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Hi! I'm 15 years old and recently I fingered myself and I started peeing. No, I don't think I'm one of those rare girls that ejaculate because the liquid was slightly yellow. But I was just wondering if it's bad to get my own pee into my vagina because I continued to finger myself after I peed.
Also, I was wondering why my stomach hurts after I finger myself. It starts hurting right after i washed my hands and wiped. So maybe around a couple of minutes it starts hurting.
One other thing is that my stomach DIDNT hurt after my boyfriend fingered me for the first time!! When he fingered me it had mixed sensations of pain and pleasure, but even so my stomach didn't hurt after that compared to when I fingered myself. :/ I know I'm being gentle on myself because I'm the one who is doing it and I can feel where it hurts so I avoid those areas.
Oh and one more piece of info. My stomach hurts on the lower left side. It's not like cramp pains. And slight discomfort in the area where I get cramps. But the pain isn't severe it just hurts slightly and goes away after I curl up in a ball for a couple of minutes... Anyways is this bad?

Urine is pretty sterile so it won't hurt you or cause infections. Since the urethra has a connecting valve to it to let out any female ejaculation, it will come out through the same urethra...much the same as a males cum and pee travel through the same urethra.
While it is possible for females to pee when aroused, it isnt so for males.
To set your mind at rest, next time you do anything like fingering, go empty your bladder totally first. the bladder doesnt fill up that fast so by time you have your orgasm with any gushing, you will know that it is purely female cum and it is watery like pee, not yellow like pee but not clear either, there is some color to it.

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I have done sex with a Married woman and now I m feeling guilty ..I can't sleep when I remembered all that activities I had done at that time.How to overcome from this situation..Please help me

Guilt comes when we know we have done wrong. the question is, Have you learned from your guilt to never do this again? If so, forgive yourself and move on with life and strive to be a better person from making that mistake.
If you only want to get rid of your guilt feelings so they don't pester you but you intend to do the same again sometime, having sex with married women, then you have not learned anything and will continue to be bothered by guilt.
All adults given in to their feelings, have weak willpower, sometimes ignore that warning in their mind, or perhaps are making the best decision they know how and it still turns out bad. The earth is our class room. In school you didnt sail through all studies and tests and get all A's. In real life we dont either. We make mistakes, sometimes mistakes that couuld have been avoided. But its not that a mistake is bad. What is bad is repeating it. If you have learned and passed this test in life...that is what is important. Forgive your self in that case and move on in peace.

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21/f, 27/m

I have been friends with almost all of my exes. Some of them are close friends (the ones that were not serious and dated when I was in middle school/high school). I don't see them as often and I don't talk to them as often, whether or not if they are my close friends.

He is friends with this girl who was his first serious relationship... And for some reason, it bothers me.

I want to be okay with it because it's not fair that I'm friends with all of my exes but I have a problem with him being friends with... I don't know how many but her in particular. How can I be okay with it? How can I stop being paranoid?

I remember he told me he was planning on giving her stuff back. We've been seeing each other for a couple of months but not exclusively. He's told me he doesn't like her anymore but I can't help but worry he may want to start things up again with her since they only broke up in the beginning of the year.

How can I be okay with it? How can I stop being paranoid? How can I stop thinking too much into it?

You lack information to feel secure. So far there is no obvious reason for you to feel this way. But most of our emotions being blown out of proportion is due at least in my life experience to having a lack of knowledge or information. So I learned to ask lots of questions since of course I am not a mind reader. that would make things easier I think.

He told you he doesnt like her anymore. While its not nice to pry, it could be helpful to you to know what it is about her that caused him to not like her anymore. And its not nice to share things about others that are not positive in nature.

But what you can do is ask him what he feels is the ideal girl to date. What is he looking for in a female or does he have a clue yet? Tell him he can think about it and give you answers as it comes to him. When put on the spot, my mind often goes blank tho i may have much to say.

