her or risk loosing her *. please dont tell me 2 think of sumthing else, trust me i have tried, it doesn't work for me.
thanks in advance
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First of all, I agree with protossc541.
You are very, very normal.
I just wanted to add a simple solution to it all.
Don't feel the need to tell your girlfriend everything you do. You are 13. Its okay not to tell her when and/or how often you masturbate. :)
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I was wondering if their was a site that would shoe you how to use HTML coding in blogs? My blog http://jessetk.blogspot.com/ can have HTML coding edited into the template. So far all I have is a section I put in for blogs I like and a hit counter at the bottom. (link)
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Here are some sites you may find helpful. :)
http://hotwired.lycos.com/webmonkey/reference/html_cheatsheet/index.html
http://personalweb.about.com/od/htmltutorials/a/510includes.htm?nl=1
http://www.tashian.com/htmlguide/index.html
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Ok well me & my friend went in2 this show thing & she saw this boy in it & is obessed with him now. she got a hold of his email address & has this crazy plan 2 actually meet him. not only doez he live WAAAAAAAAY far away but im worried bout that he might not turn out who she thinks he is & if it really is him. i mean it could b some cereal killer liein 2 her. i told her he might b liein & she said he told her he never liez. & i told her he could b liein bout that & she didnt belive me. i said everything 2 stop her from doin it coz i dont wnt her 2 get hurt. so wot should i do? (link)
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If she starts making plans to meet the guy, tell an adult.
You are absolutely right. You just don't trust the word of somebody you don't know. She has no idea what he is really like, all she knows is what he has told her. He will tell her what she wants to hear!
The guy may be a perfectly nice kid. But, until she knows him well, she needs to have an adult go with her at least.
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If I'm a female in my 20's, have never been sexually active, and don't plan to start for a while (just not interested right now and too many other things going on in my life), and haven't had any problems with my health or menstruation, do I need to see a ob-gyn? I'm busy with graduate school, so I'd like to just put it off, but I'm hearing more and more women my age talk about their ob-gyn appointments. I'm confused about whether ob-gyn care is necessary for women who aren't sexually active and have never been. I made a resolution to take care of my health this year and get to a physician for a physical, along with other doctor's appointments, but I don't know if a ob-gyn visit should also be on my list. (link)
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If you go to a regular General practitioner a Gyn exam is included in your physical. At least it was where I worked.
It can't hurt to have one done. Realistically every girl should have one BEFORE becoming sexually active, it just usually doesn't work out that way.
So, save yourself some money. Find a good GP or family physician, get a complete physical. You do not have to have separate doctors at all.
What a great resolution by the way! :)
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hey everyone! im going to a Battle of the Bands tomorrow night and im kinda scared. i love rock but im afraid people are going to think im a "poser" because im preppy. you know those little scenesters. and idk if i should wear a Fender shirt because i dont want to get any weird looks...any suggestions? =] thanks! (link)
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Wear whatever you're comfortable wearing.
I have been to any number of these things and I can't say I paid much attention to what anyone was wearing.
It is usually all about the music and not what someone is wearing. :)
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Wow, this might take a lot of typing.
Ok, so there's this guy I like, I'll say his name is Joe. Well Joe is like the greatest guy ever, except he doesn't exactly live in my town. He lives in a whole different state. I understand that you all will say I'm too young to know what love is, but yes we do say we love eachother, however we're not going out. Now, there's a guy here who likes me and I like him a little bit, and he keeps asking me out. I just don't know what to say to him because I don't want Joe to get mad. But no matter what I do, one of them is going to get mad at me. I don't know who to pick...or how to even get out of this situation without hurting anyone. I like Joe a lot more, but it's just so inconvenient that he lives so far away. And the other guy told me not to worry about it, but I know he doesn't really mean it. So, my question is...what do I say to them? (link)
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You have to think about it like this.
Joe is a long way away. He will not be able to take you on dates and go to dances at school. If you see yourself having a serious relationship with him...its a long ways down the road. Really, it is.
The other guy (or any other in the future) can do those things with you. You can't just not go out and have fun because you like a guy who is far away. Trust me, he won't either.
