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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks

You cud get her a picture frame (Almost every1 likes pictures) or u could get her a boombox, cd, dvd, sweat shirt, etc... think about the type of stuff she has in her room... you cud gets ideas on what to get her from that...

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ok i think im kind of bi but im not really sure and to afraid to say anything to anyone, my boyfriend of 2 years told me that gay people are gross and if i was ever gay that he wouldnt like it because he wouldnt want me to leave him for a girl but i told him i wouldnt if i was gay but he said it would still be gross....and on top of that almost all people i hang around with are gay,but i cant even tell them or anything because they consider me there "straight" friend...and they would all think its probably weird also if i said anything...what should i do???

I think you should keep that to yourself for the time being... since ur not sure whether you are gay or not... you need to figure yourself out first... and take it from there... because no matter what you are... your TRU friends will accept you no matter what...

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Hi guyz, i was just wondering if it was true that if you have some kindof weird shape mole that means you have cancer, cuz thats what my friend told me and she is really afraid cuz she says she has a weird shaped mole.

Is it true?


~Steph~

Having a "werid" shaped mole doesn't mean you have cancer... however if you have a mole and it's shape changes... that is a symptom of cancer... but that isn't enuff to diagnose cancer... tell her to go to the doctor... no one here can tell you whether she has cancer or not...

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hey my lips are always dry and i dont know why. i have to lick them all the time to keep them wet. they arent chapt so i dont need chap stick, but what should i do? i rate high

use vaseline

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To tell the honest truth, I dont have a lot of friends & most of them when i call them (like tonight) make up an excuse not to go out with me. *yeah, i know, mean but please dont pity me* So, anyways i have nothing to do! Im not going to just sit around - but im not going out alone! wtf can/should i do? =/ Signed, Oh so lonely

if they make excuses they are not your friends... find new friends that share the same interests as you... :)

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I got my prom dress todaii and its strapless...do you think it would look better to have my hair in an updo or styled down?

i think you should put it up... and have a couple of curled strands down... get an updo done from a salon :)

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What up i answered your Question about like the world coming to the End... And no it didnt piss me off i think my commment pissed you off.. You were spewaking your mind that kool i understand. Every one wont always agree.

In your question you said state your opinion that is my opinion! Worrying about somthing that you cant stop doesnt get you anywhere!

I beleive the world will come to an end at some point, when no one knows! Preparing our selfs mentally wont do anygood. Most liekly you will die instantly any ways!

Wasnt trying to be rude sry if you got the wrong impression.

lol you didnt tell me what ur answer was... but ne way... thanx for the answer... and thanx for the comment... :)

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Wet Seal has been my favortie store for a very long time, but recently they just shutdown a whole bunch of them, including the one in my area. Does anyone one know of any cool stores with fashion/clothes like Wet Seal?
Thanks!

Forever21, Charlotte Russe, Bebe, Rave,

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hey everybody i thought this girl was my friend but it turned out she thinks i am annoying i don't know what to do i feel like crying i really need some advice on this so please.

Confront her... tell her what's going on... she might not of meant it in a mean way... i mean we all can be annoying sumtimes... so it's not a big deal... but if shes going around talk a whole lotta shit around ur baq... than dont even bother tryin to confront her... str8 up go and cuss her out...

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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?

Im not christian... im muslim... but Islam and christanity (sorry if i spelled that incorrectly) have a lot in common... the only difference is Islam is stricter... so let me tell you what makes me believe in my religion.. the fact that whenever i have a problem... one way or another it works out in the end... and i believe that it works out because God loves me and wants me to be happy... and i feel like i have felt so many signs from God throughout my life... (personal stuff that im not going to mention here)... and im sure you have experienced it to... when you feel like everything is falling apart and there is no hope... all of a sudden things turn around... i believe that is a God sent miracle... if you feel like you have never experienced it is probably because of your lack of faith... believe in God... and many great things will surely happen!!!

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I'm getting a hair straightening iron for 20 bucks. It's a ceramic ConAir with gold colored plates. Will it work as good as an expensive one, like a CHI?

No... conair products NEVER work... try a hot tools str8 iron... it cost about $30 and it works really good (it works better than a chi in my opinion)... you can purchase it from Trade Secret or cosmetic center

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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla


Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx

The world is going to end soon... regardless of the fact that he died... the world is supposed to end at one point or another... and most people are in deniel... because they think it's not going to happen in their lifetime... but it is... the world is supposed to come to an end when things start to get out of hand... and well they pretty much have... our countries standards have gone down hill compared to about 10-20 years ago...

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I have a date with a guy tonight. He's somewhat shy. I am a fairly outgoing person. I'm actualy the one who asked him to go on a date with me. I want to kiss him, but would it be alright for me to make the first move? Would that be too forward of me? Should I just wait for him to make a move on me?

There's nothing wrong with you makin the first move... i just don't think you should make it on the first date... give it sum time... & try to let it happen...

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i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use???

use fabric glue... or you could use the stones that you sew on... that way they are less likely to fall off... if your going to do all that work... you are going to want them to last... :)

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i've been using this 3step acne thing called proactiv. i'm sure most of you know what it is, theres alot of infomercials on tv about it. anyway, i've been using it for about 2 weeks now and it dries up my face alot and it makes my face sting or feel numb and makes it extremely red. does anybody know how i can get rid of this? because i dunlike my newfound redness on the face. please help! thanks in advance

try using nivea creme or vaseline... rub it into your face... it should help lessen the itching

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Hi,
I am ALWAYS craving sugar! This wouldn't be so bad, but I have braces now and have to stop eating it :S I tried eating small amounts but it is still messing up my teeth so I have to stop almost entirely. But I'm so weak, lol, and always eat food with a high sugar content! How can I stop, or at least lessen, the cravings and eat less sugar? I don't like fruit so please don't suggest that :)

Don't stop eating sugar all together... just eat small amounts... it's all about proportion control... i had braces... and i didnt stop eating sugar... so it's not going to hurt you... just make sure u brush ur teeth properly after you eat... :)

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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m

Yes... that's the best thing you can do... you should save yourself till you get married... that way it'll be really special... & you will be very happy with yourself...

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I have this problem because I have hair on my upper lip just a little bit kind of and what should I do about it?? I tried bleaching it should I try waxing it but I am afraid it would hert please help me (age 13 1/2) thanks!

that all depends on your skin tone... if your white or on the light side... keep bleaching it... dont wax it... cuz once u start you will have to do it every week... but if your on the dark side... bleaching is just going to make it stand out more... in that case you should wax or tweeze it...

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I need help deciding what i should do this summer. I wan to go to camp, but my mom wants me to take a college course at North Western, which would be okay, because I would take Journalism, which I like, but then I can't go to camp. I really like them both, well, I like camp more, but Taking a college course now will look REALLY REALLY good on, like anything. What do I do???????? Thanks! I Rate!!

You should go to camp... take the journalism course next summer... you can always take college courses... but you wont be able to go to camp once your grown...

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Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan...

I never actually thought about it... but now that i have... i dont think it's weird... i agree with you... it's probably interesting to see how much a person has tanned...

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