You can also ask him what it is about you that he likes. A guy has to be extremely lonely or desperate to go back to a girl he doesnt like. At the basest of needs, a guy may go to an undesirable girl personality wise if he just wants sex until he finds a gal he loves personality and sex with.

If you know nothing of the reasons behind their breakup that also can cause unsureness in you.
Was it something petty that they disagreed on, the kind of stuff that married couples hash out and continue on. If it was something frivilous and there are deep feelings, then they have a good chance of getting back together. But if it hasnt happened yet, then the draw isnt all that strong if there even is one.
If there were no longer any feelings on part of one of them or both, or they had too many differences, that is a very good reason to break up and you could rest assured he is not going back to her.
What you need to also come to grips with is realizing that you are perfect as you are, you dont have to be like another girl because every guy has different tastes in women just as we do in men. You are only going to appeal to certain men. the reason for dating is to discover if that person has the personality you are looking for and the romance is there for good, not just at the beginning like the excitement of something new, like the new toy at Christmas that loses its ability to fascinate you after some time has gone by. The excitement should level out when with the right person but the chemistry still be there so you still have deep feelings growing for each other. Right now you feel insecure and thats what is causing you to feel paranoid. Most of this is caused in our minds too, lack of info or misread actions, words and our minds make up the rest. And its funny but our minds waste more time on imagining the worst scenerio or scary awful things than we do pleasant positive things. You will need to take every negative thought and replace it with a positive one you choose to create. Hope this helps you out a bit.

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Hello ladies and gents, my question is really lame and still i am so very nervous about not being able to solve it on my own. So any opinion is much much appreciated.
I studied fine arts, fashion design in college and i want to have a master's degree, for that i've applied for an arabian airlines called 'emirates' as a stewardess. The plan wasto work there for say, three years and save up for my masters.
But then, a nice job offer came to me from a well known fashion designer, it doesn't pay well and the hours are terrible, the job itself is very demanding and it is more like being an assistand instead of actually getting to design anything. Basically being around taking notes and making phone calls and tending to clients. Yeah.

So now i cannot decide. The first job has nothing to do with my career whatsoever , i'll have to move to dubai, it will just be an interesting thing i've done when i was young, and help me save money because it pays better. It will allow me to actually have a masters degree in europe. But as i was saying, it's irrelevant and i will be doing it for years.
The second job is a well known fashion brand so it's related, it will look nice in my cv, it is very low pay and very demanding. If i do this, i won't be getting my masters because i'll be working in my own field now, and i'll be needed in my own country.
I have no idea what to do, i cannot decide whether take the fashion job and develop a career out of it step by step, or go save money as a stewardess and have my masters in europe. I made pros and cons lists, i've asked friends and family, i just can't decide.
Please, please please share your opinion with me.
I only have till thursday...

Thanks in advance :)

My only thought is that the name of a fashion company on your resume is not going to help much when they ask what you did there and you are trying to get a job designing fashion. Just the fact that your were an assistant, gofer, secretary is not comparable to having real experience drawing up designs, creating clothing, sole decision of what fabric or changes to designs, etc... I do not know if a company in this field expects you to have some real experience before hiring or will take you on and train you. You might want to check on that.
If you are going to be funding your self getting through school, then whatever you have to do to make the most money to do so makes the most sense, even if its not related. It would be ideal but it is rare that someone finds an apprentice type job where they get hands on training and experience in the field at the same time they are going to school or just prior to schooling. Most of us end up working whatever unrelated job that will actually pay the bills while in school. Those are some thoughts that may help you in making your decision.
good luck!