So for now, Joe really isn't able to be anything more than just a friend to you. Maybe a very good one, and maybe in the future more than that. But. right now...today, he can't be.
So go out and have fun. Don't worry about Joe, tell him for now you are just friends. He is sure to understand. If he doesn't he will soon.
Good luck with whatever you decide. :)
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I've had my period for about 2 years now, and my vagina has never smelled this bad! I know I piss and have my period down there but, I don't understand. I don't think I have a yeast infection. I discharge alot but I don't think I have a yeast infection...Do I? Help please...
13/f (link)
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Anytime you notice a change in anything having to do with your body, check with your doctor.
It could be nothing, but you never know. Play it safe and tell your mom about it. She will probably take you to see your doctor.
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when getting a gyno exam...exactly what does the doctor do...i have my first one next week and im insanely nervous.
oh and should i do anything down there...like shave or anything?
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No need to shave or anything. Just a shower or bath before you go is enough.
I have a web site for you that will tell you what happens during an exam. If you have questions that you want to ask the doctor or nurse, write them down before you go. You will be understandably nervous and it will help you to remember. :)
Pelvic Exams, Your first time...
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
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i have a good friend, who i have had over my house many times. i have a lot of fun with her, & enjoy having her over, but she has never invited me over her house. i know her dad & mom pretty well, so i am pretty sure she's no hiding anything. anyways, i wouldn't want to be rude & invite myself over, but i really would like to go over her house one day, considering we're always either out or at my house, but never hers. what can i do to solve this "problem"?
thanks! (link)
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She probably has her reasons. They may not be anything you would consider important. It could be anything from her not thinking her place is as nice as yours to people being messy housekeepers.
Have you asked her about it? If you haven't do. Just simply ask why she never invites you over. It could be something that wouldn't matter to you at all. :)
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I had sex with a guy and the condom broke, its been like... 2 weeks and i was wondering what the earliest signs for pregnancy were? Like,what starts happening to your body? and how soon does it happen? pleeeaaseee i need to know as much as possible! im 16 and i CANNOT be pregnate! thanks alot! (link)
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A missed period is the best sign as a rule. However stressing about it can make your period just not come. Here is a website of the signs and symptoms of pregnancy.
There is a lot of other great info on this site too so look around while you are there. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm
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My mother is in town for a week; she lives out of state. I'm staying in a small hotel room with her for the time being. Normally, I live with my dad about 5 miles away from this hotel.
Because of the tiny size of the hotel room, I hear all of her conversations. All of them are the same...I swear I've heard her give the same whiny speech to 10 different people about her friend making her angry, me making her angry, and of course, my dad making her angry.
A new court battle has been opened up with them, even though they've been divorced for 10 years. It never ends. You'd think I'd know by now how to approach this, but I have no idea how to go about telling her that I don't know how much more I can hear about my dad being a horrible person. He could be one in this situation, but he is still my dad, and if he had even said half of this stuff about my mom he definitely would have heard it from me by now.
My mom and I have been fighting a lot though... I will be the first to admit I haven't been the kindest person; I've been very irritable. There's that, plus the fact that I know she'll automatically get defensive and say I'm taking his side if I ask her to stop saying these things about him to people while I'm in the room, even though any psychologist or person on the street would definitely agree with me that one parent is not supposed to trash talk the other around the child.
I don't think trying to talk to her about this will work- like I said, I know how she'll react already and it will just increase the tension... Anyone have any suggestions anyway? Or should I just bite the bullet and listen to all of this BS until she leaves in a few days and not do anything? (link)
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I will suggest something that may seem harsh. It is really but if you want to get your point across it may get her attention.
Tell her you won't stay with her in the hotel. If she gets upset and wants to know why not...tell her. It may have an impact.
Emphasize you aren't taking sides and because of that you don't want to listen to discussions concerning custody from her OR your dad.
I know you don't want to say anything about it to her, but, she may not even realize what it is she is doing, or how it affects you.
Good luck. :)
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okay i didnt no what to put this under,
im a female and i have hairs around my bum hole, i dont mean light small ones i mean long dark ones and lots of them
would it be dangerous to shave them because im embarrassed of when i have sex and my bf see's them!
what can i do? (link)
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You would have to be a contortionist to do a proper job and it would be way to dangerous for you to shave with a razor.
