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Ok my friend picked me up from track and i had her track shoes and put them inside and infront of the car. When we got home, she noticed she only had one. She sorta freaked out and then we had to pay her bro to go bak up to the skool and look for it. We couldnt find it. We got back and she was pissed and didnt want to talk to me. I felt really bad and uncomfterble, she gave me mean looks so i said i had to go home. I have to go back to her house so they can take us to a camp. What do i do?? i feel really bad.
please help i rate high

Well you can either buy her another pair or... pay her back for however much the shoes cost.. you could also try talking to her about it and what would make a good make-up presant. so she can get over it. (i dont mean makeup you wear lol)

i used to have this friend named stephanie and she thinks she's all that so i stop being her friend.i told her that im not her friend but she can still talk to us but she asked if i can stop talking behind back but like i mean we arent friends anymore so i was like why?!?!then she said because it's not nice!i was like your not that nice either so and she said she didnt talk behind my back but i bet she did a million times and i really wAnt her to leave me alone but i dont know how im afraid i might make her cry!wat do i do?

well if you dont talk behind her back she might leave you alone, since this sounds like the reson why she's comming around you.
good luck

So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)

So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

go to the store in the morning and check out at his counter... start a conversation.
That would be the easyest.
h.i.h.

P.S. well he might say "hows your morning so far, or what ever the people have to say at the store. If not you can be like. "Hey hows work goin' so far?" somthing simple. Maybe flirt alittle.
Buy somthing so its alttle easyer. and when you give him check/money w.e. try and touch his fingers. lol But yes just a simple conversation. even asking a question is kool to. "Whats it like working at the store" or if you wanna come up with your own.
good luck!

i want to decorate my bedroom for my sweet sixteen! i am up for any ideas but i have to stay cheap. can any one give me ideas or good websites?

Well if you like contemarary go for maybe somthing beach like or even somthing with alot of shape like striped fabric and stuff like that. What's also kool is maybe even somthing japaniesy or somthing matalic and bright.
Or if you're going for country or somthing more nutral you can try something with wicker furinture. Even somthing flowewry would work.
Some kool stores:
Pier1 Imports
Walmart
Target
um... there's this new store thats comming out but i forgot what its called... i'll put it in here when i remember lol.
Well good luck!

My sister is 18 and has recently been kicked out by my mother due to dumb issues. Now I love them both, but my sister is telling me crap about my parents and my parents are telling me crap about my sister. They basically want me to pick sides. Do I pick my parents that have raised me and that I will be stuck with for at least 4 more years? Or do I pick my sister because shes like my best friend?

The easyest would be to just tell both of them that you're not gonna pick sides because they both mean alot to you and you don't wanna get in the middle of the situation. but if you have to pick sides... pick what you think is the right choise. It will be hard but which ever you choose they will have to except.

This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!

um...

Your eyes are beautiful
You're really sweet
I love you (but mean it)
You look amaizing today
I feel like you're the perfect one for me
Just hearing your voice makes me (and whatever makes you feel about hearing her voice goes here lol)

Ok so me and my friend ill call her *Kaia* last year in 7th grade we were in all the same classes. and we sorta grew away from each other in a way. but this year in 8th grade me and *kaia* only have 1 class together and it seems as if we are actually becoming closer...since we dont see each other as much. and we can talk about anything now..and last year we couldnt talk to each other about a lot of stuff. Is it possible that since we arent seeing each other we are actually growing closer? and also could it be because we like each other for who we are..not for what we dress like? thanks for your help! Ill rate you if i like your answer!

Yes it's highly possible. Somtimes seeing a person too much makes you pink everything out about them and you somtimes can grow appart. Maybe you just needed a break and now your growing back together.
*me

i really liked this guy, then he cut his hair and i just dont have any feelings for him, but i think he does for me... hes still nice and all, but do i sound jujmental?

You sort of do... but not like there's anything wrong with that but i mean its hair.. it'll grow back... but maybe focus less on the persons outside. But like i said nothings wrong with that. Alot of people are jedgmentle.

i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok???????

everyone feels like they need someone to tell them they love you but just find the right girl who you can talk to and be comftorble with and if she feels the same way youll hear the words but i mean no its not wrong to feel that way. But if you want ask out a girl you like.

i have a crush on a boy and i can't get him to notice me!i tried everything but the only thing he likes about me is my mp3 player!i started bringing it but that only made him attracted to the player!wat am i supposed to do???

Talk to him. Try and stand out personality wize, but just dont like change your wardrobe. Be youself. Having a boy you like to nitice you is hard so the easyest is to try and become friends first, so try to talk regular convosations or maybe see if he needs help in class.

I have this friend who always talks about me but is like in all my classes. I don't really like her but my other friends get all mad at me if i get mad at her. Should i just tell her i dont wanna be her friened or should i be her friend?

Well if you dont like the group your in ditch them and find better friends, cuz i wouldn't wanna stay in a group of friends that talk trash about you.