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im an 18 year old girl!

every time i brush my teeth & tongue it still seems like my breath smells.

everytime my boyfriend comes over i have to put gum in my mouth & sometimes thats 8 in the morning! i dont want to have to do that!

any suggestions?? or comments?? they would be greatly appreciated. thank you:)

Bad breath doesnt always come from your teeth, tongue or gums. More often I've found it to have something to do with diet, what a person has eaten recently or even going on a fast. When my husband fasts, his breath smells like a garbage can with old rotten food in it. Gross. But its part of the process and goes away again once he's back to eating. I have also noticed that people who have eaten garlic will have breath smelling bad to the other person but only if the other person has not eaten garlic that day. The trick is to either restrict eating foods with garlic until you both have a chance to eat it at the same time.
I have found cheese to have an effect on the breath of another person. there may be other things too. Having a mouth wash on hand is a good idea, just rinse with it and it should help. I dont like mouthwash in particular myself but have used baking soda too to kill any germs that might be causing odor. It works sometimes and other times it creates a new not so pleasant odor in my mouth, not bad but not good yet.
I wouldn't recommend this yet until you turn 21, but i have found rinsing my mouth with certain alcohols to make the breath not only smell good but a persons mouth to taste good, not like alcohol. I just rinse and spit out like using a mouth wash. Keep this in mind for the future as I like this method best but we dont always have our favorite alcohols at home. Hubby likes to drink tequila. I hate drinking it. But after he's taken a little drink, his breath smelling wonderful, almost fruity, like an ambrosia, and kisses taste good too. For now, mouth wash and strong mint gum will have to do for you.

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hi people!

im a 19 year old girl & ive only tried anal once. from that experience im terrified to do it again.

when i did it the first time i got a hemorrhoid, disgusting yes i know! & also he cummed in my butt & when he pulled out it made a couple farting sounds but i dont think i farted? im not sure but it was embarrassing & i dont ever want that to happen again!

any suggestions or comments? thanks!

also any suggestions on how to clean your butt out before anal? because you poop there lol, i dont want anything coming out or smelling, sorry i know this sounds very out there! i just need some help!

thanks in advance and sorry about how weird this sounds haha!:)

Anal is not for everyone. Not every woman is going to love it. the only ones that are more likely to enjoy are the females who have more of the sensitivity of nerves for orgasms towards the back wall of the vagina closest to the anal passage rather than on the front wall of the body. It is these women who will experience sensations, otherwise, it isn't fun. Can hurt if you're not relaxed, and can cause hemorroids and also in me at least interfered with my being able to go #2 for a couple days, like it blocked my up somehow.

The best advice for you would be to tell your partner that you did not enjoy it, it does nothing for you and say you dont want to do it again because it caused a hemorroid too. If he pleads and begs, you say no means no and try to talk about what you both do like instead.

Yes, if you're going to be sexual with someone, you have to communicate these very personal and sometimes embarrassing facts!

One reason guys want to do anal sex is because they've heard that it is a tighter feel and the tighter grip on the penis is very pleasurable.

There is a solution to that if that is something he likes. It will take time to develop but you are going to practice squeezing your pc muscles, like the ones used to stop a flow of urine. At first I could not feel myself squeezing but when having sex imagined and focused my mind, picturing myself squeezing the penis with my vagina. Nothing happened at first but I did this every time and asked if he could feel me squeezing him. Eventually it will become noticeable to you and to him. Its easier to feel your muscles squeezing with him inside. Now I can squeeze any way I want, one long sustained or many little ones. When a guy experiences this, it's way more pleasureful and rewarding than using the anus.

As for the farting sounds, get used to it, its a part of sex sometimes. Depends on how wide open your anus or your pussy is that particular time. The mans penis then forces little bits of air in, like blowing up a balloon, so the moment he removes himself, the air comes back out in release....you have no control over this. If your guy accuses you of farting or doesnt like it, explain to him whats happening and that he is the one who caused it and your'e okay with it if he is. If he is so immature that he doesnt believe or gives you any other kind of trouble, you may wanna think twice about continueing to have him for a boyfriend and sex partner.

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M/15
So most of the time I hang out with my freinds the subject of who would you have sex with comes up. My freinds usaly have a mental numbered list of who they want to have sex with and are shock when I reveal to them that I dont really think about that to much. Also they dont want a relationship with the people they want to have sex with. They just want to bang them and move to then next one and I feel like that thats messed up and it kinds makes me mad when they talk about girls like that. When I think of some one I care about I think of how we would spend time together or how I can make them feel like they are special to me. Dose that make me strange?

