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long distance!


Question Posted Thursday October 23 2014, 2:43 pm

I've been dating this mutual friend of mine for about a month now.I Knew him through my best friend.I had met him a couple of times and then started talking over the phone and now he's in Europe doing his post graduation. Its been a long distance relationship.Im new to this and I don't know how to go about a few things and what to understand when he says a few things.
He says he really likes me and says "always be mine".
He talks about having kids and getting married and tells me that I'm the one.
Every time we talk he tells me he misses me really badly! I can't stop but think " is he unsure about this " cause he keeps telling me he misses me. We talk dirty stuff over the phone. We are 22 years old. I don't know what to expect from an Ldr.I have my moments of doubts and he assures me that we will make it work.am I over thinking this? We talk regularly and the communication is good. He's far away and I don't know what to expect from an LDR.
How do I know he's not unsure about this?: (


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HopelessLife answered Sunday October 26 2014, 7:58 pm:
According to what he says, i dont think he is unsure..
However, from personal experience i have come to the conclusion that ldr dont really work..i mean there are, of course, exceptions but in general its very hard to keep. You will probably get bored eventully because its hard to keep the emotions if you have no physical contact and calling each other is not gonna do anything.
Also, no offense but the fact that he's talking about marriage and kids is creepy. I mean you've been dating for ONLY a month!
I think you trust him a bit too much. You cant know someone in a month.
I wish you good luck and if the distance ruins your relationship, please dont get too upset..LDR are hard and plus you will learn a new lesson!! All bad things happen for a reason and usually teach us something.

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