You could probably use a Nair type product made for bikini area. DO NOT even try the one for legs, its much to harsh. Before you do though, try calling your doctors office or as suggested a beauty salon and ask what they recommend. There may be a product made especially for this problem. :)
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okay so sorry in advance if this is just kind of long. and thanks for taking the time to read it. :). okay so i have a best friend lets call him jack. So i have known jack for a veryy long time and im really good friends with him.And i guess he got into a fight with one of his good friends cause i guess his friend is like always ditching him to hang out with his gf. and jack dosnt like his friends gf in the first place. So i guess jack was really upset and all and i was talking to him and he said that he didnt see any point in living anymore. and he said he hoped he died before his birthday. I talked to him about it and everything and now he says he's okay but im still kind of worried.. any tips on what i should do and if i should still be worried... Thanks so much, I appreciate it greatly.
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Anytime anyone says something like that it should be taken seriously.
If he still seems to be in a funk don't hesitate ro let an adult know about it.
Here is a web site that will tell you more about how to deal with a friend who makes comments like this. :)
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/talking_about_suicide.html
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Alright im having this pointless little fued between me and my friend and on that song smooth criminal by Alien ant farm.. what does it say? on the chorus?
Annie are you OK Are you OK?
is that what is says? My friend clains it doesnt really say Annie (link)
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Artist: Alien Ant Farm Lyrics
Song: Smooth Criminal
As he came into the window
Was a sound of a crescendo
He came into her apartment
He left the bloodstains on the carpet
She was sitting at the table
He could see she was unable
So she ran into the bedroom
She was struck down
It was her doom
Annie, are you OK
Are you OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
You OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
Will you tell us that you’re OK
There’s a sign at the window
That he struck you
A crescendo, Annie
He came into your apartment
He left the bloodstains on the carpet
Then you ran into the bedroom
You were struck down
It was your doom
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
You’ve been hit by
You’ve been struck by
A smooth criminal
So they came into the outway
It was Sunday
What a black day
I could feel your salutation
Sounding heartbeats
Intimidations
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
Will you tell us that you’re OK
There’s a sign at the window
That he struck you
A crescendo, Annie
He came into your apartment
He left the bloodstains on the carpet
Then you ran into the bedroom
You were struck down
It was your doom
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
You’ve been hit by
You’ve been struck by
A smooth criminal
Annie, are you OK
Will you tell us that you’re OK
There’s a sign at the window
That he struck you
A crescendo, Annie
He came into your apartment
He left the bloodstains on the carpet
Then you ran into the bedroom
You were struck down
It was your doom
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
Annie, are you OK
You OK
Are you OK, Annie
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My boyfriend is I think kinda annoyed with me.. I mean I talked to his best friend and he said that every time I call my b.f says "Here we go again" and well I am not sure if I want to be with someone who does want to talk to me or even wants to be with me unless we are alone.. and well I truly like him and i don't want to end it but I sometimes think that is the only way... the past few days he's told me he didn't want to come over.. it kinda ticked me off at first and now I am more like miserable. I don't want nothing to happen but I mean htings have just changed... and he lied to me.. which kinda ticked me off but I cannot tell him I know he lied to me because it would make him mad at his best friend.. soo IdK HELP ME! (link)
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You need to try and figure out what he means by "here we go again".
Do your conversations end in arguments? Are you nagging him about something every time you call?
I am not saying this to be mean. I'm just trying to help you figure out why he may be saying that. It is usually something you say when the conversation is the same old thing over and over again.
You need to talk to him about your relationship. Ask if hes happy. If not what can you change. If the answer is nothing, then it may be time to move on. Good luck. :)
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ok so me and my boyfriend.. are uhm having sex for the first time this weekend. and im a virgin and hes only had it once but hes still more experienced then i am. and well im scared bc i dont wanna be someone who doesnt have a clue what their doing.. so yeah can anyone give me tips or help out? (link)
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We can't give you many tips on this subject here
for legal reasons.
