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19/m
So I recently started college, everyone told me it would be a great time of my life and I would meet a bunch of new people.
So I have always struggled with making friends, and keeping friends, and I am very shy and never know what to say to people.
When I got to college I didn't really meet anyone here. I have met a total of 6 people that I talk to on a daily basis.
4 of them being students that live in my dorm
1 being my RA
1 being my roommate
I would like to meet more people, guys and girls (especially girls, what guy doesn't want that?) but I never know how to approach a group of guys or girls and I never know how to make small talk with them to get a conversation going. I noticed in high school most of the time I made new friends it was by accident or just luck that I met them. I never have gone out of my way to make new friends.
I would love any advice on meeting new people and getting to know them. Especially for girls lol I would love to meet new girls. But any advice will be appreciated as I want to get more social and be more out there.
thank you (link)
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try and put yourself out there little by little. just try to say hi to some one that is frequently in your classes or if you are struggling then you can ask someone for help. but honestly never go too far. if makes you extremely uncomfortable then don,t do it.but saying hi to them wont hurt you or them it will probably make their day
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The preachers wife is having her first baby its a girl and the baby shower is this sunday and I have no idea what to get her she's 24 around my age if that helps I am 25. Does any bidy have any ideas (link)
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if you are close to her than get her something that you know is usefull for for her. like bottle and baby toys
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I'm a 14 year old girl and I moved a few months ago. I've always been such a good girl. A quiet, rule following, sweet, helpful teacher's pet. Exactly what every mother wants out of her little girl. And that's how my reputation is at school is too, the nice girl, the smart girl, the goody two shoes. I'm described as "cute" or "adorable" never "pretty" or "hot". I once accidently dropped a weight on my foot in gym and I let the f word slip by accident and everyone turned and gasped. If it had been anyone else no one would've cared, but I was a good girl so it was a big thing. I hurt someone's feelings on accident once and I cried and apologized to her whole family because I felt so bad. But ever since I've moved, I've cared less. I feel like I don't want my squeaky clean image anymore. I want to be cool. And that's exactly what's happening: I'm getting snafu and sarcastic and distancing myself from my friends because I don't care anymore. But I don't really want this, I don't know what I want. I feel so conflicted. What do I do????? (link)
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you are a teenager reblion runs in your veins. just ell someone you are close to that you want to do somthing different. that you are tired of being the good person. rebelion is good it lets you find the real you. as long as you don't start doing drugs or fliping teachers off then no one should have control over you. just like i said don't do drugs.
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hey guys! im a 19 year old girl & i ended up hurting my leg by running 7 months ago and just got referred to do physical therapy. i used to work out and run everyday! since my leg started hurting ive been off for 7 months now, all ive been doing is binging & when i say i binge eat i mean it. its so insane i eat more than anyone i know. ive gained about 30 pounds in 7 months because of it. i used to weigh 128 and now i weigh way more. i literally feel it when i get up and walk or anything. its horrible. none of my clothes fit me anymore!! i hate it and it makes me so depressed. my body gets me depressed as well as the way ive been eating. i know i have to stop but its hard. ive been trying to eat healthier. i went out to eat for lunch & dinner everyday for the longest time. im now trying to stop that & trying to get a healthier life style like i used to have. i want to be healthier so that when i start to run again (when physical therapy is over & im allowed to get back into running fully) im not completely out of shape.
any advice or motivation??? i really need some! thanks:) (link)
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this is an amazing quot i dont know who from he it said dont quit, suffer now and live the rest of your life as a chapion. it will be so hard for you at first. just thing of it like quiting smoking. surroud your self with people that to support you and find a hobby the sort of keeps you fit without hurting you too much. like walk a lot. just take more steps then you would normaly. what i am saying might be stupid but it still makes a bit of sence. if you have go online and print out a bunch of motovational qoutes and post the around your house if that is not too cheesy
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ok so my best friend is 15 and i'm 13. we have been best friends for 5 years and we have helped each other through everything. we know everything about each other and have great trust. I know he really likes me and I really like him. He has asked me out twice but ive said no cause ive got scared. I don't know if the age difference is to much or if I should go for it. I don't like anyone else and its not like im desperate and NEED a boyfriend but I really like him. we are both still virgins and he doesn't ever really show that he would pressure me into anything just a typical teenage boy but I trust him. what should I do? (link)
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Do it life is short. i am pretty sure he feels the same way about you.he might be shy.just do it casually.