At fifteen they hardly know anything. You are the normal one with your views which are right on in your feelings and views. I am having to share with college age even and older sometimes how you can't really separate the two if you want a meaningful and healthy relationship.
Your friends are not going to be thinking of their life time partner at this point and afraid to make any even short term commitments in dating so they have the view of not wanting a relationship with a girl. But their hormones are raging so they think of sex and therefore believe it should be kept separate. Yes, sometimes you can find a girl who just wants the sex too but the majority of girls want the friendship, relationship and feelings for each other before moving on to sex.
These days, there's been plenty of studies that not every person is going to have the same libido sexually. One person is happy with twice a month when another wants twice a day i f they can get it. You sound like a very mature young man. good luck in life.

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Boy boy friend use to like me 6 before our relation but he is shy to kiss how to make him for kiss?

Not sure I understand exactly what you are asking. Your question isnt exactly clear.

He used to like you? But doesnt any more?
And you are thinking if you kissed that would renew his interest?

OR I could take it to mean that he showed an interest in you, liking you, but once you guys starting dating and had a relationship, his interest went away?

If its any of those scenerios, then you may both not be the best match. It is fairly common to find someone interesting and appealling on a surface level but once we start dating and spend more time with, we find that we dont feel the same or have enough in common to continue the relationship. You can talk and find out if this is how he is feeling and if so, let him go. Trying to make him kiss you wont change a thing. Some people have chemistry together and others dont and theres no way to make chemistry happen.

If he is just shy and you both are still in a dating relationship, I guess its up to you to make the first move and kiss him. Next time the impulse hits, just kiss him.

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hey everyone!
so i have a 21 year old boyfriend & im 19. but it seems like no matter how much i wash my vagina it still seems to smell!! any suggestions?? also my butt seems to smell as well. i know this sounds weird & awkward. im sorry guys haha. & yes i take showers & wash as many times as i can. with a bar of soap (wash it 3 times in the shower) and then sometimes body wash after. thinking maybe it might make it smell better.

please help! ahhhh!

thanks!

Hon, everyones privates have their own odor, a kind of musky smell and this is normal. It is not offensive usually to your partner unless the two of you are not a good match chemistry wise. Of the different men I've been around, only once was I with someone whom I did not like his natural musk scent once the pants were off, in fact it made me gag. I should have had a clue because theres a big difference to me in sweat smells too. End of the day, if a guys armpits smell like sweat but it doesnt burn your nose or smell unbearable, that's good. Sweat isnt a pleasant smell but should be something you can tolerate for a small amount of time. His sweat smelled horrid, I couldnt sit next to him at a party without gasping for air.

Guys actually get pretty turned on by a females natural sex smell.
Since you are a bit paranoid about the smell of your vagina, let me caution you to not use douches or sprays that say it makes you clean and fresh. the problem is these things and any soap that may get inside will rinse away the good bacteria inside your vagina that keep the bad ones from over multiplying. Your vagina has its own cleansing fragile ecosytem that doesnt need any interferance or help from you. In fact, too much washing especially if you try to do so inside can be the cause of bacterial infections that you then have to go see a doctor to get treated and vaginosis can smell really off like rotten fish. So if you dont want infections or bad smells, learn to get used to your natural scent dear. And its okay to ask every once in a while if you smell fresh to him. I still do once in a while. It's not often I think I smell something a bit off but I ask and everytime am told I smell good. We are always more critical of ourselves in all ways than anyone else is going to be. I am glad you did ask as this is an important subject. Oh , by the way, there are also glands that can provide a similar odor from the butt. Not always. Some people I never picked up a scent there. And sometimes it smells slightly different but still a good smell, nothing like feces, farts, or something rotten.

