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theres this dance at schoo and these two girls who like me im afraid are going to ask me to dance with them.i really rather wouldnt dance with them but i want to go to the dance. any advice to help me avoid them? (link)
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Do you not like them at all or do you just not know how to dance? Or don't like to dance?
If you just don't like the girls, a simple no thank you will do.
If you like them, but just don't want to dance, then tell them that. Maybe ask them to sit the dance out and talk with you instead.
Just be polite either way. No sense hurting their feelings. :)
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I was wondering if anyone knows a website that can show me how to properly tie a pickerel rig onto my fishing rod? Preferably with diagrams please! (link)
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I will be the first to admit I know absolutely nothing about fishing or knots!
But, I came across this web site for some reason today and thought to myself...I think someone was wondering about knots. Well, you said tying but that's close.
Anyway, I have no idea if this site will help you. It does have all kinds of knots, including ones for fishing. If you click on the picture it will show you how they are tied.
I am sorry nobody else has answered your question, I hope you like the site and find something useful. :)
http://www.animatedknots.com/indexfishing.php?LogoImage=LogoGrog.jpg
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This guy that I've been friends with for a couple of years just got divorced. He told me that he wants to get married to me. He has never had children and said he wants to start a family with me. My concern is that he is 45, 17 years older then me. If we started to have children, by the time my child was 18 he would be in his 60's!! I am also concerned because he is quite old fashioned, and would want me to be a stay at home mom. I just got a promotion at work, and I don't want to have to quit it so soon. I've only been with the company for 4 months. He also has a tendancy to treat me like a child, has a bad temper, and is very tight with his money. He's also very possesive of me. I don't know what to do. He would be a good father, and I know I'd be a good mother, but I don't think I'm ready to start a family. My job is too important to me right now. And he seems really desperate to have a child, he's not getting any younger. Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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It doesn't sound like you want to marry him. That being the case I advise against it.
You didn't mention love even once.
He is just looking for a baby. Guess if he were that anxious he should have stayed married.
Enjoy your job and tell this guy you aren't ready for a commitment at this time in your life. :)
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My name is Christina. i'm 16 and i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. We cant even talk anymore without getting in to an argument about something little. It's hard because i love him but i also know that he is not good for me because he has the tendency to be very jealous and violent.How do i break up with him after all this time? (link)
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Here are a couple of web sites that might help you out. They are both about how to break up with someone. :)
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/breakup/content.shtml?ART=whenitsover
..http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/breakup/content.shtml?ART=howtobreakup
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ive been dating this guy for a year and a half. im 17, hes 16. everything i ever loved about our relationship is gone and he treats me like crap. sometimes i treat him badly too. we have broken up 6 times but we keep getting back together, i dont know why. i dont want to be with him!!!! how do i break up with him? im afraid if i talk to him he will talk me out of it like he has before. being friends might make us get back toghether. so how do i break up with him and how do i get over him? (link)
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Here are a couple of sites you may find useful. Actually they are both on the same site, just two different places. :)
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/breakup/content.shtml?ART=whenitsover
..http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/breakup/content.shtml?ART=howtobreakup
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where is the best place to get litter for a cheap price...thanks (link)
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If you have a Dollar General store in your area they are cheap. :)
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okay im 13 and i lost my virinity the other night and he didnt use a condom and neither of us came and it was pretty quick...do you there is a possibilty i can get pregnant?? (link)
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Yes you can get pregnant.
Don't believe a guy your age who says he didn't come. He could easily have done so within seconds. Honestly.
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okay. so if you preform oral sex on a guy and he cums and you sallow can you get pregant? my mom is saying you can! (link)
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No. I don't know why she would tell you that... except that maybe she is trying to discourage you from doing it.
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Ok if you really like someone, but they're going out with someone else but you know they like you, would it be stupid to wait for them? I really need to know what you guys think about that. Thank you so much!
XoXoJamie (link)
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I don't think you should wait around for them.
If they really liked you they wouldn't stay in the other relationship. If they do they are just stringing you along. Sorry. :)
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Popular guy, semi-nerdy girl. A year left in high school. Could we make this work or are we just fooling ourselves? (link)
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I don't know why not.
Once you get out of high school a lot of those high school stereotypes go right out the window.
If you care for each other, don't worry about those kinds of things. Concentrate on each other and be happy. :)
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Ok so this friend of mine is really rich and all kinds of girls try to get with him all the time. He's had it happen a few times that the chick he's been with uses him for his money.
He says he doesn't care that girls go after him for his money because it's just a way for them to connect and get to know each other better. I think if a girl is after your money, she's after your money and she isn't interested in getting to know you.
