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virginity
ok so me and my boyfriend.. are uhm having sex for the first time this weekend. and im a virgin and hes only had it once but hes still more experienced then i am. and well im scared bc i dont wanna be someone who doesnt have a clue what their doing.. so yeah can anyone give me tips or help out?
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Okay well i've never had sex before either, but it always helps to be more prepared:
* like watch a dirty movie and watch their actions.
*look up things on the internet of how to kiss, give head, intercourse, foreplay, or sex words and etc.
*ask mom and dad (maybe.
*ask a docter or a nurse that's in labor and delievery because they see vagina's all the time and could tell you what not to do to it.
*masterbate
*touch and look at yourself down there and see what you got down there to see what's going on with YOU first!
*the way to really want to know about what to do during sex is to just tell you partner als oi'm a beginner take it slow. Also don't have him thinking you know and come to find out you might not know what your doing. I may not have had sex before but i be sure to be prepared if the guy tries to get me to do something that he thinks i don't know and it could be bad for my mouth or vagina.
*Don't listen to your friends if they tell you to do certain things becuase what ever they might do in bed may not be good for you to do at all.
*Look up sex like it's your college major and you need to know mostly everything about it.
*There is a talk show on tv ofthe channel named oxygen of a lady named sue that has her own talk show just about sex and great info about it. On the weekends you can call in and ask questions.
.....So hope i helped, i'm sure i did!!!
~queencece~
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There are many important considerations you must keep in mind:
1) Make sure it's safe sex. MAKE him use a condom. The last you need is a baby or an STD.
2) If you're at all uncomfortable at any time, know that you have the RIGHT to say "no". Do not let him force anything on you. It's your body and you're in control, not him.
3) If he is forceful, know that any unwarranted and unsolicited sexual conduct upon your person without your explicit consent is rape. This also applies if you suddenly decide that you no longer want to have sex with him whilst in the middle of the act.
4) Do what you're comfortable with and don't feel that you are obliged to carry out the act of intercourse. You have no obligation to him whatsoever.
5) Sex should NEVER be used as a way to preserve a relationship. You cheapen yourself and everything a stable and loving relationship stands for.
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We can't give you many tips on this subject here
for legal reasons.
However, one time doesn't make him an expert by any means! You will learn together. Don't worry about it. I can give you a couple of websites to check into if you want them. They won't help as far as tips go, but they contain things you need to know about.
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