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I've been dating this mutual friend of mine for about a month now.I Knew him through my best friend.I had met him a couple of times and then started talking over the phone and now he's in Europe doing his post graduation. Its been a long distance relationship.Im new to this and I don't know how to go about a few things and what to understand when he says a few things.
He says he really likes me and says "always be mine".
He talks about having kids and getting married and tells me that I'm the one.
Every time we talk he tells me he misses me really badly! I can't stop but think " is he unsure about this " cause he keeps telling me he misses me. We talk dirty stuff over the phone. We are 22 years old. I don't know what to expect from an Ldr.I have my moments of doubts and he assures me that we will make it work.am I over thinking this? We talk regularly and the communication is good. He's far away and I don't know what to expect from an LDR.
How do I know he's not unsure about this?: ( (link)
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According to what he says, i dont think he is unsure..
However, from personal experience i have come to the conclusion that ldr dont really work..i mean there are, of course, exceptions but in general its very hard to keep. You will probably get bored eventully because its hard to keep the emotions if you have no physical contact and calling each other is not gonna do anything.
Also, no offense but the fact that he's talking about marriage and kids is creepy. I mean you've been dating for ONLY a month!
I think you trust him a bit too much. You cant know someone in a month.
I wish you good luck and if the distance ruins your relationship, please dont get too upset..LDR are hard and plus you will learn a new lesson!! All bad things happen for a reason and usually teach us something.
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Okay , so I really really really like this guy who is 17. I'm 14 . He turns 18 & 3 months later I turn 15. I've already talked to my parents about it, and they litterally have no problem with it ( I was so surprised ) but his mom does a little bit. She just doesnt want him to get in trouble.. I live in NC. I just want to know the laws of dating a minor. He's like the other half of me, we are like Bestfriends. & we've already had the talk about sex and stuff. There's none of that until the time & age is right.. He told me he would never make me do anything i wouldn't want to do. I trust him and we are happy. We don't date yet though, I just don't know what to do. Is the age difference bad? Would people look at us weird? should i care what people think? ): I'll love to hear all your advice and opinions (: . (link)
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No, the age difference is perfectly fine,
. Im 14 and my boyfriend is 18. Its only 4 years!
Your parents dont mind him being older so what's the problem? Don't think about his mom..she should be happy about him and she should accept his decision.
I don't think people will look at you weird but
i do know that you shouldn't care about other people's opinions. It's your life. Live it as you please!
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