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ok so my best friend is 15 and i'm 13. we have been best friends for 5 years and we have helped each other through everything. we know everything about each other and have great trust. I know he really likes me and I really like him. He has asked me out twice but ive said no cause ive got scared. I don't know if the age difference is to much or if I should go for it. I don't like anyone else and its not like im desperate and NEED a boyfriend but I really like him. we are both still virgins and he doesn't ever really show that he would pressure me into anything just a typical teenage boy but I trust him. what should I do?

If you are not going to have sex yet for a few years and he is your best friend, then I don't see how things would change. Dating at your age is pretty much like the hanging out together that you've done growing up. You might ask your parents what guide lines if any that they may have for you dating. This is something they may not haven given thought to yet but its time now.

If your parents know him pretty well and realize that this is the guy who'd like to "date" you, be ready to answer their questions as to what, if anything would be different from him being your best friend to being your boyfriend also. Hormones that come into the picture at your age will be a concern for parents. So if you both can tell them that you feel you are too young for that yet but are starting to feel the romance feelings besides friend feelings, then perhaps that would entail being able to cuddle together while watching a movie, holding hands and maybe the kiss in greeting and kiss goodbye. The heavy kissing can lead to more.
If your parents don;t know him, it may be time to invite him over a few times so they get used to him. I've heard from plenty of teens where the parents let their girl start dating earlier because they really knew the guy well from him hanging out with their family a lot and knew he would treat the daughter with respect and was her best friend. If you have parents who don't communicate well or talk to you much and are paranoid about the subject of sex let alone talk about dating guidelines, then it will have to be up to you to do what you are comfortable with.
So talk with him and ask what things he see's changing or other things that would be new to your friendship if you were to start dating. Always ask questions. You got scared because you did not have enough information to make a decision. If you do decide to date and at some point in the future, your urges are running out of control and you dont think you have the willpower to hold off having sex with him, then go to Planned Parent hood. they deal with teens often, hand out condoms. But even that isnt the most reliable, and you may be the age at which they will put you on the pill, and its all private, parents dont have to know. I am not advising you take this path, your body has a lot of maturing to do yet to have sex but I see no reason to not hang out with him as boyfriend/girlfriend.

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When I was 9, almost 10, I wrote a horror/sci fi story. It was 200+ pages, but not very good. Two years later, I have now decided to start writing again, after a long period of procrastinating and wasting time.

I want to write a horror story, but I need ideas.. What would you want to read about? Any ideas? Also, if you have any tips on writing (especially horror), that would be great too. Note: This would probably be a novel, not just a short story.

Thanks (:

When I was your age I wrote lots of short stories. Years and years later as I read them again, I realized that the stories could be improved upon alot because back then I was writing from the perspective of my 10 yr old and early teen mind. One of the best things you can do is to continue to read as many different types of Horror novels you can and your basic ideas will come from what you've read with your own twist to it. I have continued to be an avid reader of any of the genre's in books that fascinate me and hold my attention. Horror is not one of mine. So I cant say what I'd like to read. But I do know that you do need to write about what interests you. Because that way you'll have a passion about it. I have finished a novel and am at the point of looking to get it published. I started writing it a year ago. Made many revisions. Set it aside for 2 months while I kept reading other peoples works, came back and each time found awkward sentences or stuff that didn't make sense cus originally the next point or step had been in my mind but not made it on to the script and it was obvious now. If you can read your story aloud without getting stuck or it not flowing smoothly in speech, then its great. I didn't have the benefit of personal computers at your age cus they didnt exist yet. So when you write, double space your story and keep in mind that a horror novel generally runs 80,000 to 100,000 words completed. If you are writing short stories or for young adult it can differ and be less. There is info on the internet to help but takes diligence to hunt down. I have looked for support in my genre so I dont have anything to pass on but if you have a love of writing at this age, then someday, you will write and publish your first novel.
I can think of two people right off hand who are young adults who both have some very interesting story line ideas but neither one has actually started writing no matter how much I encourage them. I know that I am a better writer now than before I started my novel. So the best thing I can say is to keep writing and save your documents not just on your computer but on a chip too in case something happens to your computer. I was doing all my writing on an old pc and one day, the computer freaked out and the screen went and pc shut down and I lost an entire page of what I was writing because the pc no longer could hold information and I was saving to an external hard drive but had to remember to stop at the end of each typed page and do so. I didnt get the chance. I was hard pressed to rewrite it exactly as I had it the first time. Sometimes an inspiration of certain words comes and wont come again. Twice actually I thought I lost my novel and cried my heart out. Hubby found what went wrong. You can't afford to lose typed info. due to a power surge or fault pc part or something. Remember to take that precaution and have your story stored and updated on something outside of your computer. Good luck with your writing!

