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Should I go or stay?
My boyfriend is I think kinda annoyed with me.. I mean I talked to his best friend and he said that every time I call my b.f says "Here we go again" and well I am not sure if I want to be with someone who does want to talk to me or even wants to be with me unless we are alone.. and well I truly like him and i don't want to end it but I sometimes think that is the only way... the past few days he's told me he didn't want to come over.. it kinda ticked me off at first and now I am more like miserable. I don't want nothing to happen but I mean htings have just changed... and he lied to me.. which kinda ticked me off but I cannot tell him I know he lied to me because it would make him mad at his best friend.. soo IdK HELP ME!
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He sounds like a bit o a jerk who's either lost interest or is taking you for granted.
I'd suggest you ask him why he's being so offhand, if there's anything wrong and tell him it's getting you down. If he doesn't come up with a decent response, lose him. You don't need someone who's supposed to be one of the closet people to you thinking they can treat you this way for no good reason.
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Hey... let him know that ur not happy with how things are and ask him to talk 2 u. If he says no don't beg. I would break up with him if I were you because he lied and he doesn't act very "caring". You dont have to tell him what his best friend said, just tell him it's not working out. You may like him but his behavior shows he isn't willing to do anything to help the relationship so it really isn't working out. And now you're miserable. If you don't break up with him he'll end up breaking up with you. And he'll juts make you feel more miserable and worst in the proccess. I hope you get out of the relationship and everything works out okay (...and when you're over it, you mean a new cute guy).
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Take him aside and have a chat about your relationship. It sounds like he may looking for an excuse to break up. If that is the case, be ready to let him go for the sake of both parties. You can't continue in a relationship where one side is obviously losing interest.
By the way, if in the course of your discussion with him he points out that he wants to leave because of something you did, take your time to analyse his statement. If you genuinely had nothing to contribute to the cause of the split, don't try to convince him of it if it seems obvious that he wants out. You won't be the weak party here nor should it be your fault that things are going down the toilet. It is *he* who is the coward with his decision not face you with the truth. You can do MUCH better. Don't weigh yourself down. There are PLENTY of guys out there; nicer, smarter, and better looking ones who you deserve.
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You need to try and figure out what he means by "here we go again".
Do your conversations end in arguments? Are you nagging him about something every time you call?
I am not saying this to be mean. I'm just trying to help you figure out why he may be saying that. It is usually something you say when the conversation is the same old thing over and over again.
You need to talk to him about your relationship. Ask if hes happy. If not what can you change. If the answer is nothing, then it may be time to move on. Good luck. :)
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Ok.
First off, you should talk to him about it. Ask him why he's being such an ass to you.
If that doesn't work, then you should definitly end the relationship.
It seems to me like he's bored of the relationship or he just has some serious issues.
Hope I helped =)
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First off, are you absolutely POSITIVELY sure that you're boyfriend's best friend is trustworthy? Be sure before you make any major decisions.
But, there are signs that you know of, like when he told you he didn't want to come over.
Watch for these signs, too:
-He doesn't call you.
-He doesn't IM you.
-When he talks to you, he's very short (You don't really keep a conversation going).
-He makes up excuses to leave when you two are talking.
-He doesn't say hi to you when you pass in the hall.
-He doesn't invite you to dates anymore.
If those signs are there, he's probably lost interest in the relationship. You have two choices here.
You can talk to him. Make sure he isn't in a bad mood and that you're alone. Don't yell; stay calm and nice (Even though it can get frustrating). Ask him if he still has an interest in the relationship. If he doesn't, there's no point in keeping the relationship going. Break up with him.
Or, you can skip the talking and simply break up with him. Be nice about it, though. I'm not saying that you're mean, but you might be so angry at him for what he's been doing that you might yell or say things that you don't mean. Take a deep breath if you feel yourself getting angry.
A relationship needs two people to keep it alive. If one person calls or asks to hang out, and the other person doesn't, then the relationship is pretty one-sided.
I hope everything goes well!
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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hey girl,
k so im in the same exact boat your in.. and well i told my guy last night that i thought we were better off as friends, and uhm hes deff changed his ways already. so maybe try ending things with him or tell him u wanna take a break, and dont act like its completely bothering you.. so in other words make him want you lol. hope i helped? lemme know how things go..
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It sounds like he is losing interest in you. Give it some time. If he still acts the same way towards you then end the relationship.
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