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How do i break up with him after i year
My name is Christina. i'm 16 and i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. We cant even talk anymore without getting in to an argument about something little. It's hard because i love him but i also know that he is not good for me because he has the tendency to be very jealous and violent.How do i break up with him after all this time?
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You just need the courage and the strength to do it. Tell him its over and you don't want to see him anymore. I know that is easier said than done, but really that is the bottom line and the sooner the better. If he is jealous and violent and you fight all the time, don't you think you will cry less without than you do with him? It will take a while to get over him, thats normal, but think that you are doing something that is good for you. I think you have do meet him in a public place and go in separate cars and tell him there. He may not take it well but don't let him change your mind. The longer you stay together the harder it will get to break it off, just like you say. Its your life, don't you deserve to be happy and with someone you are happy with all the time?
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Just tell him upfront that you need to break up. Trust your instincts--it's NOT a good thing when a guy is jealous, especially if he is also violent. Don't go for any of that "let's just be friends" bs, just get out as fast as you can. And if he says that he wants you back, don't fall for it. I know it's going to hurt, but in the long run it's for the best.
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Discuss with him about how you feel.. And then mention that you think it would be a good idea to break up or just be friends.. Yea its going to be hard cuz you`ve been together for quite a while.. ♥Dez
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Here are a couple of web sites that might help you out. They are both about how to break up with someone. :)
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