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The preachers wife is having her first baby its a girl and the baby shower is this sunday and I have no idea what to get her she's 24 around my age if that helps I am 25. Does any bidy have any ideas

Depends alot on your budget. Starting out, she's gonna need everything. She'll likely have the big items like crib already but may not have a high chair since its not an immediate need. I've known 3 or 4 women to go together on paying for a high chair as a gift so thats a possibility.
If you decide to get clothing, the majority of people who are not experienced moms, will be buying New born, 6 mos sizes and a baby grows so quickly when young that it can outgrow the tons of baby clothes a person gets before the baby can wear it. I hear this lament all the time. So try finding something for older tots, especially if you know if its to be a girl or boy...like 1yr or 18months. Or buy the hooded bath towel, bath bath tub or a traveling changing pad to make it easier for mom to change kiddo on the go. Public changing tables may have lots of germs so a pad to lay the baby on is smart and she'll need several. Or a basket of baby personal needs like baby soap, shampoo, diaper ointment, baby powder. Even if she isn't going to use cloth diapers, a package of them will end up being used as spit up wipes. Babies are always spitting up and I always use old diapers for that. A thoughtful gift is a certificate to a portrait studio. It can be one inside a department store that isn't too expensive but parents love to get professional photos done of the baby. You can try for toy type things, like a cloth book, rattles, and the usual gifts marked for 6mos or a year old. A great one is the toy bar on a stand that baby lies under before it can roll or sit and it reaches up to touch, bat at and spin the toys on the bar. There are lots of good learning toys for really young kids to help them make use of their arms and legs. A walker is good too. Even a mobile for the crib but the child cant touch and reach that ever so an interactive toy is better. Hope this helps some

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I have a teacher at college that I've become very close with academically. We have spent a lot of time working together. In the past year I've become smitten by him. I don't always know whether I love him as a father figure or a friend or sexually. It changes. Sometimes I feel like no man will ever be able to understand or accept me like he does. It's always made me feel really sad that our relationship doesn't span beyond school things. He has a family and everything and obviously it's unprofessional to hang out with students outside school and it's not what I want because I care deeply about my career and that's what I'm studying with him for after all. It's something that would never happen. But when I'm alone, especially when I'm home from school (I'm graduated now), I revert to my mind and think about him a lot. I have dreams about him and then wake up thinking about him and sad for the whole day. Today I am particularly sad and missing him(and on top of that my nagging mother won't leave me alone on my day off). I just need to shake this off and stop thinking about him and school and the fact that I'm not going back, but it's so hard. I could use some advice or words or encouragement.

If you are college age, its a perfect time to be taking inventory of qualities that you like and admire in men. You've been lucky enough to be able to see some things in him that you like. So many never put two and two together. But you are aware of how some things about him are catching your attention in a good way. I can't say whether there is something about him that you find sexually attracting. Unless you never grew up with a father, I'm more inclined to think its not as a father figure that you see him either, just a mature man.
Until you find the right man to marry you will come across other guys too who catch your attention in a good way. Rather than lamenting that they aren't available... start your list of what you are looking for in a man. Also have a list of what you are wanting to avoid. On your list title one column Needs and one column Wants.