However, one time doesn't make him an expert by any means! You will learn together. Don't worry about it. I can give you a couple of websites to check into if you want them. They won't help as far as tips go, but they contain things you need to know about.
http://www.coolnurse.com/sex.htm
http://www.coolnurse.com/birthcontrol.htm
http://www.coolnurse.com/std.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_intercourse
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I have a mental illness and have been out of the work force for a long time. What I have is called schizophrenia. I've been supporting myself for the last 5 years by being on a disability pension. I just got a job a couple of months ago part time. I get about 25 hours a week and don't need to collect my pension anymore. Well my question is about this man that works as a social worker for the local mental health association. I've known him for about 2 years and I've always sensed an attraction. Well yesterday he saw me get out of my car. He works in the building next to where my appartment is. He was asking me about the job and then when I told him it was going well he said " Good for you", and the way he was looking at me it wasnt just friendly it seemed more than that, like he had sexual feelings for me. I remember one summer when I went on a camping trip sponsered by mental health he went and he kept staring at me. Do you think this may mean he has feelings for me? And couldnt he get in trouble if he did want to date me because I'm a client of his. Oh yeah, he is 43 and I am 27. (link)
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He is a helpful and caring person, which is probably why he has the job he does.
What you are seeing is probably just him being concerned about how you are doing. I am sure they have rules against dating clients. If he were interested he would probably have turned your case over to someone else.
So, I think he does have feelings for you. He cares about how you are doing and wants you to succeed. However, it probably is nothing more than that.
It sounds as if you have a very good friend in this man. :)
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I haven't yet had sex with my boyfriend. He has told me that he hasn't had unprotected sex for 2 years, and so I shouldn't worry about STDs. However, he has been sexually active for 5 years - before 2 years ago he had unprotected sex with several partners. 2 questions: how worried should I be about him having something, that maybe hasn't shown itself yet? And how can I suggest to him nicely that he get tested? (link)
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The AIDs virus can be present for a long time without any symptoms at all. I would have him get checked for that one.
If he cares enough he should understand your wanting to know. Just tell him AIDs is life or death in most cases and it just isn't something you want to worry about.
Here is a link to an STD chart. It gives you the symptoms for each. You can also go to other places on the site and check out individual ones if you want more info.:)
http://www.coolnurse.com/std_chart.htm
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okay so tonight my bf and i were in the hott tub.. kinda fooling around. no we didnt have sex. But i did end up getting alittttleee excited and i think he did too. But it was all touching n stuff. ANYWAY.. its pretty silly buttt is there anyway i could possibly get pregnant if he did ejaculate? i mean theres cylorine.. and stuff. but idk. just wanted to see if theres a possible chance.
dont be lame with your answers. its not a joke. An honest answer would be greatly appreciated.
5 for whoever can tell me. (link)
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No. And it isn't silly.
Better to know the answer so you can stop worrying about it. :)
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A woman that I used to be friends with is causing problems for me. Well she was a complete bitch to me. She used me, backstabbed me, blackmailed me, tried to control me, and even broke into my email. She made my life a living hell. It got so bad between us that I had to quit working at my old job that we both worked at to avoid her, and I had to put a block on my phone.
Well it's been two years since I've seen her or spoken to her. I got a new job about 3 months ago at a way better company. It got back to me from another friend that she found out I got this new job and wanted the store number! She was also asking one of my friends when my hours were. I'm worried she is plotting something. Should I be worried? (link)
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The first thing you need to do is let your boss know what is going on. That way he has a heads up and she won't get you into trouble at your new job.
You should also make sure that it is policy for them at work not to give anyone your home number or any personal information. That is usually the case, but to be on the safe side your boss may want to make sure that everyone knows the policy.
Then, if she in any way tries to harass you, call the police and let her know in no uncertain terms that you are not going to put up with her harassment. You may be able to get her for stalking you if she attempts to follow you around.
Hopefully your friends know not to give her your personal information. If they don't, make sure they do.
And finally, if you get off work after dark, have someone walk you to your car until you feel that the threat of her attempting to locate you has passed.
I don't tell you any of these things to scare you, but she does sound a few bricks short of a load. Why take chances. Call police if she even threatens ANYTHING. :)
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