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Teenage masturbation


Question Posted Thursday August 21 2014, 9:45 pm

I'm a 14 almost 15 year old girl and I feel like I masturbate way to often. I masturbate about once a day but sometimes I do it 2-3 times a day depending on how I'm feeling. It doesn't get in the way of my schedule or anything because I do it in my bed at night. Is this to often? I feel like no one else masturbates, so that just makes me feel worse.

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday September 3 2014, 11:59 pm:
You have received a lot of solid responses to your question. I won't rehash what is contained them. I felt I should address the "I feel I'm the only one who does this and nobody else does."

You aren't. In fact, the majority of your peers are doing but aren't talking about it or will admitting to it to peers. Chalk it up to stigma. This is true of both males and females your age. It's pretty much a universal thing at this stage of life that most are doing.

Frequency doesn't matter. As long as you have a life apart from it you're fine and you've indicated that's the case.

There's all kind of statistics out there about percentage of males and females who engage in it versus those who don't.

Males are considered to do it more. They are pretty much aware from day one of their genitals and must touch to urinate. Female genitals are more hidden and internal.

One article I read suggested what I mentioned plus the fact females tend to be more discreet about talking about these things. It may skew the percentage one way or another. At either rate most males and females will engage in this activity and some point. Your peers no doubt are doing it so I wouldn't feel in the least bit ashamed or embarrassed over it. As long as you feel comfortable with it you're normal.

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CassidyBower answered Saturday August 30 2014, 1:04 am:
no you are not. don't worry about it okay you are a teenager you have hormones it what we do. i can tell you that there are people out there feeling the same way but you are the only one brave enough to ask. no it is fine if you do that. I do it too don't worry

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday August 26 2014, 1:11 am:
Don;t worry honey...everyone has a different libido and some people need the sexual release more often than others. there is no way to really know how often everyone else that you know, does it. Even if you asked, not everyone whos willing to answer, will tell the truth because they, like you, are too worried about not being normal.
Just enjoy it.

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rainhorse68 answered Friday August 22 2014, 1:07 pm:
If it isn't interfering with your schedule, or disturbing your sleep so much that you're a bit of a zombie next day, you're fine. Everyone has and does masturbate (once they become sexually aware and physically equipped, as you might say). That generally means in your teens. And it will continue all your life. You obviously haven't got a hang-up about doing it (or you would be trying very hard to resist the urge...and getting mentally all screwed up about it). This is a great sign. You just think it's too often, and nobody else does it? We've answered the first bit. We all do it. Guys and girls, single or in relationships, old or young. And there is not any such thing as the 'correct' number of times...so there's no too much or too little. If you feel the need 2-3 times a day that's fine. You'll only do it when you feel the urge (you feel horny and need to relieve the tension). And if a friend of the same age is happy and content doing it just once or twice a week, that's fine too. It should feel very enjoyable, so enjoy it with no inappropriate worries or feelings of guilt spoiling it. And you should feel pleasantly satisfied, relaxed and de-stressed when you've finished. There's no right or wrong technique, no 'standard' length of time you enjoy it for either. It's kind of transient too. It's 2-3 a day at present. You might find that changes. And it's not unusual for a woman to find she feels more or less horny, more or less often at different times during the month (it is tied-up with the menstrual cycle as hormone levels rise and fall over the month). And in bed at night is of course very convenient as you'll be comfortable, relaxed and not likley to be disturbed by people milling around the house, phone calls etc. And afterwards, you can just drop off to sleep. Now, it's not often that something really enjoyable comes free of charge, is there to enjoy whenever you fancy it and does you no physical or mental harm whatsoever. But this one really does. No strings. No pitfalls. So if you've finished any home study you have to do during school/college time, had dinner and taken care of any jobs around the house you do then relax and enjoy some 'me-time'as and when you feel the need. Repeat if necessary! And stop worrying. You're fine! X

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adviceman49 answered Friday August 22 2014, 11:10 am:
Relax your normal. Masturbating 2 to 3 times a day is normal for most teenagers, male or female. Masturbation is something most of us do not talk about among friends especially girls.

Boys on the other hand are a bit more open about it generally in a somewhat derogatory manner. An example would be talking about a sexy teacher a guy might say something like, "Man Miss X was dressed so sexy I had to go to the bathroom and beat off, or I went home and choked the chicken x times. This would be something said with other boys. They could also be talking about a female student, her again it strictly between 2 or 3 close guy friends.

Statistically speaking 85% of us, according to a recent survey, masturbate. This means in a house choke of 4 3.5 people masturbate. This would include parents who usually do so as part of foreplay to intercourse which would be mutual masturbation. This would include fingering, hand jobs, and oral sex.

As I said to begin with you are normal so relax.

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