Needs are a must have, something that would be a deal breaker if he didn't have it such as lets say you want to have kids. He came from a family with 8 kids and he's adamant about not having any of his own cus he's had his fill growing up. That would be a deal breaker. A want is like icing and decorations on the cake. Not a deal breaker for you but you're okay if its missing, such as you love dancing and would like a guy who enjoys dancing or willing to learn but if he doesn't/wont, its still okay with you.
So if you decide to look at the teacher as one person God put in your path to help you form an idea of what you are looking for in a guy, it'll be easier to avoid or at least spend minimal time with a guy until he shows his true colors, and to recognize the qualities you are looking for. If someone has 2 out of 10 must haves, don't consider him too seriously and settle for less. Keep looking...I did my 2nd time around and found a man who met all my Needs and about 1/2 of my Wants. I'm married to him now. Good luck dear.

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I want to have sex but I don't want to get pregnant. I'm only 13 almost 14. If there is anyone that will do this with me secretly please do. Parents cannot find out.

I am one for waiting a bit to engage in sex with a partner. However, prior to that, you can masturbate, ask mom to get you vibrators or dildos.

But you are going to do what you want no matter what of course. So in that case, go to Planned Parenthood. I know they have worked with teens and have teen teaching programs and hand out condoms and cant say at what age but they do offer birth control and under the Hippa law they must keep your privacy so parents wont know.

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I'm a 14 almost 15 year old girl and I feel like I masturbate way to often. I masturbate about once a day but sometimes I do it 2-3 times a day depending on how I'm feeling. It doesn't get in the way of my schedule or anything because I do it in my bed at night. Is this to often? I feel like no one else masturbates, so that just makes me feel worse.

Don;t worry honey...everyone has a different libido and some people need the sexual release more often than others. there is no way to really know how often everyone else that you know, does it. Even if you asked, not everyone whos willing to answer, will tell the truth because they, like you, are too worried about not being normal.
Just enjoy it.

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I am from india, age 23, male, I want to do my pennies big and thicker, may I do by musterbuting or by doing hand job or what to do? Please reply

Men always think their penis is too short. I can say for me at least, there's such a thing as a guy having a penis too long though. As a female, I have never had a problem with average size penis's which from all i have seen has ranged about 4 inches to over 6. Some 7 incHES. But seldom have I seen those 8 inches and longer. The average vagina length before arousal is 4 to 5 inches and when aroused it can lengthen and also grow in diameter.
At the end of the vagina is her cervix, feels like a knob like thing, like a nose. what the female body does in arousal is the uterus and cervix move further up into her body lengthening the amount she can take if needed.
If you are so worried that your female partner is not getting orgasms with you inside, then focus on her first and learn what you can about the g-spot to give her orgasm by using your fingers or a toy for her. Also focus on her clitoris to stimulate and give her orgasms. then onces she'd had her fill of orgasms, its your turn to have yours.

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So, my current laptop is basically dead, and we think there's really nothing we can do, so now I am looking for a new one.

I will be using this laptop mostly for school (reports, online resources, etc.), e-mail, web browsing, and gaming (Yeah, I'm sort of a nerd so I would like it to be a good computer for gaming). I might also want to have a 2-in-1 laptop and tablet.

My budget is about $250-$400, so any suggestions in that price range?

I would also like to know if anyone has had experience with intel Pentium? I have found some 2-in-1 laptop/tablets I like for $350, but my brother says intel Pentium isn't any good. Any thoughts? The brand is HP, is that a good brand?

Thanks for reading, any suggestions?

If you know a little something about computers, a good place to get great prices is New Egg on line.
www.newegg.com

Whatever computer you decide on, check with this site before buying anywhere ele. We've been buying from them for years and years and just got our new computer.

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I work in a good company and recently, i found out that my ex boyfriend who I had a bad break up with sent his resume to the company as well, actually someone in the company who is also his friend brought the resume..He came for the interview and he practically got it, until i told the human resource manager that i couldn't work with him, so she spoke with the manager about it and they didn't give him the job. now i feel so bad that i caused it bcos he feels i had something to do with it, and also the friend, but i was trying to protect myself and avoiding any clash or past memories while seeing him... i don't know what to do.....

