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I'm 19/f.
I want to break up with my boyfriend. We've been together for 10 months.
The problem is he's really nice and is totally in love with me. I'm worried that breaking up with him will crush him completely.
I just don't get excited about us anymore. When I get a text from him even if it says hey beautiful-I just feel no emotion. I don't really fancy him.
Recently he's had a go at me for not being able to come on dates. We live like a hour apart. I don't want to go on dates because they bore me.
Also my mum told my sister that I could do better for a boyfriend.
I know breaking up with him will hurt him no matter what. Just I start Uni again soon and would prefer to be single ready to mingle if you get what I mean. I'm just scared also they'll be no one else if I split up with my bf, and I'll regret the decision.
He's an amazing, lovely guy-I just don't fancy him. The type that'd say 'Is there anything I need to change'. Truth is you either fancy someone or you don't.
Should we take a break and see how it goes? he wants to see me more-I'm not so fussed. (link)
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i was recently in the same situation and trust me when i tell you that you will feel a whole lot better if you tell him sooner than later. just do it in a way that is respectful and give him a chance to get closure. after all he didn't do anything wrong you just out grew him and you have a right to that.
he will hurt but in time he but in time he will realise you did him a favor.....its better to leave a relation in which your bored than to stay just to appease the other person..
After all you only live once.
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20/f I was admitted into a partial care program after OD'ing in an attempt to kill myself. It's been a few days into the program, a little more than a week since the attempt has been made.
Right now I'm in a bit of a bubble, so to speak. I haven't been out with friends, I'm not going to work, really the only communication I have at the moment is through Facebook. Our family has moved around quite frequently, but I've kept a lot of my friends through FB, and we talk frequently. Anyhow, what I'm torn about is whether or not I should post a "life update" status, if you will, and inform everyone of what's going on, why I'm so quiet and cooped up lately.
I guess what I'm concerned about is whether or not it's appropriate. I planned on making it a "friends only" status, but of course there are many acquaintances I have as FB friends as well. But I want to be honest for once, I'm sick of hiding how I feel or what I'm going through, I've been doing that for over 5 years, and look where it got me. Everyone knows me as the cheerful one, the one they can depend on. Right now I need to be able to be myself, and have support. I feel like continuing to hide and keep everything hushhush is a bad way to do that.
I don't know, I'm torn on whether or not it's a good idea to post about it. Any thoughts/opinions please? (link)
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i think its a good idea to tell you friends but you have to decide on how much your willing to let every one see.
being honest is a good start to your recovery just limit what you post and when your close friends decide to contact you, you can share your whole story.request for support and understanding.
best of luck.
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Hi there, I am from Philippines.
Here's my case:
We just met here at work.
We became close and good friends. Sweetness overload. And we are starting to fall BUT he has a girlfriend.
I know our status in the first place but I made a decision to still push this feelings and what we have is totally indescribable. We're like lovers which is open to every one. Hold hands, kisses, hugs, sms & calls. We decided to think of what makes us happy and what we just have for now and at work and don't mind what he have with his gf at home.
Everything went well and smooth for the past 3 weeks. Happy and unmindful of the future. But something just changed.
He is now not sure of getting this cloudy relationship to keep going. He said he cannot fall for me because of his status. But we both admit that we're already getting there, falling. And we both decided that we need to lessen being together, those sweet nothings, text messages and start to think that we are now slowly cutting this off.
I am totally getting hurt! I am trying to do the same thing but it really hurt. I miss him so badly, its been 4 days now that we hardly talk and see each other.
What should I do? I am totally lost. I'm used to be with him. At some point I am still sending him messages, calling him, I cannot continue to really break what we had. Its hard. Specially we are both in just one environment. (link)
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hey there...i understand this is very hard for you especially with you work together and you have to see him on a daily basis. my advice to you is to hold on tight and remember that everything has a reason and if your truly meant to be together he will realise that soon enough... try find your original rythm, personal routine helps.
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