If I had that kind of money and I knew a girl I was seeing wasn't in it for the real me, it would be a MAJOR turn off.
What is your opinion on this? Wouldn't it bother anyone that people are after such a supreficial thing? (link)
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It would bother me a lot!
I think that unless he becomes one of those love 'em and leave 'em types, his attitude may change as he gets older. I would hope so anyway.:)
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I have 1 year and 5 months with my bf everything was going smooth ..specialy with his mother(my mother in law)I helped them a lot ,I went everyday to help out with anything and I did this with great joy and love but shortly me and my mother in law had a big fight becuase I heard that she was gossiping strange things about me .I got really mad about this ,at first I was really hurt I cried but than I got angry ...I don't understand why she did such thing .I feel such a hate when a see her ..last time she came at the door from my house and I was so mad that I got sick ..I don''t feel like seeing her .It hurts like hell inside because I really took her as a mother ..talking to her is no choice because I already tried (she wanted to slap me) For no reason.I don't deserve this .Why should I do ?
I don't want to get mad(hurt)when I sees her.
What should I do?
I don't want to loose my bf because off this . (link)
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It is really your boyfriends place to deal with his mother.
If he cares about your relationship, he will talk to his mother and make sure she treats you with respect. Once he stands up to her, I think you will see a change. So, talk to him and not his mother.
Good luck. :)
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Hi,
ok, so i have a friends with benefits kinda thing with this guy. we have been FBB's since november. I have liked him since december. I do not know what to do. we are such great friends and i can never tell if he likes me back or not. how do i find out? if i tell him how i feel, then i think it will be awkward around him and stuff. i dont wanna keep on doing stuff with him anymore if it doesnt mean anything to him.
i am so sad!
what do i do?? (link)
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You have to stop the benefits.
Honestly, he is never going to make you his girlfriend if he can get benefits without doing that.
So, if you want to truly find out how he feels about you stop. Tell him the only guy getting benefits from now on will be your boyfriend.
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My friend and I were wondering how much fluffers got paid.. yea i know lame question but we really were wondering. we also wanted to know how old you had to be to become one? do you have to have a highscool diploma or GED?
sorry but we really are curious.. (link)
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I don't know how you would find out the salary. My guess is they are low on the totem pole as far as pay goes.
I would assume you would have to be at least 18 to keep the whole nine yards out of jail.
It wouldn't surprise me if you had to have a diploma or GED. I don't know why, but it wouldn't surprise me.
Oh, all puns intended. :)
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everyone in my grade says that if you are around someone who has there period for a long time then you will get it too (after you already had it a few times)
i don't know if it is true, but it seems true becasue i think it happened to me..
does anyone know if it is really true though?
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Actually according to a behavioral psychology class I took its true.
Studies showed that mothers and daughters, those living in dorms and apartment buildings all had their cycles about the same time.
So, true or not I can't say for certain. But, it has been studied. Wish I could have found you some info but I had no luck. :)
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well theres this 16 year old that i am best friends with and im only 13 but wel i really i mean really love him and i dont think he even you no even cares if i talk to him but hes always sweet when we do talk but i feel like im just invisable and im scarred to tell him how i feel cause then i think he might not even want to talk to me cause he knows one of my friends likes him and he dont talk to them hes nice and all but he only talks to me so im just scarred he wont want to be friends at all
help please (link)
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There is so much growing up to do between 13 and 16!
If you get along right now as things are, I think you should just keep up what you are doing.
If you tell him you feel more for him then I'm afraid you might scare him off.
I know it isn't what you want to hear, but you will have a better chance at a different kind of relationship in a couple of years. For now, keep the friendship going because you don't know what the future may bring.
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okay so its hard for me to tell my whole situation here.. but ill try. i had this boyfriend last year. and everything was great. i loved him soooo much. but then he broke up with me. we stayed friends, but things werent the same. then school was out, and it was summer and we didnt talk at all. i really missed him, i couldnt stop thinking about him, and i knew i still loved him. then school started again, id see him in the halls and everything, and i wanted to talk to him.. but i was just to scared to. i was always wondering what he was thinking. he finally talked to me in december. he told me he still had feelings for me and everything, and that he had just been to nervous to talk to me. we talked for a while, and after a week or two, he asked me for a second chance. he knew he had messed up really badly last time, and he wanted to fix it. for some reason, i knew it was the right thing to do. so we've been going out for almost 2 months now. everything is great, and i love him more than anything. he feels the same way. we've talked about sex a couple times, and we decided that we're going to wait. we both want to, but we decided that waiting is the best thing to do. we know we're going to be together for the rest of our lives.. but just in case.. you know? so anyways, we started talking about it again lately, and im wondering if sometime when it feels right, if i should do it. like, ive always been the kind of person that knows i should wait until marriage, but waiting until then doesnt really matter if i know its with the person ill be with forever. and i know hes the one. so i guess im just wondering if i should do it or not.. i need other peoples opinions, but i dont want to ask my friends. (link)
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I wish I knew how old you were! Maybe you can add that to your question for those who follow in answering.