Do you believe you could have done something different? As adults sometimes we have to make snap decisions on the spot without any time to think things through as to all the possibilities of various consequences to any choice made. Sometimes we regret making a certain choice and know better after its done and over with that we should not have made that choice. The thing to keep in mind is exactly how bad you feel and resolve to do things differently next time you are confronted with being near someone you either don't like or have bad blood with. If this is an important lesson for you to learn, then fate will make sure you come across something similar. If this isn't related to a life lesson you need to learn, you may never have to face such a decision again.
I understand trying to protect yourself, but unless he was prone to mental or emotional abuse or sabotaging things you were doing, then likely at work place, there would have been nothing to protect yourself from. Without knowing if he's a violent man, I can't know if there would have been any clashes. Would he have jeopardized his new position by attacking you at work? Past memories...well you can have them pop up just about anywhere for any reason and you don't even need his physical presence for that to happen. You are the one who control your thoughts and memories internally so his being there may not have been the only thing to trigger it.

Here's another way to look at it. I understand being hurt and wanting time to heal. So, If he knew you well, then he knew where you worked. He could have avoided looking for work in the same company. Depending on the size of the company he may have seen you often. Either he did that deliberately to torture you more or he had no feelings for you what so ever , never did and therefore didnt even think or care about how it would affect you, cus he just wanted a good solid job with a good company and you were't even in the equation for him.
It doesnt matter what was going on in his mind, now after the fact. Just let it go. I can't say whether what you did for the right decision in case he was doing this on purpose, or if you were extra touchy and he was just wanting a good job.
It's probably best to let it go. Saying anything to him or anyone else at this point will just make things worse. Just resolve to give yourself enough time to go over any future decisions and all possible outcomes first and how you might feel about your decision after wards. then give it your best shot and at least you can feel assured that you didn't have a knee jerk reaction but honestly gave it some thought and made the best decision you knew how with the amount of information you had.

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This guy on Facebook keeps coming up to my best friend saying he loves her and wants to marry her she doesn't even know him.

She has told him to go away and leave her alone lots of times. I have ask as well and more friends have to. He will just not leave her alone. We have all reported him and things like that but he will still not leave her alone what should we do? I'm just thinking of her safety!

I have been propositioned by odd men i don't know, treating facebook as if it was a dating site and telling me that they like me and are looking for a woman. My settings are not private or restricted because I do want old acquaintances to be able to find me and say hello. She should be able to block him though and report to facebook that the person is unwanted contact.
She may want to change her settings. Ask around for friends who know their way around facebook well and all the settings choices for help in this.
If it doesnt get better, all she can do is create a new facebook profile and stop using the old one and close the old one. On the new one, she must not use her actual first and last name but put something that gives no clue it is her like 'Little Miss Sunshine' or 'Daisy Lover' and then send new friend requests to all the friends she does want on her new one.
My nephew had to close his old one and create a new one when his friends list was stolen and used to send out spam.
Good luck.

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im posting this to Dragonflymagic anyway i was searching the net for websites just like this one and i came across one called Answer Bank the good news was you could ask your questions and put them in categories bad news was you needed an email address to do so it wouldnt let you do it without email so can you please help me find some sites like this one where you dont need an email address to get advice and that you can post your questions on there and i hope you get this in your advice column

Sorry hon, when I went looking for advice sites that I could give advice on, this is the only one I found. There may be others that have no room for more advice-givers but then I have no interest.

I think it odd to have to give an email address unless you are sending your questions to an email address rather than a site like this one. As for catagories, Advicenators does have catagories. Look under the tab for Topics up at the top.
The most common catagories or popular ones are listed. If yours doesnt fit and you can put yours in general and also leave a suggestion on the Make suggestions tab for Dangernerd who created this site and let him know what catagory is missing that you'd like to see.

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