My dog barks at the slightest movement or sound. He chases my four cats around and when hes on a walk he chases cars. He is a Border Collie, so it is natural for him to try to herd things. He is so out of control sometimes that he will see the neighbor dogs from the inside window and will throw himself at the window, barking like a maniac. What do you suggest I do?

Well you can definatly get that dog trained up and when he barks he's probably just barking at sounds he's not used to or well... he just loves to chase and bark at things lol. But if you want it to stop tell him "NO!" and make sure he knows what it means. He'll get the hang of it in a few days, or a week depending on how old he is. What you can aslo so is say "No!" and hold his mouth shut. It will make him stop so he wont bark as much. It works. I did it with my dog and she doesn't bark much anymore.

this is kinda imbarrasing to ask... but i gotta know. i shave down there, ya know? and well sometimes it gets gross. i usually wait like 2 days before doin it again, but i dont know its wierd. and sometimes it even bleeds! OH! and i get these little red bumps. is this normal? is there somethin i can do to make this stop?
thanks in advance!

Its just shaving bumps and well yea... its from the shaver you use. Maybe go to more of a gentler one that cuts good enough but wont make you bleed or give you red bumps. I use Gilette Venus Devine and it works really good. I don't bleed anymore and never get those red bumps, and well it works really good lol.

I feel like my life can't get any lower. Everything I was good at I am no longer good at. No matter how hard I try people are always a lot better. My grades are slipping and nothing I do makes me happy. I hate my life and I just want to stay in my room and be alone forever. What do I do?

Well don't compare yourself to others thats a big part on what makes you feel low.
Maybe try just thinking on the bright side and see if that works.
If you're good at somthing do it for fun first and if you think you'll get somewhere with it work alittle harder, but don't compare yourself to others. That never helps.

Okay this is not even a question. I get that so don't start saying how i should ASK a question. I am answering a question that is asked 24/7.

"I really like this guy. How do i get a him to like me too?"

Okay. Simple. YOU CAN'T!!! You cant 'make' a guy like you. He has to do that all by himself. People fall for people that dont like them back all the time so get over it!!!

Sorry if i seem rude. it's just pissing me off. :)

Your exactly right! i mean you CANT make a guy fall in love with you he has to do it on his own. And it seems that every time you like a guy he doesn't like you but then a guy you don't like likes you.. lol
it sux all the way... *sigh* but you are right.

Hi,
I am ALWAYS craving sugar! This wouldn't be so bad, but I have braces now and have to stop eating it :S I tried eating small amounts but it is still messing up my teeth so I have to stop almost entirely. But I'm so weak, lol, and always eat food with a high sugar content! How can I stop, or at least lessen, the cravings and eat less sugar? I don't like fruit so please don't suggest that :)

Haha i had the same problem when i had braces. lol. What you could do is maybe tell your self to only eat two things a day that contain high suger. or just cut it down alittle each day. But if your like me and you've been craving suger since you've been little then you'll slowly grow out of it. But chewing gum also helps but make sure its not that really gewwy gum the sticks to the braces. But that helps the sugar craving.
lol h.i.h.
simone

i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.

lite blue would make them look very pretty and it would bring out the brown alittle more and make them look softer and really nice. You could also try maybe somthing close to your skin color but maybe alittle darker or even lighter. That also works to see your brown eyes more clearly. and eyeliner? well just use alittle of maybe a drakish brown and put it somewhat on the outside of your eye and maybe in the middle or alittle towards the outside area on the top.
hopfully u understood that lol.
Good Luck!

so a few weeks ago i started a new diet. i'm just eating healthier; more fruit, vegetables and healthier alternatives to food i used to eat. but ever since i started i've been having to go to the bathroom alot more. is this normal? will my body eventually get used to this new food?

Your body is just getting used to the new food that you're eating. Having to go to the bathroom will slow down back to normal once your body's used to it.

Does anyone know where I can find one of those tshirts that say "I need a hug" or something like that?? Or does anyone know where I can find any other cute tshirts that say cute stuff like that?? I've been looking for them for like forever and I cant find any!! Thanks!!

I'm pretty sure Top Shop does stuff like that. But if not you can go to a store that sells plain t-shirts (which im pretty sure alot of them do) and buy little sayings that you can iron or soew on or you can paint or write you own letters words... ect on it. Those you can buy at Craft stores and what not.
h.i.h.

I got a big problem with college. I hate it every day I go drains years out of my spirit. I would rather be working and living it up on the weekends. Instead I find myself here. It's not that I am bad at college I am actually quite good. I've made the dean's list twice. My problem is I don't like it and it doesn't feel like its my thing. I am here to make my parents proud my mother had to drop out of college to have my brother and she never went back. I am like allowing her to live vicariously through me and it is killing my spirit. I would be the third person in my family on either side to graduate college but I am terribly unhappy even thought I know how much this will help my future. Any suggestions?

I would just do what makes you happy. Don't do it just because you know it will make your mom happy. I mean shes not the one living your life is she? So just do what you feel is right for YOU.
But you also might want to talk to your parents about how you feel. And if you're like more then 1/2 through college and you're doing well then i'd just keep going. But talk to your parents about how you feel.

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