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I'm a 14 almost 15 year old girl and I feel like I masturbate way to often. I masturbate about once a day but sometimes I do it 2-3 times a day depending on how I'm feeling. It doesn't get in the way of my schedule or anything because I do it in my bed at night. Is this to often? I feel like no one else masturbates, so that just makes me feel worse. (link)
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no you are not. don't worry about it okay you are a teenager you have hormones it what we do. i can tell you that there are people out there feeling the same way but you are the only one brave enough to ask. no it is fine if you do that. I do it too don't worry
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Hi, I'm female, fifteen, and I've been in band for four years now. When I was younger, I used to be able to fall asleep to music, especially classical, but since I've gained a deeper understanding of what I'm hearing, I can't anymore. I'm tangled up in the sound, picking the music, chords, apart. It's an exciting thing for me. Lots of the time, I'll hear something that totally enthralls me, I get super excited. I tense up, clench and unclench my fists, and take in a really sharp breath, sometimes it's a sharp gasp. And I feel like I can Physically feel the music. It's the most amazing feeling ever. I started trying to figure out what it was and I think It's almost like sexual excitement, but without the "lusty" feeling. What is this and why do I experience this? And, would anyone know if it's normal to hear music you've never heard before in your dreams? Thanks in advance! :D (link)
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yes i know exactaly how you feel i am a fellow musician my self and i cn pick out different instruments in a song. And you might either be making a song in your head when you sleep or you might be modifying it. or if you listen to the radio at night when you are asleep you cloud be partally awake so your brain is processing it to your dreams.
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i have an addiction to porn...how do i quit (link)
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read a book
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I met my girlfriend a year ago at school and we both had a crush on each other, one time around the end of the year we dated for two weeks then she left me. Then about a month or two later she came back to me and we started dating again, and she left me again. I went through depression twice now, and me and this girl are really in love, but I'm not sure if she's leaving me because of her bipolar disorder, she isn't on medication but if she came back to me again I was gonna talk to her about going on medication with her parents. I'm not sure though if she is leaving me because her bipolar disorder or what I need help to know what I should do and why she's really leaving me and if it is because her bipolar how can I make the relationship last where she doesn't keep leaving me because we both like each other. (link)
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you should talk to her parents because if she keeps on doing that it could end very badly. And just to be sure you should be extremely good to her so that you know that it wasn't any thing you did. But yes defenitly talk to her parents to also be sure that she is safe and stable any little thing could set her off
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According to chain messages, I should've died millions of times, gotten injured, heard laughing in my bathroom, an old lady throw her 10 cats at me in my backyard, turkey shoved up my butt, world war 3 released on my chest, my kids killed (I don't have kids soooo), have a ghost girl screwing with me every night, have seen a little dead girl in my room twice, been thrown down a sewer, my mom dead (she's cooking dinner in the kitchen right now I'm 11), and a clown who turned into the devil because he had sex "eat your penus and your vagina 2! (Oh I knew I had a vagina but I didn't know I also have a penus! And if sex turns you into the devil we should have a lot of devils), and my computer should be on fire and other really weird and disturbing stuff. The chain letters I recieved were hilarious and not true. Seriously, some vortex enters my computer whenever I recieve some story made by a random troll that finds out my location at every second, knows about my emails and if I forward them in said time and if I don't that force will create said punishment to happen to me? Bull shit. (link)
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ummm i am probably no help but maybe you should see a therapist.
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