Rushing into sex is never a good idea. I have to agree with what sizzlinmandolin told you.
Here is a website you might find helpful. It asks things to help you decide if you are ready for sex.
http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=243&np=291&id=2170
For info on birth control, STDs, and almost anything else you may have questions about, go to..
www.coolnurse.com
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So I have a problem ... There's this girl whom i've been in love with for over 3 years but i've never gotten a chance to be with her. Background:
I used to work at a department store years ago when i first met her and sparks absolutely flew and we went out to dinner and we talked for a very long time. She told me things that she's never told anyone. (She advised me of this) but we never actually got together because of conflicting schedules then i graduated high school and went traveling for over 2 years all the while I just thought of her and my feelings grew stronger! I couldnt stop thinking of her. (and I still cant!) So when I came back I took up the guitar and drums again and I've even wrote songs about her! I went to try and find her but she had moved and I was unable to locate her! Then one day I went to apply for my current job and there she was! I saw her! She was working in a little fashion boutique next to the one where I was going to work! I began to shake and I instantly thought of the songs I had wrote and all the time that had passed and my feelings for her had only became stronger. So I went up to her and when our eyes met we gave each other a huge hug and i cant describe it ... it is ... undescribable so we talked and sadly she has a boyfriend but wants to meet up and hang out! I desperately want this chance so i get her # and she gets mine I call her and we go out to dinner we go into a deep conversation and she tells me i look really great and i tell her of my nights that i wasnt able to sleep b/c i was thinking about her ... After that dinner we lost contact again and I try to call her but she doesnt have v/m I see her again last night and we talk a little but she is preoccupied and i try to see whats up and she wont tell me I then tell her that i'm leaving again and she is sad ... I also tell her i've tried to call and she is shocked she doesnt think I have been ... I then tell her I leave in three weeks for indonesia for an unspecified amount of time and she says that we seriously need to hang out before I go ... What should I do ... ANd should I tell her the extent of my feelings ... that I feel she is my "Only One" ? (link)
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When you said she acted preoccupied...do you think she may have an idea of your feelings already? I think she might.
I think it is okay to talk to her about your feelings. You have been carrying a torch for long enough, you need some kind of resolution to it all. Take along some of your lyrics and give them to her too.
I would tell her that you want to keep in touch while you are gone. She will have plenty of time to think over what you talk about. Try not to rush her into making a quick decision. I know you are anxious but she may need time to digest it all.
Good luck with your girl, and have a safe trip. :)
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im not happy with my weight. i used to have like the perfect body. or at least thats what i remember then i got into high school. high school sucks that way. anyway i used to weigh about 120 and now i weigh 130.. im wanting to lose 10 or more pounds but the thing is i cant seem to stay away from all those bad foods. my school is like junk food heaven. i try leaving my lunch money at home but it doesnt always work because i have friends i can ask for money. anyway i also have lots of junk food at home and if i dont i seem to find some. or even ill go crazy on the health stuff. i can go on a diet for like 3 days at most and then i just break it. i dont know if theres any key to resisting junk food... i dont know im hoping someone has some ideas? (link)
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You could try taking a lunch to school. Don't skip lunch or breakfast because then you are just going to really crave that junk food!
If you want to eat lunch at school then try to pick something that will fill you up but isn't junk food or high in fat.
The best way to keep away from junk food at home is just not have any available. That's almost impossible though because other people live there too!
Enlist help from friends and family. Tell them you want to lose 10 pounds and need help keeping away from the snacks. Maybe get one of them to take a walk with you to get away from the house.
If there is a certain time when the urge hits you, change what you do during that time. Want a snack? Go take a shower, take a walk, or call a friend.
Hope something among these suggestions will work for you! Good luck. :)
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alright so yesterday i started my period, it was a few days early to begin with, but im not usually on a tight scedule, my period just kind of shows up when it wants. so anyways then today i havent had anything even resembling the fact that i might be on my period...nothing. so my question is...what do you think is up and should i wear a pad to bed tonight...like is it necessary?
thank you, guys. (link)
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Sometimes it happens like that. It might come back for an encore performance but not necessarily. It is nothing to be concerned about though.
Maybe you could go ahead and wear a pad for tonight, just to be on the safe side. I think it may be over for now though. :)
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